MzDarkSkin:

I hope she sues for alimony and emotional distress  .

MzDarkSkin:

"For better or for worse" eh? Well if they can 'weather the storm' and stay together through thick and thin, kudos!
If not then it's an unfortunate way to end such a long marriage but it wouldn't do them any good to force the issue. I just feel sorry for the children.  

I am not sure how I would react though. Seeing that child and the other woman and being oblivious to the facts for years would probably be like a forum of mockery and the ultimate type of betrayal to me granted I am sure the wife and the mistress have had talks like "girls" and the mistress knew of their problems. Then only for the wife to be the last one to realize the woman she confided or put trust in, is the other woman. It's really messed up.

should she proceed with the divorce i hope she sues for alimony and emotional distress .

omo_to_dun:

No honey, she wouldn't. She is a Kennedy; ergo, she is rich! She already moved out of the house; now that's class. Some other broke woman would have thrown the guy out.

Cool. i just hope you noticed the 'cheesy' smilies which, if i post them, are a sign of humor or sarcasm.  

@Nekai ABSOLUTELY!  [ref. to what you bolded and commented on]

and I agree it seems he used her family name although I won't say there wasn't any attraction or perhaps love, but
being married in the Kennedy family is def. a complimentary for someone with the political ambitions this former 'Terminator' have/had, sadly it looks like SHE WON'T "be back!"  .

Blazay:

No. I would not.
For such a man can kill you.
I prefer an 'open' cheat to a 'closet' cheat.
With someone I do not know. . . not with someone living in my HOME. . . ON MY PAYROLL!

I don't like SNAKES OR PIGS!

Arnold is both combined.

No, I would not be a hypocrite either. . . you have a choice.
Stay or leave!
So do I.

omo_to_dun:

No honey, she wouldn't. She is a Kennedy; ergo, she is rich! She already moved out of the house; now that's class. Some other broke woman would have thrown the guy out.

Blazay:

[size=20pt]NA WHO KNOW MAN DEY KILL AM!!!! [/size]


No. I would not.
For such a man can kill you.
I prefer an 'open' cheat to a 'closet' cheat.
With someone I do not know. . . not with someone living in my HOME. . . OR ON MY PAYROLL!

I don't like SNAKES OR PIGS!

Arnold is both combined.

No, I would not be a hypocrite either. . . you have a choice.
Stay or leave!
So do I.

^Chima!!! 

Nekai:

I would still sue. She had to leave her career as an award winning journalist because he decided to run for governor. The network said that it would be a conflict of interest. She said in an interview that she wanted to make a name for herself and not depend on her family, so it was important for her to work hard. When several women came forward accusing him of being sexually innapropriate with them she stood by his side and publicly defended him instead of walking away. Little did she know that at that time the housekeeper's young child was really for her husband. I'm sure this played a part in getting elected. Also, why throw him out? Her husband and the housekeeper have been carousing in that house for 2 decades right under her nose, I'm sure she wants a fresh start.

"I wouldn't be standing here if this man weren't an A-plus human being. I wouldn't be taking my time, I wouldn't have left my job that I love, I wouldn't be doing any of this if I didn't believe in this man." And her praises of him continues on.

http://www.cnn.com/2003/ALLPOLITICS/10/03/shriver/

This is what she said about him when the allegations came out in 2003, not knowing that he was hiding this huge secret from her.

Good point maddam. 
The humiliation she feels I imagine must be out of this world! 
Not even Hilary Clinton can top this! I am a firm believer in 'standing by
your man' but not if he insists on making you a laughing/pity stock. Some men really have no shame!

@Cock sityoazzdown 

MzDarkSkin:

"For better or for worse" eh? Well if they can 'weather the storm' and stay together through thick and thin, kudos!
If not then it's an unfortunate way to end such a long marriage but it wouldn't do them any good to force the issue. I just feel sorry for the children. 

I am not sure how I would react though. Seeing that child and the other woman and being oblivious to the facts for years would probably be like a forum of mockery and the ultimate type of betrayal to me granted I am sure the wife and the mistress have had talks like "girls" and the mistress knew of their problems. Then only for the wife to be the last one to realize the woman she confided or put trust in, is the other woman. It's really messed up.

should she proceed with the divorce i hope she sues for alimony and emotional distress   .

r231:

Mr, Cork:

whats the big deal about sleepin with another chick? but instead, the black woman  make big deal outter it.  

190:

A REAL WOMAN CHEATS ON HER BOYFRIEND AND A REAL BOYFRIEND NEVER COMPLAINS ABOUT IT ( Penguine dictionary pg 22, chapter 190 )

Mrs.Chima:


I hear you though however it won't change the fact that he fathered a child outside of his marriage and the children suffering personal trauma surrounding their parents' media frenzy.

Mz Darkskin!  

I understand. I'd also like to say, and I hate to take away from this story but take Rita and Bob Marley for example.
When they split up she had three children for him and one that was hers whom he adopted which made four. Even then he moved on
to a white woman named Cindy Breakspeare who was "Miss Jamaica" at that time and went on the tv and DENIED ever being married to Rita.
He paraded around with his oyinbo and impregnated her resulting in Damien Marley. When Bob was on his death bed, that is when he called to Rita,
made things right and apologized to her. Even with that humiliation Rita still took in ALL of Bob's 'out side of marriage' children and even embraced Damian who she sees as her 'son' as well.

I know it can happen this thing we call acceptance. I am just hoping that Arnold's wife won't take her anger out on the child! Frigg his/her mother!   but she shouldn't be mad at the child and pull her children from them.

Nekai:

When your white chick has a baby for your gardener we will celebrate with you.

Look at this one

MzDarkSkin:

I understand. I'd also like to say, and I hate to take away from this story but take Rita and Bob Marley for example.
When they split up she had three children for him and one that was hers whom he adopted which made four. Even then he moved on
to a white woman named Cindy Breakspeare who was "Miss Jamaica" at that time and went on the tv and DENIED ever being married to Rita.
He paraded around with his oyinbo and impregnated her resulting in Damien Marley. When Bob was on his death bed, that is when he called to Rita,
made things right and apologized to her. Even with that humiliation Rita still took in ALL of Bob's 'out side of marriage' children and even embraced Damian who she sees as her 'son' as well.

I know it can happen this thing we call acceptance. I am just hoping that Arnold's wife won't take her anger out on the child! Frigg his/her mother!   but she shouldn't be mad at the child and pull her children from them.

Nekai:

^

hiss

Mrs.Chima:

Exactly.  Angry or upset people do not realize what they are doing until it is too late.  She is upset right now and I can understand what she is going through.  She may have not expected something like that to happen but that why we shouldn't put anything pass ANYONE.  

so true.  
i just pray that something like this NEVER happens to me!
As I stated, I am not sure how I would act but if my temper gets the best of me. . .trust me  

omo_to_dun:

@ MzDarkSkin

I honestly did not know that those white-teethed smileys are an indication of sarcasm. In America, women don't joke with suing. Even if they don't need the money, some would still want to put the man through some form of emotional stress.   (That wasn't sarcasm)

lol@ Omo's LATE reply.
Well you didn't know but you do now! 

Since we are on the subject and after having read Nekai's reply,
I say if he humiliated her and allowed her to alter her lifestyle for him
only to play games, a real man would pay up, so should he. E.O.S.

MzDarkSkin:

lol@ Omo's LATE reply.

omo_to_dun:

I was fooling around on other threads. I honestly thought everyone would have gone to bed, it's 1:20AM. I still don't believe you; I still think that you would sue that man, based on principle and, honey, let's face it, you're Jamaican. My mother lives in London and she is a very tough woman; Chei, seriously tough! But she is scared of Jamaicans. LOL.

Hmmm. so let me get this straight, I am Jamaican (half) and because of that I would sue for alimony?
Is this part of my genetic make up and I am unaware? cause I could have sworn that requesting alimony is an act
or a settlement following a divorce and not a cultural custom. Didn't know Jamaica or fear of Jamaicans
pertained to this issue. Interesting.   funny I never bring up stereotypes on this forum, somehow I get them.

And btw you don't have to believe me that is the least of my worries.

MzDarkSkin:

Hmmm. so let me get this straight, I am Jamaican (half) and because of that I would sue for alimony?
Is this part of my genetic make up and I am unaware? cause I could have sworn that requesting alimony is an act
or a settlement following a divorce and not a cultural custom. Didn't know Jamaica or fear of Jamaicans
pertained to this issue. Interesting.   funny I never bring up stereotypes on this forum, somehow I get them.

And btw you don't have to believe me that is the least of my worries.