LilMissFavvy:
Who told you that marriage is only valid with a clergy man? Not every one does church marriage. Traditional marriage is a valid marriage, Registery marriage is a valid marriage.

Yes, the men in the past subjugated/oppressed women for their own evil/selfish interest. That is part of what gave birth to feminism where women are trying to take back their rights and save themselves, so telling me the men gave women the opportunities they have is trash. You should rather say women are taking back their rights and opportunities which men withheld decades past.

musicwriter:


No equality in marriage? Said who? The Nigerian constitution?

reddingtonblack:




Regardless of what adam n eve did, have you ever wondered why Adam took a larger share of the curse, perhaps to whom much is given much is expected. man did not decide to be the head, God made man the head, adam did not ask eve to submit, it was all God's idea.
Redpill is not a movement to re enthrone men, its a mere wake up course to sensitize n brace men from manipulations, more like preventing occurence of what eve did to mankind.
should in that context denotes "no choice"... as an emotional thinker i don't expect you to know " submissive is non-negotiable".
Men don't have to fight to subjugate women last i check we are the one, women run to for job, protection, financial security & urgent 2k .... the number of male CEOs are incomparable the female ceos so we own ur asses, what is real not attainable is women is the future cos out of five letters we own three.
I don't have to subjugate my babe, as long as i keep it real n stay a MAN she follows me lead.

ORIENTATION101:
God Almighty

pacespot:
The fact is there is no way a marriage will hold without one party willing to submit to the other. If you think as a woman you have a man under your control because you provide for most of the family needs, he is seeing the marriage as a bondage to him and the moment he is financially capable he will break himself free from that trap unless the wife adjusts herself to be submissive to him by then. I'm talking about real men o, I'm not talking about the simps

meobizy:
All parties have too much time on their hands. The man is in his 70s, he’ll soon die and go like politicians his age. There is no way to change his mind on something because old dogs can refuse to learn new tricks plus he strikes me as the arrogant type.

BRATISLAVA:


What a limited world view.

Women don't "run" to men for jobs. You kept women out of modern jobs for a century for archaic purposes and filled all the roles, not because you were competent but because you were men and thought less of women. Tell us what would happen if women made sure men stay at home for centuries, and men suddenly had an opportunity to get jobs; wouldn't they be "running" to women for jobs?

There's no point discussing with you on any other things you raised, because you are coming from the usual angle of men, which doesn't make much sense under scrutiny.

And, if she begins to earn more than you, you will be saying something else and unable to follow her lead.

We all know you're subjugating her one way or another with the type of mindset you bear about women. Another narcissist who claims he's leading.

Once you cannot level up to the thinking plane, you self acclaimed real men fall back on your red pill talking points: emotional beings, control and coercion, menstrual beings, weaker vessels, etc

Get a daughter and tell her those talking points. If you don't, one ignorant, sexist, moronic, least IQ red pill sheep will anyway.

reddingtonblack:




As a matter of fact, do you know views are limitation of angles n standing point, men are logical hence why we see things clearer nd make decisions that will benefit all. if a man hit jackpot today as he thinkin of upgrading himself he is also thinking of a woman. buh give a woman 1trillion she will only upgrade herself.
If asking her to cook for both of us and touching her for sex substitute your own definition of subjugation well my dear i do that alot nd imma proud of it,
Marriage has it rule & conventions that regulate both to M & F, if as a lady you feel tew big to adhere simply avoid it, kó fa íja naw. moreover feminist are alway out to tell us there life is perfect, what i don't understand is why they still want men(scum) in there perfect lives. stay off marriage these be una final warning

ORIENTATION101:
Weak clapback. Would have been more sound if they counter oyedepo with verifiable biblical passage to drive home their points.
The truth is you feminist dont have business in marriage.
Feminist movement was for economic and political liberation for women.
As far as marriage is concerned there is no equality in marriage. You re only advised to love each other as spouses and be submissive to head of the house which is the man

BRATISLAVA:


If I read a word of that, I'd be lying to you.

Can't read anything from a semen leaking being. Grab your animal skin, luv, twill help you lead better.

Do well to tell your daughter whatever you typed above. It will affect her and define her state of being female. Save your future responses for her, because that's who it applies to and who will read it. And if you don't, one moronic, sexist, least IQ red pill sheep will help do so.

Meanwhile, it doesn't concern me, not in the least.

djon78:



You said

When a man genuinely love his woman she will submit is extreme fallacy

Many men that so called loved there wives how did it end?

I have berated redpillers
But they have the best idiologies in dealing with women

A man will love his so called woman and she will give him all the hell out there

Very many women are damaged goods

Adaorababy:
Mumu women. There can't be two captains in a ship. If you're not willing to submit then don't marry. It's very simple. From time immemorial, men are always men and women women. No matter how we continue to talk about this equality, we can't do the lots men do. Although, some of us are very brave and illustrious, this doesn't still equate us to be same level with men.There's no need talking about unproductivity of some of his employees. I believe also this unproductivity led to them being counselled out of the job.

Nwamaikpe and Slawomirr, what do you think about this?

Takeproft:
The pastor is a slowpoke for saying that. And the feminists Are a confused bunch for looking for a stake in a CHURCH. Wetin concern feminism and religion? All religions are misogynistic. What they ought to do is campaign against women going to church not women getting an equal stake in religion. That will take another 1000 years to happen

Kayclite:

I don't care for feminist topics, normally.
But honestly, Kevin Samuels really taught me a lot.

Since when the Africans/Blacks have any such history of slaving Our women.

Ijaya123:
Who still listens to Feminists? Maybe those who want to end up frustrated and devastated.

Oyedepo was right anyway. You cannot be a feminist and still be practicing Christianity. What both preaches are at variance to each other.

Simply put, if you’re a feminist, dont marry.



Feminism has everything to do with marriage. Maybe you should tell us the definition that Nigerian women have given feminism. We can take it up from there.