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Please Advise Me by temijoshuaa(m): 2:52pm On Aug 14, 2021
Guys, please I need your advise.

I will keep this very very very short.

I am a 29 year old guy who dated a girl for 8 years and decided to cut the relationship short.

I had visited her parents and even planned introduction, but I had doubts in my mind about the relationship, and I had to end things.

Now, I have a problem. My current job is a contract one, and I have been working there for five years with nothing to show for it.

My ex’s father has been calling me, telling me about the fact that he can get me a job with a multinational, as he has links and they are willing to assist me.

The offer is tempting as it will certainly change my life for the better. And I am also ripe for marriage too. If na love, inasmuch as I can cope with her for 8 years in a relationship, wahala no go dey.

Please, should her marry her as the major reason will be because of the job offer.
Re: Please Advise Me by michealdeco: 2:59pm On Aug 14, 2021
Marry her grin
Re: Please Advise Me by Jmarjr(m): 3:09pm On Aug 14, 2021
OP its mostly not about the job offer, but marriage is a 4eva tin. If u can cope with her den u can marry her, bt if u cnt. Beta liv. Ur sanity n peace of mind is very valuable. My 2 cents.
Re: Please Advise Me by Jeon(f): 3:10pm On Aug 14, 2021
temijoshuaa:
Guys, please I need your advise.

I will keep this very very very short.

I am a 29 year old guy who dated a girl for 8 years and decided to cut the relationship short.

I had visited her parents and even planned introduction, but I had doubts in my mind about the relationship, and I had to end things.

Now, I have a problem. My current job is a contract one, and I have been working there for five years with nothing to show for it.

My ex’s father has been calling me, telling me about the fact that he can get me a job with a multinational, as he has links and they are willing to assist me.

The offer is tempting as it will certainly change my life for the better. And I am also ripe for marriage too. If na love, inasmuch as I can cope with her for 8 years in a relationship, wahala no go dey.

Please, should her marry her as the major reason will be because of the job offer.

You are not serious,not in relationship but in life. How can you work for 5years yet you have nothing to show.

Rozcol will tell you what to do.

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Re: Please Advise Me by bigcee(m): 3:13pm On Aug 14, 2021
Give me her contact let me try something.

Re: Please Advise Me by DaddyRochie1642: 3:26pm On Aug 14, 2021
Nigeria of nowadays is all about Survival,

Oga if you're truly a Nigerian and you agree with me that the current Nigeria is all about survival, then you have a very easy choice to make.

Don't Thank me.


The Lord is your strength.
Re: Please Advise Me by MufasaLion: 3:29pm On Aug 14, 2021
Take the job and decide on what to do with your heart next. Never let your emotions cloud the judgement.
Re: Please Advise Me by Nobody: 3:40pm On Aug 14, 2021
Jeon:


You are not serious,not in relationship but in life. How can you work for 5years yet you have nothing to show.

Rozcol will tell you what to do.
If we don't have his type how will the dream of "the future is female" be realized.
Re: Please Advise Me by Tolu181: 4:02pm On Aug 14, 2021
Na forge forge go kill this op.
Re: Please Advise Me by Juliusmomoh: 4:53pm On Aug 14, 2021
Rozcol Joan Fati2001
Are thesame moniker operate by one pothole head girl.
#kogi
Re: Please Advise Me by yuping(m): 4:58pm On Aug 14, 2021
Dated someone daughter for 8 years before you find fault hmmmm nawaooo I won't judge you but the evil you have done is enough let them no you only need the job, put yourself in her shoe, no be juju be this.
What sin has she commit to deserve you, but if you have money in life maybe things might change the truth is you don't deserve her.
But me ooo I will always choose my peace of mind over anything.
Do whatever makes you happy now and won't regret in future.
Re: Please Advise Me by fati2001(m): 5:37pm On Aug 14, 2021
Juliusmomoh:
Rozcol Joan Fati2001
Are thesame moniker operate by one pothole head girl.
#kogi

shey ur MUMU never do Abi?
Re: Please Advise Me by Monogamy: 6:56pm On Aug 14, 2021
Is your ex inlaw asking you to marry his daughter before linking you with the job?
Re: Please Advise Me by Goodlyhrt(m): 9:32pm On Aug 14, 2021
Bait!

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