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Polyamory? by tutuwater(m): 12:45pm On May 21, 2011
Is it possible to be in a loving romantic relationship with more than one partners?
Do you know of any polyamorous person?. If yes, how do u rate their concept of love? [color=#006600][/color]
Re: Polyamory? by Dyt(f): 1:42pm On May 21, 2011
Picks nose
Re: Polyamory? by tutuwater(m): 2:15pm On May 21, 2011
Dyt:

Picks nose
what in d name of dumb is this?
Re: Polyamory? by intelligen(m): 2:49pm On May 21, 2011
Funny post,lost for words,help me out
Re: Polyamory? by tpia5: 2:50pm On May 21, 2011
there's more to life than just sex.


i hope.

however, carry on.
Re: Polyamory? by tutuwater(m): 4:35pm On May 21, 2011
tpia@:

there's more to life than just sex.
Of course there is more to life than sex but there is joy in knowing that you can be cared for, loved by several partners. When one misbehaves you have other shoulders to fall on.


i hope.

however, carry on.
Re: Polyamory? by tpia5: 7:01pm On May 21, 2011
^Are you an invalid?
Re: Polyamory? by 190: 7:02pm On May 21, 2011
tutuwater:

what in d name of dumb is this?


ROTFLMFAOOOOO!! grin grin
Re: Polyamory? by tutuwater(m): 7:11pm On May 21, 2011
tpia@:

^Are you an invalid?
nope.
I wish you and your partners the same. wink
Re: Polyamory? by tpia5: 7:57pm On May 21, 2011
^Just wondering why you're so emotionally needy, that's all.

Have you ever considered volunteering to help people who need emotional support?

People with disabilities, in difficult situations, etc.
Re: Polyamory? by MMM2(m): 8:59pm On May 21, 2011
:-x
Re: Polyamory? by IZUKWU(m): 9:32pm On May 21, 2011
I am trying to make sense out of this nonsense.
Re: Polyamory? by Nobody: 9:43pm On May 21, 2011
@poster
it happens everyday thanks to the GREED of people. also some people out there are addicted to being in love and will gladly seek for "a fix" rather than break up with their partner.

think about it for a minute: "some men love women for different reasons. a married man can love his wife for the fact that she gave him a few kids, but yet, go out there and falls in love with his mistress because she has a banging body and is the kind of freak that he requires."

leaving his wife is out of the question AND breaking up with his sugar baby is inconceivable.

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Re: Polyamory? by tutuwater(m): 10:14pm On May 21, 2011
MRbrownJAY:

@poster
it happens everyday thanks to the GREED of people. also some people out there are addicted to being in love and will gladly seek for "a fix" rather than break up with their partner.

think about it for a minute: "some men love women for different reasons. a married man can love his wife for the fact that she gave him a few kids, but yet, go out there and falls in love with his mistress because she has a banging body and is the kind of freak that he requires."

leaving his wife is out of the question AND breaking up with his sugar baby is inconceivable.
so you consider a man in the scenario above as both cowardly and greedy.
To me it is more of a win win to everybody involved.
The husband get to have a loving wife and good sex from the mistress.
And no one of the trio gets the exclusive benefits.
Re: Polyamory? by MrsChima(f): 10:21pm On May 21, 2011
What do whores know about love? undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Polyamory? by Topsoldier: 10:31pm On May 21, 2011
Mrs.Chima:

What do whores know about love? undecided undecided undecided undecided
Mr.Chima is back. Today she is Mrs.Chima. cheesy
Re: Polyamory? by MrsChima(f): 10:39pm On May 21, 2011
Topsoldier:

Mr.Chima is back. Today she is Mrs.Chima. cheesy

You was worrying about me? shocked shocked shocked Today you are still broke. wink
Re: Polyamory? by tpia5: 10:46pm On May 21, 2011
Some people really are too old for the kind of posts they make here.

That's how abacha died from taking their advice.
Re: Polyamory? by Busybody2(f): 11:50pm On May 21, 2011
tutuwater:

Is it possible to be in a loving romantic relationship with more than one partners?
Do you know of any polyamorous person?. If yes, how do u rate their concept of love? [color=#006600][/color]


People do it in the States, especially New Yorkers, the only difference is that they let all the men know and don't hide it from them. They say it brings out the competitiveness in the men and let them know who is willing to commit and who was just on the scene to hit and run undecided
Re: Polyamory? by Dsense(m): 2:21am On May 22, 2011
MRbrownJAY:

@poster
it happens everyday thanks to the GREED of people. also some people out there are addicted to being in love and will gladly seek for "a fix" rather than break up with their partner.

think about it for a minute: "some men love women for different reasons. a married man can love his wife for the fact that she gave him a few kids, but yet, go out there and falls in love with his mistress because she has a banging body and is the kind of freak that he requires."

leaving his wife is out of the question AND breaking up with his sugar baby is inconceivable.

OP.

Follow the above tip,

[size=3pt]This bro no dey tire sef grin[/size]
Re: Polyamory? by tutuwater(m): 4:57am On May 22, 2011
Mrs.Chima:

What do whores know about love? undecided undecided undecided undecided
am not talking about multiple sexual partners but many loves.
Presently i have two ladies professing true love to me, should i run away because it is not possible to love more than one person at a time.
Re: Polyamory? by tutuwater(m): 5:04am On May 22, 2011
Busy_body:


People do it in the States, especially New Yorkers, the only difference is that they let all the men know and don't hide it from them. They say it brings out the competitiveness in the men and let them know who is willing to commit and who was just on the scene to hit and run undecided
do you know any personally?
Am happy for them.
Am happy for any person out their that can find true love. Happier still for anyone that can manage to find true love with more than one person.
Re: Polyamory? by tpia5: 5:09am On May 22, 2011
am not talking about multiple sexual partners but many loves

you need to rephrase your thread title and original post then, cos it seems like you're discussing alternative lifestyles.
Re: Polyamory? by MrsChima(f): 5:59am On May 22, 2011
tutuwater:

am not talking about multiple sexual partners but many loves.
Presently i have two ladies professing true love to me, should i run away because it is not possible to love more than one person at a time.

Let me rephrase what I said, WHAT DO YOU (LovePeddler) know about love? undecided undecided undecided
Re: Polyamory? by tutuwater(m): 9:17am On May 22, 2011
Mrs.Chima:

Let me rephrase what I said, WHAT DO YOU (LovePeddler) know about love? undecided undecided undecided

you dont have to list your attributes LovePeddler CHIMA to make a valid point. You just have to ask nicely.
What most people think is love is not love at all, it is the feeling of wanting to be loved.
Loving someone is like giving a gift at christmas, you do it cause it makes you feel good, they dont have to say 'I love you' back for you to feel that love.
Re: Polyamory? by tutuwater(m): 9:38am On May 22, 2011
tpia@:

you need to rephrase your thread title and original post then, cos it seems like you're discussing alternative lifestyles.
actually the title is appropriate
poly= many
amory= love
polyamory= many loves
love is not sex, sex is only used to express love.
Re: Polyamory? by Nobody: 8:37pm On May 22, 2011
tutuwater:

so you consider a man in the scenario above as both cowardly and greedy.
To me it is more of a win win to everybody involved.
The husband get to have a loving wife and good sex from the mistress.
And no one of the trio gets the exclusive benefits.

care to share with us what is the wife WINNING in all this?!
the wifey will only be "winning" if she has her own lovers on the side.

its all about being honest with A) who you are and B) what you seek in life.
Re: Polyamory? by MrsChima(f): 1:12am On May 23, 2011
tutuwater:


you dont have to list your attributes LovePeddler CHIMA to make a valid point. You just have to ask nicely.
What most people think is love is not love at all, it is the feeling of wanting to be loved.
Loving someone is like giving a gift at christmas, you do it cause it makes you feel good, they dont have to say 'I love you' back for you to feel that love. 

Wrong chick Nigga, you are on the LovePeddler boat alone.  Did you get tested?   lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

Whoring and loving are two different actions. There is nothing loving about whoring. Wake up your kini is talking too much.
Re: Polyamory? by tutuwater(m): 1:02pm On May 23, 2011
@ mr jay in polyamory the wife is not restricted.


@chima. I ll ignore you.
Re: Polyamory? by Nobody: 9:08pm On May 23, 2011
tutuwater:

@ mr jay in polyamory the wife is not restricted.

thats not the point, the point is to know what you and your partner are "allowed" to do (since this aint part of the vows they originally took).

men dont usually tell their spouse that she can go and sh.ag who she pleases, they simply go and fukc the world and pretend to be faithful.
Re: Polyamory? by MrsChima(f): 9:53am On May 24, 2011
tutuwater:

@ mr jay in polyamory the wife is not restricted.


@chima. I ll ignore you.

Good idea LovePeddler. wink
Re: Polyamory? by mrsruddy: 3:46pm On Jun 05, 2011
D-sense:

OP.

Follow the above tip,

[size=3pt]This bro no dey tire sef grin[/size]
polyamory is not the case for you here.yes these two women love u and if u choose to love them both back, thats your choice. but as you have described polyamory is a relationship of many loves i.e. everyone in the relationship loves everyone else.this would mean dat these two girls dat love you must also love each other.

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