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If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by bodybuilder: 10:00pm On Aug 29, 2021
Funny question. Hypothetically if women see broke men and successful men as the same. they had the same quality and quantity of women, will men be so motivated to work hard? There a saying that even most don't like to admit, the major motivation for men to seek success is to get the type of females they want?

It is even evident in our society. Most young men started chasing success after being rejected by the girl they like or being generally unlucky with women. Some even go into crime to attain this success.

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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by WeNoGoDie(m): 10:07pm On Aug 29, 2021
This is the lowest of the low type of gutter mentality I ever seen on anyone recently.

If men chase success to impress women in your own part of the world, that doesn't exist in my own part of the world please.

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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by TarOrfeeek: 10:10pm On Aug 29, 2021
I need a house
I need to eat good food
I need to transport myself
I need to leave a legacy
My immediate family has needs
My community has needs
My religion needs my success

But I'm working hard to afford coitus and emotional instability.
You people are just something else.
grin

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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by davidant: 10:11pm On Aug 29, 2021
That should be one of the reasons not the most important reason because they will milk you dey
Infact being successful alone is enough reason to chase Sucess
Shalom
Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by Crossroad1(m): 10:19pm On Aug 29, 2021
Living a comfortable life is enough reason to work hard

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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by bodybuilder: 10:24pm On Aug 29, 2021
All of una dey cap cap. But na rejection make many boys start yahoo grin

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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by KELVINXY: 10:27pm On Aug 29, 2021
OP have you ever gotten so hungry and with no hope of food and no money in your pocket.? sad
If YES then that’s enough reason to work harder and not even hard.! angry

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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by internationalman(m): 10:37pm On Aug 29, 2021
With the kind of questions you have been asking lately it's evident that the body you are building @ your moniker is to impress women..

It's like you are just reaching puberty. I can feel the raging hormones about to bust out the sexuality in you...
Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by YouandiAllofus: 10:38pm On Aug 29, 2021
Working hard to be successful is for the future of the kids, to provide a better living for the family, to be able to pursue all of life goals with decisiveness and not to please or attract a woman as you might end up defeating the purpose of success achieved.

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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:45pm On Aug 29, 2021
Gutter red pill mentality
Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by WEEDdemgirls(f): 11:46pm On Aug 29, 2021
I doubt. Imagine a world without females. Tis gonna be boring , no competition , no ambition , no zeal to say the least . Y'all live your lives to impress us. That's how God programmed it. and that's how its gonna be cuz we(team girls) run the world.
Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by Martinez39s(m): 12:33am On Aug 30, 2021
bodybuilder:
All of una dey cap cap. But na rejection make many boys start yahoo grin
Rejection made many boys go to the gym. The mindset of being successful for one's best interest is rare among men, many are working to get women.

Only few men improve themselves for themselves.

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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by CaveAdullam: 6:11am On Aug 30, 2021
Understandsting human nature will be incredibly important in understanding the relationship between the male and female species.

Funnily, tracing it back to the roots, that is, to an evolutionary basis, it is true men do these things for women because it leads to a successful passing of their genes from one generation to another. Evolution in males (tallness, broadness, energetic, ambitiousness etc) are a result of women's preferences in men. If women never found interest in these men, Men wouldn't have evolved to possess these traits, at least, on average. If men never preferred fertility, beauty, youthfulness in women, women wouldn't have evolved to possess these traits on average. As a result, natural selection selected for the genes causing these traits. This is an unconscious, automatic processing. Our ancestors didn't sat down deliberating on these genes and traits, it is about the the survival and reproduction of the fittest genes.

On a cerebral aspect, that is, conscious, deliberative reasoning and thoughts, Men and women think they do these things for themselves and well-being. Of course it is true, because "evolution is survival of the fittest", but this is not totally correct. It is the survival and reproduction of the fittest genes". For these genes to survive an organism must do the right thing, however, the genes are the ones sponsoring this, and waiting for natural selection to do the finishing touch by taking them to the next generation.

As we all know, women on the average don't settle down for men that are poor, disabled or weak. Ditto for men. Because doing so will hamper their ability to produce fresh and fit offsprings which will pass their genes to the next generation. Settling down for the worst or least means eradication from the gene pool, hence, must go for the best mates.

Men will always be ambitious because women had set the standard that only ambitious men will reproduce; and women, protect their beauty and fertility because that's the standard in getting an ambitious man to mate with.

Nevertheless, as a result of culture, science and technology, the weak still manages to pass their genes. But even from a microscopic mode, mates still see the "best" in their weaknesses.

Thanks.

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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by Sonnobax15(m): 7:52am On Aug 30, 2021
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Op,have you ever walked around your house without a dime in your pocket,let alone on your account...No friend,even your own family members have departed you simply because you've got nothoto offer to them...The painful part came when you heard the girl whom you so much loved is getting married soon to a yahoo guy who's made already......Op,if these things no reach to ginger any guyman to hustle him way to success,say na banny dey ginger am,then I wouldn't hesitate to say this to such person--"your village people don win world cup for your Matter"

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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by Nobody: 8:20am On Aug 31, 2021
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Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by Caramia2020(m): 8:39am On Aug 31, 2021
It's only a narrow minded fellow dat will seek wealth in order to impress others. I work hard n harder in order to enjoy my life n also provide excessively for my offsprings, my family n beloved mother, n also enjoy my old age by investing.
Re: If Women Didn't Care About Success? Will Men Still Work Hard. by Divoc19(f): 9:38am On Aug 31, 2021
No they won't.
Men are naturally complacent until something like girl/women wakes them up.

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