ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

If your father made the promise to the Christian God, I see no reason why you should pay. He died before he could pay, God understands. His promise should not be your burden! Whatsoever is flogging you in your sleep is not your father.

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

leofab:
yet again someone expressing their person view in behalf of God.

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..


That's not your dad you're seeing, that's a guilty feeling from your subconscious manifesting itself in your dream...

Your dad has gone to rest, the rest do not bother with worldly debts, least of all to a religious institute

Remove the feeling of guilt from your mind and he will stop appearing to remind you
How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

Kobojunkie:
In the ground where you were buried or dumped.

Jaqenhghar:

He wasnt the one owing now

FlipModeSquade:
Which beating?

Does that even make sense?

A ghost physically beating a man?

This kind of nonsense is among the reasons I became an Atheist..

Check the guy well,,

He is either psychotic or suffering from cerebral malaria.

But trust Africans,to subscribe everything to the Supernatural.

Vickyvice:
Your father is dead and gone. Your dad wasn't d one who appeared to u in whatever form. He has returned to dust in all entirety like Adam and Eve. Hope and pray for the resurrection on last day. hopefully, ur dad may be among righteous ones. It's d hope your dad, like every other person,both dead and alive still has. Forget the lies by pastors say we go heaven when we die. Na lie be that. I repeat, NA BIG LIE and they ... Pastors know this too

emmyileri:

Man is made up of body soul and spirit. The body returned to dust and decay, the soul and spirit return to God if righteous and to hell if unrighteous.. All these will unite together at the coming of Jesus Christ. A new body with the soul and spirit that is in heaven will unite and will resurrect to life (righteous).. The soul and spirit of the unrighteous will unite with their body and resurrect to death (lake of fire). "And many of them that sleep in the dust of the earth shall awake, some to everlasting life, and some to shame and everlasting contempt." Daniel 12:2

Kobojunkie:
Man is not made of spirit from birth... He is born of Spirit only when and before, according to Jesus Christ, He enters into the Kingdom of God (or he is of God's Old Law) - John 3 vs 1 - 8 and Genesis 2 vs 6-7.

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!