James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

Expect an extraordinary kind of opened doors as soon as you redeemed the pledge he made.

He don't want you to miss the blessings. That's why he's rushing you. May be there's a force trying to use the unfulfilled pledge to rub you off the blessings. Reason he's doing everything to make u pay for the pledge.

Also let us know when the blessings will start flowing in.

This is ridiculous. Next time he appears, ask him if you were there when he took the loan. Ask him if the loan was ever in your interest. Ask him to rest in peace and allow you live in peace.

Try to find out more about the church he attended while he was alive. It may be an occultist church. God no dey use cane collect money from people.

EndBuhariNow:
I don't want to curse the dead, but next time he appears in your dream, ask him why he didn't pay it before dying... parents keep incuring debts on their children without even leaving anything for them to survive


Uselessness

It's not a curse. It's a fact. Why is a personal vow any of the son's concern? Isn't it between him and God? Or was the man in another kind of church?

But imagine if he were building an empire, wouldn't the son want to complete it? Children cannot only inherit good things. It seems that it's evil things that always seek to enforce their repayment schedules, though.

JuanDeDios:

So who is beating him? How do you EXPLAIN that or we should just forget that part?

1. Read your Bible first, u will be freed from all these superstitious beliefs. 2. Bible teaches that the dead know nothing. 3. Demons have a way of deceiving those who put faith that we get something that escapes the body to wherever after death 4. Bible teaches that we should not be surprised cos the hour/ time is coming in which dead are awaken from grave...yes read John 5 : 28/29 , 1st Cor 15 vs 1-12. Don't be deceived anymore by pastors.

James4358:
He told me the reason he made the pledge & am doing all i can to pay up this sunday coming.

I don't understand this? That is our Nigerian wahala. Your father made that pledge, he is dead. You did not make that pledge. Please focus on yourself. Also make the church understand your father made the pledge to God and only God can hold him accountable and he is with God now.

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

What if after paying the money and you realised that you were suffering from acute malaria!?
Tell your father to settle his debt over there if truly he own God money.
We have somebody like your father and we dey fine who go visit Aso rock spiritually.

Somebody might be using your father's face to perform the act, or spiritual wife can still react on such manner too.

I said it already, it's the Osogbo weed messing with OPs medulla oblongata else this is just comedy. And all of you on here justifying it with spiritual warfare are equally as daft. Funny the same spirit cant find his brother in Canada to bother but the burden has to be carried by the struggling one in Nigeria. Pure comedy. Nollywood should pick it up quick

Vickyvice:
1. Read your Bible first, u will be freed from all these superstitious beliefs. 2. Bible teaches that the dead know nothing. 3. Demons have a way of deceiving those who put faith that we get something that escapes the body to wherever after death 4. Bible teaches that we should not be surprised cos the hour/ time is coming in which dead are awaken from grave...yes read John 5 : 28/29 , 1st Cor 15 vs 1-12. Don't be deceived anymore by pastors.

As far as my question goes, 1, 2 and 4 are off-point rants based on some assumptions you've made for reasons of your own. 3 attempts to answer the question so I'll respond to it. I take it you believe op is suffering because demons have made him believe that "something that escaped" his father's body is punishing him. So demons have access to our minds and can make us believe things?

James4358, you are very stressed. You need therapy or see a psychiatrist

Op you better beat the hell out of him next time he shows up.

James4358:
Thanks, am hoping it would yield result.

Have faith

My question is, before this dream were you aware that he made a vow to the church?
And if not have you visited the church in question to check the record of his unredeemed vow.
And if your answer is yes it could be psychological manipulation, I think he would feel remorseful that he has not redeemed the plegde then it happened. Thoughts are powerful as words.

But if all of the above are not effective, seek help from a true man of God. Because life is spiritual and is only the spirit minded that gets along

dingbang:
You cant owe God

Sir, God bless you as majority of Nigerians are ignorant and Foolish!

Your dad owe igbese, e no fit pay before e d!e, e con dey flog you for night to pay igbese wey you no owe.

That your dad and his ghost must be really stupid and useless.

Useless ghost of a father. Why are you made to bear the burden of what you know nothing about?

Popsy spirit for locate that your brother too na, abi spirits no dey travel abroad?

This ur papa wey dey flog u like this, how much he keep for u b4 he die?
Why he go promise God wetin he no fit do?

FairlyUSEDpussy:


When next he appears........
Tell him to calm down and explain everything to him.....
After all u weren't there while he made the pledge.......

funny you..
However spiritual things don't work like that..
This matter needs prayers to understand who is really doing the flogging.. may not be his dad. Might even be an angel in his dad's form or a demon or human being in the kingdom of darkness..
Unfortunately he didn't mention the kind of church or the name

Kobojunkie:
A dead person's image tells you in a dream to go fulfill a vow and you self go carry yourself go do am? ROFLMAO

My late mum came and started making trouble with me, in the dream on why I refused to marry. He asked me to marry before she died and continued in my dreams. Life is no as many of us think. There are spheres that are different from our physical and material world.

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bo
uyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions will be greatly appreciated!

I had such experience when my father died. He appeared to me the night he died although we are yet to be informed then about his death. He said he is no longer in pains and is happy where he is. I was so happy when I woke up to share the dream with my mom but I couldn't because I had a lot of things to do that morning

only for my uncles to come 30minutes later to inform us that our dad is gone


so whether people believe your story or not is left for them; but I am a believe because I have witnessed so many of such occurrences

your father made the pledge and not you so when next he appears to him violent or not, reason with him to give you time redeem his pledge . Moreover you spent a lot to give him a befitting burial

Goalnaldo:
Hallucinations could be early signs of schizophrenia. Seek medical help ASAP before you end up in the left side of Yaba.

GBAM!! You hit the nail on the head. Sadly one cant help but have the premonition that Op is on his way there already unless some drastic change happens. And listen to the bunch trying to justify iot with spiritual warfare. A mind is definitely a terrible thing to waste.

BRATISLAVA:


It's not a curse. It's a fact. Why is a personal vow any of the son's concern? Isn't it between him and God? Or was the man in another kind of church?

But imagine if he were building an empire, wouldn't the son want to complete it? Children cannot only inherit good things. It seems that it's evil things that always seek to enforce their repayment schedules, though.

as he no leave anything for the young man he no suppose expect him to stranger himself just to appease him... some parent are like that

Psoul:


Expect an extraordinary kind of opened doors as soon as you redeemed the pledge he made.

He don't want you to miss the blessings. That's why he's rushing you. May be there's a force trying to use the unfulfilled pledge to rub you off the blessings. Reason he's doing everything to make u pay for the pledge.

Also let us know when the blessings will start flowing in.

What if it's an evil creature with a stick inside the father's skin now that he's a spiritual creature?

Go to his grave, and ask him to be patient with you. Explain your difficult situations to him in tears. And tell him you'll pay the money at month end

Olunmercy56:
I believe he can hear you, in your silence time with faith, tell him as if he is with you that he should please give you time to pay the money, promise him you will pay, with fasting and prayers he will not disturb you again

I did same thing too. My late old man always appeared to me in the dream looking unhappy over certain issues. Quitely in my room i begged him and since that day he stopped appearing to me in the dream... IT WORKS BRO.

EndBuhariNow:
as he no leave anything for the young man he no suppose expect him to stranger himself just to appease him... some parent are like that

Especially since he said the man used to be aggressive, he should've expected it. But why doesn't the man flog the elder brother?

OP said he's only 30 and doesn't want to be flogged again

Sorry for the pains but please I must tell you the truth if you love your life do well to pay that before it may be too late.Since you have made up your mind to pay it this month.What I will advise you is to go to God in prayer and call him and invite him while you are praying and praising God.You will not see him physically but he will be there.Tell him to give you the specific time to pay the money and make sure you pay.

true2god:
My late mum came and started making trouble with me, in the dream on why I refused to marry. He asked me to marry before she died and continued in my dreams. Life is no as many of us think. There are spheres that are different from our physical and material world.

Your late mother or your anxieties told you this?

The images you see in your dream are typically sourced from ideas, thoughts and images acquired from daily life stored there in your mind, and your imagination... stop letting them ruin your life and day.

Lol, that's not your dad, manipulation of the highest order b

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

U dey lie

Vickyvice:
Your father is dead and gone. Your dad wasn't d one who appeared to u in whatever form. He has returned to dust in all entirety like Adam and Eve. Hope and pray for the resurrection on last day. hopefully, ur dad may be among righteous ones. It's d hope your dad, like every other person,both dead and alive still has. Forget the lies by pastors say we go heaven when we die. Na lie be that, and they ... Pastors know this too

Where do we stay after death ?