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Ok

Make she go learn make upping

Kikikikikikikikikiki. When you comment with your main monicker that you form hard man redpiller on, I will know what to advice you about a jobless, student girlfriend that is totally dependent on you in real life.

On a serious note, she's not ready to learn or do anything. I can understand if funds hinder her, but a student, in the current academic space in Nigeria, totally without any ideas on what to do to make money??

Haba. Hehe. It's hard to believe. If sapa hold her, she'll put her hands to something orrr go the otherwise route...

And you put this in the romance section ! You setting yourself up for all manner of advice

1. Sex work :- https://thefinancialdiet.com/9-women-put-college-sex-work/

2. Bake and Sell Stuff.

May God send her a man that can properly and wholely take care of her.Nobody should quote me please.

Hook up

Iyaebe:
May God send her a man that can properly and wholely take care of her.Nobody should quote me please.

Iyaebe:
May God send her a man that can properly and wholely take care of her.Nobody should quote me please.

am capable of taking care of her but for how long when i can actually implement geeat ideas her so she can appreciate the effort of making money and spending it herself

Moony45:
am capable of taking care of her but for how long when i can actually implement geeat ideas her so she can appreciate the effort of making money and spending it herself

Maybe you would have understood better if I put the word WHOLELY in capital letters. It should be clearer now.

Then stop sending her money for a month. Let's see how she reacts after you tell her she'll need to fix herself up for a job. If she becomes toxic, I think that's it.

I don't understand how you guys manage to date people without jobs though.

Olo...

Must you share our personal life on Nairaland. You can use a different moniker, but I still know it's you because we discussed this not long ago...
I will soon find something to do, so don't bother yourself. The most important thing is that you bought the phone, so don't worry how to go about it....
But you should have told me before posting it here...

chatinent:
Then stop sending her money for a month. Let's see how she reacts after you tell her she'll need to fix herself up for a job. If she becomes toxic, I think that's it.

I don't understand how you guys manage to date people without jobs though.

I have started doing that. U have stopped regular data subscription for her and out her on fixed periods. She brought up attitude inbetween but i looked away.

Zzoh:
Must you share our personal life on Nairaland. You can use a different moniker, but I still know it's you because we discussed this not long ago...
I will soon find something to do, so don't bother yourself. The most important thing is that you bought the phone, so don't worry how to go about it....
But you should have told me before posting it here...

lol. Be serious for once and give good advice or walk along

Moony45:
I have started doing that. U have stopped regular data subscription for her and out her on fixed periods. She brought up attitude inbetween but i looked away.

I honestly think everyone needs to work. No one should be a burden to another over every minor thing.

Zzoh:
Must you share our personal life on Nairaland. You can use a different moniker, but I still know it's you because we discussed this not long ago...
I will soon find something to do, so don't bother yourself. The most important thing is that you bought the phone, so don't worry how to go about it....
But you should have told me before posting it here...

Uncle, this format ended 2019 BC (before corona).

chatinent:


Uncle, this format ended 2019 BC (before corona).

Dont mind him, he has no tangible advice to give

Iyaebe:
May God send her a man that can properly and wholely take care of her.Nobody should quote me please.

see trouble.... you want kill the desperate OP? lol!

@OP
you created a monster, now you wanna turn this 2yr old lazy monster into a decent hardworking independent woman?! NO CANT DO!
you shot yourself in the damn foot when you decided to take care of someone's upkeep instead of asking the very same question on NL (back then when she told you she needed help)

MrBrownJay1:


see trouble.... you want kill the desperate OP? lol!

@OP
you created a monster, now you wanna turn this 2yr old lazy monster into a decent hardworking independent woman?! NO CANT DO!
you shot yourself in the damn foot when you decided to take care of someone's upkeep instead of asking the very same question on NL (back then when she told you she needed help)

She once had a teaching Job

Moony45:
She once had a teaching Job

how is that making a difference in the failed way you started this r/ship?!

MrBrownJay1:


how is that making a difference in the failed way you started this r/ship?!

Any job advice?

Moony45:
Any job advice?

for you, YES.... as for the lazy woman you gladly decided to give free money to, for nor plausible eason whatsoever, ABSOLUTELY NONE!

Moony45:
Hello Nairalanders,

I'm in desperate need of your advice on how to handle my girlfriend's total dependence on me. I am a regular member this platform and so is she (she knows my moniker) but I don't want her to know I'm referring to her.

We have been dating for close to two years now and for the most part, I have been the one paying for her upkeep while her mother assist a little (she only has her mother). She is a student in one of Nigeria's prestigious tertiary institutions. I discussed the issue of overdependence with her and she is willing to do any legal side hustle but doesn't have any idea on what she can do. I just bought a new high end phone for her as well cos she complained her former phone wont allow her to do any online business even if an idea comes but till now, she only use the phone to chat.

Since she is still in school, I would love if anyone can recommend a profitable physical or online business for her which won't negatively impact her academics because I want her to make her own money too while in school and be proud of herself financially.

Thank you.

Ps: She once did teaching Job where she was able to save money before resuming back for her HND programme and she appears to me hardworking but no side hustle idea now that she is in school fully

cc IshiLove, Lalasticlala

OP doesn't know he is in a business relationship
The moment he is no longer ready to pay salary,that girl will japa
Try not giving her money for a while and see as she finds another employer willing to pay higher wages with better conditions of services and if she is extremely pretty,she is looking for a guy that will activate Mbappe clause for her

He has been paying bills for two years and now the girl wants him to set her up so she can elevate herself up to start going for richer guys.
Remember,comfort>love for most women.

OP,I know you might think of me as a misogynist or a stupid simp but please count your losses,break up with that girl,invest the money you are paying in yourself,elevate yourself and start going for financially stable women that will compliment your life.Women can spend a large part of your hard earned income for years,leave you for another guy and still won't feel a thing...

I am a student in a higher institution and I can tell you that all these girls are not worth it
If you know what truly goes on in Nigerian universities,I assure you that you would run if u see any university girl..
Majority are in their hoe phase and are just looking for ATM machines

If you don't believe me,set some traps and games to see if I am right or wrong,always remember to put common sense before love.Also,if you are helping her,don't do it because of marriage sake,it usually ends in premium tears


I am telling you this truthfully because I am tired of my fellow brothers ranting online about how girls dumped them after overbilling them


If u are sure she is the one,she can start selling women hair or clothes and accessories
Campus girls always want to slay so they are always in excess demand

Oloshi still dey pay. Lol

Ayo2004:

OP doesn't know he is in a business relationship
The moment he is no longer ready to pay salary,that girl will japa
Try not giving her money for a while and see as she finds another employer willing to pay higher wages with better conditions of services and if she is extremely pretty,she is looking for a guy that will activate Mbappe clause for her

He has been paying bills for two years and now the girl wants him to set her up so she can elevate herself up to start going for richer guys.
Remember,comfort>love for most women.

OP,I know you might think of me as a misogynist or a stupid simp but please count your losses,break up with that girl,invest the money you are paying in yourself,elevate yourself and start going for financially stable women that will compliment your life.Women can spend a large part of your hard earned income for years,leave you for another guy and still won't feel a thing...

I am a student in a higher institution and I can tell you that all these girls are not worth it
If you know what truly goes on in Nigerian universities,I assure you that you would run if u see any university girl..
Majority are in their hoe phase and are just looking for ATM machines

If you don't believe me,set some traps and games to see if I am right or wrong,always remember to put common sense before love.Also,if you are helping her,don't do it because of marriage sake,it usually ends in premium tears


I am telling you this truthfully because I am tired of my fellow brothers ranting online about how girls dumped them after overbilling them


If u are sure she is the one,she can start selling women hair or clothes and accessories
Campus girls always want to slay so they are always in excess demand

Thank you for the useful advice which came in the latter part of your story

She can either start selling

1. Lingerie, undies, brallete e.t.c

2. Thrift clothes

3. Perfumes e.t.c

When she starts, tell her to join her school group chat on Facebook to market her goods, it's also advisable she also join the group chat of the city where her school is located so she can reach out to a larger audience .
She should also join marketing groups on WhatsApp , that are for students in her school as she can also use this medium to reach out to other students
She can also pay to advertise her goods on her school Instagram handles
During weekends, she should also carry her goods around the girls hostel in her school to market her goods
And she also need to take nice pictures of her goods as this will also attract customers

Note: Doing a business is not easy at all o, a lot of people will want to price her down, but she should not be discouraged. If she is consistent in it, she will be able to profit .

My best advice as a brother is to let her open Tinder, Badoo and codedruns. She will start making legit money with no stress, that’s their talent.

Moony45:
Hello Nairalanders,

I'm in desperate need of your advice on how to handle my girlfriend's total dependence on me. I am a regular member this platform and so is she (she knows my moniker) but I don't want her to know I'm referring to her.

We have been dating for close to two years now and for the most part, I have been the one paying for her upkeep while her mother assist a little (she only has her mother). She is a student in one of Nigeria's prestigious tertiary institutions. I discussed the issue of overdependence with her and she is willing to do any legal side hustle but doesn't have any idea on what she can do. I just bought a new high end phone for her as well cos she complained her former phone wont allow her to do any online business even if an idea comes but till now, she only use the phone to chat.

Since she is still in school, I would love if anyone can recommend a profitable physical or online business for her which won't negatively impact her academics because I want her to make her own money too while in school and be proud of herself financially.

Thank you.

Ps: She once did teaching Job where she was able to save money before resuming back for her HND programme and she appears to me hardworking but no side hustle idea now that she is in school fully


Mature suggestions only pls

cc IshiLove, Lalasticlala

since she has a high end phone she should download inmessage app, before one month she will have extra 100k in her account as a student. Please don't thank me.