In Nigeria for example why is it a common norm for a man/Guy to be 100% responsible for the financial bills in a relationship? It's a common quote among our young ladies of nowadays : Are you not a man? Baby see what my friends guy bought her. Baby I want this and this when relationship never even reach 1 month. Why is it that most Nigeria ladies have this mentality of entitlement and as a guy you're to be her father, brother, provider asin her All in All?
Few days back I was on call with a friend from the UK and she's always asked why I'm not in a relationship and I answered "omo I nor get money oh". Then she asked whether they hire gf here because it sounds absurd to her but to me it's a normal. Normally been in a relationship is a two way thing we both encourage,and assist each other both emotionally and financially.
For most broke guys, the thought of been in a relationship scares them.
But there's no guarantee to when one would be rich. Could me 6 months or year or years from now.
If we remove MONEY from most modern day relationship now it would collaspe in no time. Money dey keep relationship going, but na love dey take the credit.
There's a common quote among females: Date a girl that's in your class, so you won't call anyone a gold digger. I'd always complement that quote with: When I upgrade to a higher class then I'd also upgrade to a girl of a higher class too.
Can't blame them. Relationship have become transactional. Or better still people want comfort.
Well based on on my experience most ladies find it difficult to agree with you if you don't have money to show your love for her or them. Most times the guy is a good person, but his actions would be undermined because of his financial incapability.
My question is if MONEY is removed from most modern day relationships. Would the relationships still STAND?

So true

Some won't stand because some ladies has turned relationship to poverty alleviation and empowerment program..

lilvicky68:
Some won't stand because some ladies has turned relationship to poverty alleviation and empowerment program..

True thou, but most Nigeria men don't even appreciate hardworking ladies anymore, they prefer slay queen's �

Omaglamour26:

True thou, but most Nigeria men don't even appreciate hardworking ladies anymore, they prefer slay queen's �

Hardworking girls still tax men especially the greedy ones..

Guys equally turn faithful and devoted ladies to their sex slaves and dump her leaving her heartbroken and move to the next. Ladies are unfortunately adapting to the reality.

lilvicky68:

Hardworking girls still tax men especially the greedy ones..

Cnt ague about that, u are right

Same as guys....once they meet a hard worker,come and see sense of entitlement nah ...
Forgerrit some Nigerians are shameless...both gender

lilvicky68:

Hardworking girls still tax men especially the greedy ones..

Guys also tax ladies....

Chinehz:

Guys also tax ladies....

Only 0.2%

America Jeff Bezos Divorced Bill Gate Divorced Elon Musk Divorced Kanye West Divorced Dr Dre Divorced
Nigeria Tiwa Savage & Teebliz Divorced Paul Okoye ( P- Square) Divorced Who A That Dosent Have Money I dont think is about money but money is important.

lilvicky68:

Only 0.2%

really

Oniovo, real matter. Babes cast. Erryyhing na money Dem dey after. I dey surprised when I see one babe for Tinder. She dey my street, I gats chat her remove her come hotel. After I pay the Bolt driver finish na then she know say na me. Till now we blow pra pra

na money be love. if you get money you're caring. if not, you're wicked

80% you say? Try 100%.

All love relationship are 100% transactional. There's no such thing as unconditional love as far as humans are concerned. And this is not me judging the human race. It's just the way we are wired. Suppose you ask your significant other this old question 'why do you love me?' and they say. No reason, I just love you. I'm sure most people will not accept that answer. Most people want to know why you love them.that WHY in itself is a condition. They know that there's a reason why they love you and as such expect that there's must be a reason why you love them. And if you tell them "no reason, I just love you", they are unsatisfied with that response and some may even go as far as doubting your love for them.

What am I even saying.... This hunger will not kill me