Experts say pun has become a huge factor in relationship breakdown. ‘In the last few years a remarkable change has taken place in Britain and many other western countries. In 2011, huge numbers of men and women are looking at explicit sexual material on the internet. Statistics indicate that sex is by far the most popular search term on the web. And recent American statistics show that:

• every second, 3,075.64 dollars are spent on pun
• every second, 28,250 users are viewing pun
• in the US, a new pun video is completed every 39 minutes.

However, there are increasing worries about the availability of pun and the degree to which it demeans women. Many sex and relationship therapists are now concerned about how indecency can skew what people expect in their own bedrooms. Many women are anxious and upset about being asked to do things within a sexual relationship that they feel are extreme and unnatural – but which they know are activities that their partners perceive as normal because of seeing them on the internet. These activities are likely to include the man ejecting onto the woman's face and super-perversion - both of which are now seen as 'routine' by some men who view indecency(pun).

Nowadays, there are a number of women's groups on the internet who are strongly opposed to all indecency. They feel that it's insulting and degrading to all females. One correspondent told me: 'indecency(pun) turns women into anonymous meat.' On the other hand, many women in sexual relationships will – on occasion – quite happily watch some forms of indecency with their male, or female, partners. And a growing number of women who are single, or away from home on business, will access indecency themselves in order to self-service to gain sexual relief and have a good night's sleep.
So, there are wide differences in how people feel about indecency, and it seems likely that there is going to be more and more debate about what indecency is doing to our society.

Can indecency(pun) be part of a normal relationship?--Our answer to that question would be a qualified 'yes'.There is no doubt that many couples experiment with the use of indecency(pun) as an aid to perking up their sex lives, for example by sometimes watching an explicit DVD together. And sex education videos are often arousing as well as informative.Also, a lot of women like erotic stories. Some females prefer to read alone to get themselves turned on. Others like their man to read to them in bed.So for some couples, using indecency and loveware works well.
What problems can indecency cause?  There are unfortunate consequences from the new, widespread availability of indecency , one of which is  Raising false expectations about sex and body image: Erotic material tends to give men and women impossibly high 'targets' to aim for in the sexual field.

• Young men get the idea that they should have huge manlinesses and be able to climax again and again, carrying on all night.
• Young women get misleading notions about what their bodies should look like. They don't realise that the pictures of the models are heavily air-brushed so their bodies – and especially their womanly openings – look impossibly neat and tidy.
• Some younger men are surprised by what most of us would regard as normal pubic hair. They have seen so much indecency imagery where the women have little or no hair that they think this is the norm.
• Young men assume it is acceptable to expel on their partner's face or bosoms. This sort of material is commonplace in indecency, leading many men to think it's routine behaviour in the bedroom.

Are relationship problems because of indecency(pun) common? We would say that a problem with indecency is almost exclusively a male thing. In our practice we have never seen a woman who was addicted to indecency or who preferred it to having sex with a partner. But we have received a lot of complaints from women who are distressed that their male partners no longer want to make love to them, preferring to spend hours wanking in front of indecency.
What to do if indecency(pun) is a problem  -- It is a good idea if couples discuss their attitude to indecency early on in their relationship and agree some house rules about how much indecency is viewed and of what type. People often find this difficult, but communication is generally the key to keeping the habit within normal bounds. If it is discussed before it becomes a huge problem, then the conversation can be calm and a woman can explain what works for her and what she might object to. Such a conversation could also include the sexual relationship in general and could include the question of whether either party would like more variety – and if so, what.  Sometimes, women may know their man uses indecency to self-service, but they will decide not to broach the subject. This is understandable, but if you avoid discussing it until it becomes a problem, talking may no longer be effective. A man who is addicted to indecency(pun) may promise to change and to stop viewing internet images, but he probably won't.  He may assure his partner that he loves her, but he won't stop accessing indecency. He may even break down and cry and swear that he longs to give up all the indecency(pun), but it's unlikely he will manage this without professional help.    (Excerpt from article by Dr David Delvin, GP and Christine Webber, psychotherapist)

Nice write up.

Some good points but a lot of bs and over exaggeration of reality.

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In USA, we have something call quality video and picture.