I'll love to get views from you all to be able to know how a love by correspondence is nurtured and sustained.

Ask those who knows how bitter it is to be dissappointed. When poeple are thousands of miles apart what do you think happens. I just imagine to be honest and fair can poeple stay that far apart in a period of five years stay without sleeping other poeple? Thats almost imposible. The person may either be a lesbian or a homosexual. Therefore all you need is prayers if you so wish to wait. But if the man is seriously in love i dont think it should be so long before he comes for ya dowry. If not gal before one becomes another stay-at-home-daughter go out and look for another man o.

puker:

Ask those who knows how bitter it is to be dissappointed. When poeple are thousands of miles apart what do you think happens. I just imagine to be honest and fair can poeple stay that far apart in a period of five years stay without sleeping other poeple? Thats almost imposible. The person may either be a lesbian or a homosexual. Therefore all you need is prayers if you so wish to wait. But if the man is seriously in love i don't think it should be so long before he comes for ya dowry. If not girl before one becomes another stay-at-home-daughter go out and look for another man o.

Nah wa o - is that an aswer to her question

@abrakson - sorry but i wouldn't know, if i had to guess i'd say by fantasizing n dreaming. If it is true love it would sustain itself!

Mr. IBDat read my views well. Invariably i mean that love by correspondence is impossible especially when poeple live apart for too long.