TWLifestyle:
it's funny how the first thing most man do when they meet women is try to stick their preek in you ! And here you are saying the only thing women bring to the table is sex ?im curious was that the only thing your mother brought to the table ,? Cos my mom was a co- breadwinner and all the women I know - got an education , work and can fend for themselves . So many women trade , learn skills and work and earn with those skills .
Most Nigerian homes are two- income homes and some are even solely funded by the woman ( who in many cases is forced to pretend the husband is the breadwinner so as not to hurt his fragile ego )
. This ridiculous narrative that you men peddle about being sole breadwinners becos you have the loudest voices is extremely dishonest .
If your experience had been that women only bro g sex to the table or means you need to broaen your circles- maybe its the women you know who are like that .

Dumbfuck
I know you understand what I'm say but only try to be stupîd. It's always hard for you people to admit that the only thing you people bring to the table is sex. Moreso, we are just talking about relationship here and not marriage. Marriage is different.
I'm sure you're just pained bring mother into this.
I'm sure you're one useless LovePeddler with no achievement. The only thing that counts much for you now is your bodycount...

What's your bodycount again?
What do you do for a living?

Oloribu ọmọ irankiran
Like mother like daughter.

TWLifestyle:
lol , hey pvssy boy !

You are really very troublesome. I read your posts and just laugh. Haba

greypencils:
When you date women with their fine faces working in well-paying organizations, the first thing to do is to rate their IQ, the courses they did at school, the GP they graduated with and their family backgrounds. If they don't score high in these categories, they most
likely nyashed their way into those organizations. That nyash will always never be for you only.

Lol

tenry:

May be wrong choice of title. Please what do you call your wife's younger brother? He is my wife's younger brother. By the way, we are so close and he manages one of my investments for me.

Please bro, don't forget to update us on how it played out.

TWLifestyle:
nah it doesn't work that way - why don't men also leave the marriage to go and fvck who they really want to fvck? Did women force them to stay ? If you can fvck other women then don't bitch when Women fvck other men , abeg .

What's your point ....cos u seem like a broken record mentioning me out of context....

U keep saying the same thing all over this thread...

If your mother cheats on ur father...tell ur father he doesn't have a right to talk....cos I don't get all these your blabbing

TOPCRUISE:

Excuse of fornicators and adulterers. Ashewo give that kind excuse so that no one will disturb them

That qoute is open, encompasses everyone and every circumstances........

TWLifestyle:
bro . Let me give you this piece of knowledge- women pray for husband just to do wedding - they just use you to wear wedding dress - Go to any magistrate court go and find out which gender initiates divorce most ? Let me help you - it is women .

Kontinue...

TWLifestyle:
loooooooooool - you.people are hypocrites , sha . It's unfortunate that you will all learn the hard way , that hypocrisy doesnt work in the long run - one must come to equity with clean hands - u can't ask for faithfulness when ur not ready to be faithful . Life doesnt work like that .

Was it stated that the cheating wife had caught her husband cheating before now? What da hell is wrong with u guys! When a woman is caught cheating, u lots will assume the man had cheated on her or will potentially cheat on her, and her cheating should be justified and taken to be nothing! For real? So in your brain has concluded that all men are cheat right? Well lets see who the shame, societal stigma and the loss is gonno be on the most. Lets see who is gonno be the laughing stock of the community...........nonsense

TWLifestyle:
why do men get married when they know they can not keep their preek in one pant ? When you answer this question then you have the answer to the question you asked .

It's about her not him....

TWLifestyle:
men are public property so let women too be public property in peace , abeg . Must you people cry like babies when women cheat? U people really need to man up o . Because this cheating is only going to get worse - women are learning from you.

Come you ..sound so pained...let me tell u ..there is limit in morals...people.who cheat are just not well brought up and lack conscience

Am not married now but if am married I swear I won't cheat ...cos I no see wetin I de find for woman skirt again when I don chop am Taya at my single time

The problem is that stupid people of this generation get married for no reason and they end up getting problems sn
and cheat ....

If you scale the way women cheat and men you go fear say na women wear the golden crown of cheating

Come my end here come see as people de nak girls that are in relationship

Naija gals and cheat na like bread n butter

TWLifestyle:
preek person , no vex o . Everything na bants .

But talk true, e pain you

TWLifestyle:
actually it wasn't society it was men that gave themselves that privilege .

I don’t have energy dragging this issue forth and back with you, how come Kings, Princes, Warlord sons and others are giving the privilege to do and undo with our virgin women without paying their rites is it we men that gave the aforementioned men the privilege biko wake from your slumber...

TWLifestyle:
it is also a personal decision to cheat within the marriage instead of coming clean and opting for a divorce - which would have been the honourable thing .

Well, anyone who cheats in a marriage should be prepared for the consequences of cheating if caught. And no partner can stop the other from cheating, you can only decide/control your reaction/response to their breach of the marriage contract.

TWLifestyle:

1. if you are really sincere about being able to walk out of a marriage - why don't men walk out of their marriage abd fvck who they realky want to fvck instead of cheating on their wives?

2. The rules are different for each gender but the important thing is treating each other with decency -

3. you can't happily be the polygamous gender and be hypocritically complaining that women are cheating on you !

1. I wish I knew what you are on about here; what has men cheating on their wives got to do with women walking out of an adulterous marriage if they want to? The men decide to cheat (let's assume that women are saintly and do not cheat.), the wives respond/react as they will: cheat in retaliation; win the husband back; threaten the sidechic; do fire prayers & watch war room; divorce; ignore the man etc. etc. the options are endless.

2. According to you, what rules are different for each gender? I 100% agree with you that each partner should treat the other with decency and fairness aka do unto others as you want others to do unto you.

3. I am female: has women started claiming the polygamous gender? I also agree with you that it is hypocritical, emotional and lack of common sense for an heterosexual man to claim to be polygamous on one hand and complain about women cheating on the other hand. Statistically, the ratio of men to women in Nigeria cannot support every man's polygamous nature. At some point, men & women would share & swap sexual partners.

My thoughts?

No matter the ranting on line, women are more inclined to forgive a cheating partner than men are even when kids are not involved. And it has nothing to do with brideprice.

I am still trying to decipher if it is a combination of nature & nurture although I would lean heavily towards nature when I think of the Beyonces, Hillary Clintons, Ciaras, Adesuwa Etomis, Toolz and so many other 'high' women who have forgiven cheating husbands when it is obvious they are capable to live the life they want alone. How much more other women around who excuse and indulge cheating husbands on a daily basis.

psalmz:
bros that’s why I said let him just quietly let her go,cos a woman that cheats like this will always cheat,she is only repentant cos she was caught

scamer giving advice

TWLifestyle:
lol - slut slut slut SLUT SLUT SLuT slut SLuT SLUT slut slut slut SLuT SLUT yen yen yen . Call women slut with all.the venom in your body itwont change the fact that womwn cheating will only get worse unless.you men call yourselves to order . No be only you like variety, no be only.you people dey polygamous - Jamb lesson for the day .
Meanwhile i can imagine your face as you were typing the "slut" looool .. type it 100 times and be repeating it as you are typing so you can release all the anger and bile in your belle..

no vex oooo e never reach the level to break my head biko

Nothing to add

TWLifestyle:
it's funny how the first thing most man do when they meet women is try to stick their preek in you ! And here you are saying the only thing women bring to the table is sex ?im curious was that the only thing your mother brought to the table ,? Cos my mom was a co- breadwinner and all the women I know - got an education , work and can fend for themselves . So many women trade , learn skills and work and earn with those skills .
Most Nigerian homes are two- income homes and some are even solely funded by the woman ( who in many cases is forced to pretend the husband is the breadwinner so as not to hurt his fragile ego )
. This ridiculous narrative that you men peddle about being sole breadwinners becos you have the loudest voices is extremely dishonest .
If your experience had been that women only bro g sex to the table or means you need to broaen your circles- maybe its the women you know who are like that .

I always laugh when there is a thread about a cheating wife and the boys will start hyperventilating telling us the man should pack her things and send her to her father's house.
I love to see their frustrations pouring out in their responses
In Nigeria today most husbands can't afford to pay house rent and feed without the woman's income , you all know that already.
But somehow when you type you forget that reality.
Many of the women are the major bread winners .

This is 2021
Nobody is packing anybody's things and taking their kids
Only Mgbekes get that sort of treatment today.
A woman will carry a baby 9 months and birth her and you take the child and kick her out?
Are u mad?
Am I saying it is good to cheat?
Absolutely not.
Her story may be totally different
If they can work it out and she is remorseful let them work it out , if they can't, let them go their separate ways.

TWLifestyle:
loooooooooooooooooooool .

when a shameless lady have been shamed she result to making a joke of herself


I state the way it is, I don't give a fúck how your likes feel or think


to hell

Then get ready to share your wife with boys for the rest of your life

Lexusgs430:




He who got no sin, should cast the first stone..........

Divorce that harlot fast, she is a prostitute and will never change.
Do a DNA on the child, and with your list evidences claim custody.
What kind of advice would you need in this type of madness sef?

mular:
Then get ready to share your wife with boys for the rest of your life

If Jay Z could cheat on Beyonce............ Don't deceive yourself........

Or Elizabeth Taylor cheating on her husband too.......

Who you be........

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

He should digest the breakfast first. Next he should do DNA test for his child. Third he should call for a family meeting and he should present the evidence he found. If it turns out that the child is not his let the biological father have his child.

Modified: after seeing that the lady visited the co-cheat a few days after the wedding I would advice that he forgives the lady, ask the family of the lady return the bride price and you move on with his life...

I don't see any reason why you guys should dignify some females comment with response. I actually see it as unwise. I will rather engage myself with a useless task than to engage them in any argument. They don't worth it. Nigerian females should be avoided at all cost

Do you forgive adulterous husbands?

chatinent:
I'm so sorry for what you are going through, OP.


Adultery is sth I strongly condemn.

I don't want to comment on this act. My comment does not favour adultery in anyway. My words will be too hard.

I don't forgive adulterous wives.

You can choose to tho if she is repentant.

truthfulnigeria:
Do you forgive adulterous husbands?

There are no gender differences. I don't tolerate any.