Yes I mean it I want to be stingy, over time I have realized I am too easy to give out money, assistance to friends.
I dont know how to say "No" when I am in the capacity to help, I just help without hesitation but when it is my turn to receive help I dont see anyone to help me, this really hurt.

How can I be more prudent with myself, with my finance? I need tips

Loverboy3333:
Yes I mean it I want to be stingy, over time I have realized I am too easy to give out money, assistance to friends.
I dont know how to say "No" when I am in the capacity to help, I just help without hesitation but when it is my turn to receive help I dont see anyone to help me, this really hurt.

How can I be more prudent with myself, with my finance? I need tips

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There lies your answer.
Whenever you remember that nobody comes to your rescue when you are in need you'll learn to save your money for rainy days.

If you keep giving, they will keep receiving. They have no limits and they have no memory.

Remember if you give people money 99 times and refuse to give just once they will still term you stingy.

Give me all your money....

So u can't give what u don't have