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Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Wawelexy(m): 2:05pm On Oct 14, 2021

tunize:

The mother is to blame and not the boy because, the boy did not give birth to himself live the guy out of it

....

You re right tho

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Decryptor(m): 2:07pm On Oct 14, 2021

house10s:
if he is 76 how old is the father

Read to understand!

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by fof1: 2:07pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:

Honestly i whould not be happy... But no am not the one engineering this..

I was told by my dad friend yesterday.

Am a man, hence the reason why i neet advice

IS UR ALLEGED STEP BROTHER'S DAD AND UR STEP MUM ALIVE? THEN D CASE IS EASIER PLS.

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by GorillaApp(m): 2:07pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:

Am just afraid...
What if i tell him and got heart-break and die... He's 76 plus

Then let it slide. No need to cause the old man pains.

But when he departs, make the child aware if possible

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Fourwinds: 2:08pm On Oct 14, 2021

That means that woman go forcefully fvck another kondo con carry the outcome give your poppsy ......chai... Okokobiokor

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by laiperi: 2:08pm On Oct 14, 2021

OP,

Your father's son or daughter is the one that love and care about him regardless of their biological relationship.

There is nothing you can tell your father that he did not know already. He also knew what your mother could do.

Those children that fake their own kidnapping risking the lives and financial stability of their biological parents calling their fathers "stringy", are the real bastards.

Relatives and house helps have taken care of fathers and mothers when biological children failed.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by emonis88: 2:08pm On Oct 14, 2021

U ve money to do a DNA test, u can get samples from ur dad, then to get ur step Bros sample il be difficult but if u can do it without ur father's knowledge, n add urs to be sure, with d results, u just keep them safe , till the right time. It could be anytime, but u just keep it, it might hurt ur dad much, cus ur step mum betrayed him n it might hurt him. At his age it might be dangerous to break such news. But as d eldest son u ve to try n be ahead of ur age, and the person that came to tell u this , ask the person how n Y they r telling you this now, but thank the person first for deeming it fit to give u such info, by asking for their advice , u can deduce their motive for coming out with such info at this time, Don't trust anybody.

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Wawelexy(m): 2:08pm On Oct 14, 2021

just2endowed:

this should be a debate in the court case. what if in the will, it was stated that the estate should be shared among his sons.

DNA test show one of them were not his son. how will the will be executed?

Since his name wasn't mentioned in the will, and DNA result shows he's not a legit son, he has no entitlement in the property.

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by advanceDNA: 2:08pm On Oct 14, 2021

motayoayinde:
NA WAH OH!

SIX PAGES AND NO ONE HAS BEEN ABLE TO FIGURE OUT THAT YOUR STEP BROTHER SHOULD ACTUALLY HAVE NO BLOOD CONNECTION WITH YOU OR EITHER OF YOUR PARENTS.

YOUR STEP BROTHER IS NEITHER YOUR BIOLOGICAL BROTHER NOR YOUR FATHER'S BIOLOGICAL SON.

EXCEPT THE OP MEANS "HALF BROTHER".

Is like u are not Nigerian... well come to Nigeria...

Where all toothpaste is maclene
All noodles na so indomie...

Nigerians like using words so far it's convinient.....u should already know by now that the op means half brother

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by hahn(m): 2:10pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:

Am just afraid...
What if i tell him and got heart-break and die... He's 76 plus

As the first born you'll inherit everything and the step son won't be able to fight over the properties with you.

Win win grin

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by lapazi(m): 2:11pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:

Something is telling to get the man arrested. He know about this for year without letting my dad know about it.. Is that not wickedness? .. What are they friend for. ..

what if your friend father is the father...

what if...?

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Starships4u(m): 2:12pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

Imagine the LANGUAGE yhu used.
He doesn't belong here...

Yhur mom had yhu with another man while his mom did same, what's the difference between the both of you

SMH

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Oct 14, 2021

nokspos:
some secrets are worth taking to grave, you are just going to create unnecessary issue, the man is old already , allow him to enjoy the rest of his life on earth in peace... i know secrets that i can never ever disclose to anybody in this life. and that's what makes you a man

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by coolangel54(f): 2:15pm On Oct 14, 2021

So you now hate him ba? Over sabi pikin. Just make sure you are his child too cos DNA results can be manipulated.

What are you so afraid of, isn't he your step-brother? He should have no connection with your dad if it was your mum who birthed him and no connection to any of your parents if he was adopted.

Let the sleeping dog lie before you disgrace yourself!

Juliusmomoh:
Note i don't hate him..
I love him with my everything.

I just discover recently that he's not my dad son..

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by cescky(m): 2:18pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:
Note i don't hate him..
I love him with my everything.

I just discover recently that he's not my dad son..

Do what you feel is right.. But note that what is right may kill your father.. Just saying..

Is he an old man?
You're step bro mature?
Also notr that your dad will most likely nott be interested.. The more you grow, the more you realize in life.. Your own blood isn't necessarily your own

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Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by DMCY: 2:19pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

O pari!

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by AkaraAndBread: 2:19pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:

Am just afraid...
What if i tell him and got heart-break and die... He's 76 plus

My brother if he is 76years then I suggest you don't tell him.

I don't know the circumstances behind whatever is going on but - your father's age aside - that type of news dey break up families.

If what you want is for the truth to be told and damn the consequences no matter what they may be, then go ahead and tell him.

But if you truly have love for your step-brother as well as your father then let it remain a secret.

Your step-brother may not be of the same blood as you but if you say you (genuinely) love him then that should be enough to make you remain silent on the matter.

From your tone, it sounds like you like your step-brother but you can't say the same for his mother.

I know it sounds difficult but you have to consider the aftermath of letting the cat out of the bag.

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by patoballistic: 2:20pm On Oct 14, 2021

Then it will be thank you for killing your father

Juliusmomoh:

I know am his legitimate son... My problem now is, what if i tell him and this old man died out of surprise?

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by shegxy9(m): 2:20pm On Oct 14, 2021

Why can't you allow the old man to enjoy his remaining days on earth.... Some things are better left unsaid ma... Meanwhile what if he knows and he doesn't want any kind of division or hatred among his children....

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by femi4: 2:21pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am I am confuse

You are probably not his child too

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by DMerciful(m): 2:25pm On Oct 14, 2021

If you arrest the man, would you arrest your mom who's the main person responsible?

Juliusmomoh:

Something is telling to get the man arrested. He know about this for year without letting my dad know about it.. Is that not wickedness? .. What are they friend for. ..

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by od501: 2:27pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

Tell him bro, again I say, tell!!

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Hassanmaye(m): 2:27pm On Oct 14, 2021

FreeSpirited:
Imagine ur Dad runs DNA on all of u and it turns out u are also not his child ...
.......
Nothing is impossible especially if it involves vagina people and paternity.

Lol that gender!! That gender! Imagine if they are not curtail and giving the freedom they want they will destabilise the world

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Kobojunkie: 2:27pm On Oct 14, 2021

FreeSpirited:
Imagine ur Dad runs DNA on all of u and it turns out u are also not his child ...
.......
Nothing is impossible especially if it involves vagina people and paternity.

ROFLMAO

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Hassanmaye(m): 2:27pm On Oct 14, 2021

Oxb90:
Do what you know is right for you and your family. But before you tell your father about your step brothers legitimacy, make sure you are also your father's legitimate child. To avoid 'had I known'.

Haha

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Clickguy44: 2:27pm On Oct 14, 2021

If you were your PMan would you want to know the truth? If yes, Please don't withhold this information. Don't attract curse to yourself.

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by kunle75(m): 2:31pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

How are you so sure you are his?

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by vivavik(f): 2:31pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:
Note i don't hate him..
I love him with my everything.

I just discover recently that he's not my dad son..

Then leave it be like that, a day would come when the truth will unveil itself, you don't know the kind of damage you might cause if you do, your dad might not make it. Apply wisdom in all you do and God will help you.

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by lagba04(m): 2:32pm On Oct 14, 2021

Where is your mom.

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Hassanmaye(m): 2:32pm On Oct 14, 2021

GoldenJAT:
Tell us the Koko first! Wetin de sup? So elders fit align come reason 1or 2,make kasala no come burst out later 4 ur head!!

Haha

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by 0m0nnakoda: 2:33pm On Oct 14, 2021

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

Do you know the meaning of "step-brother"

Your step brother cannot be your dad's son ; by definition

Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Ayo081(m): 2:36pm On Oct 14, 2021

PastorM:
Watch this before you tell your dad

Duration: 55 seconds

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-R5O6895LX0

I like that part of letter to the Corinthians

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