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I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:08am On Oct 28, 2021
I will be 2* years by December.  I finished my Nysc a year ago, ever since then, things have not been easy. At a time I was staying with a friend, he sent me away after 3months because I didn't have a job and I was just like a liability to him. I didn't have any choice than to go back to my mama's house.
Things were not easy around this year january, it was as if every odd  was standing against me... along the line, I got a job, I was being paid up to 60k per month until I lost the job around August,I didn't see it coming, and I didn't have much savings because I was literally paying debts through all my month of working.
So after I lost my job, I went back to my mama's again, ever since I got home, I noticed that most times when I sleep, I do see myself writing exams, or seeing myself with old class mates, or see myself going to school in my dream... and this has been making me sad, I don't wanna believe it signifies setback, and I don't like teaching, I tried it years ago, I dislike teaching job, it's a time waster for a man... and I have been applying for other jobs, things are not working out...and now am trying to learn how to drive maybe I can earn a living through driving.....pls what can I do?.
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Mood11: 7:09am On Oct 28, 2021
Dear brother,
In all what you have said I noticed there was no mention of prayers so I want to encourage you to take out a few days and engage in fasting and prayers. Your prayer points should be That the Lord should have mercy on you and open the doors of heaven and pour forth blessings upon you. Pray that your destiny is restored and that every setbacks come to an end..
You can make the fasting 3 days, 6am-12pm.
One thing I know is that where all our efforts fails, prayers will not.
Read this Bible verse while praying,
"No longer will they call you Deserted or name your land Desolate. But your name will be called Hephzibah and your land Beulah (Isaiah 62:4)
Today, God will give you a new name! a name of honour; you will be called "HEPHZIBAH" because you will become a delight of God; and You will also be called "BEULAH" because men shall see the great hands of God upon you in Jesus name. Amen

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Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by WibusJaga: 7:10am On Oct 28, 2021


Which one is actually your problem; the dream or lack of job?
My guy, if you get a good job, those nonsense dreams will naturally stop.

Even if they don't stop, that will be subject for another day but never go to any prophet to interprete dreams for you.
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by chatinent: 7:10am On Oct 28, 2021
Oga, get up from that bed, pick up your phone and find jobs. Enter the street and look for jobs. Dreams don't enter the heads of hardworking people anyhow! You sleep too much to be dreaming too much!

The way you were even garnishing the “mama’s house” tho! You want to hear it also from mama before you know you are no longer Egypt's Joseph??

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Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by coolhumble(m): 7:13am On Oct 28, 2021
You already know the meaning of that dream so start doing the needful which is fasting and praying against it. The longer you have such dream the bigger the problems become. Please pray now and move away from home for now. Good morning!
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:18am On Oct 28, 2021
coolhumble:
You already know the meaning of that dream so start doing the needful which is fasting and praying against it. The longer you have such dream the bigger the problems become. Please pray now and move away from home for now. Good morning!

I know the meaning, I have fasted, prayed, used spiritual things, even I don tired to dey baf soap ontop the issue... atleast man no fit do pass that..

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Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:21am On Oct 28, 2021
chatinent:
Oga, get up from that bed, pick up your phone and find jobs. Enter the street and look for jobs. Dreams don't enter the heads of hardworking people anyhow! You sleep too much to be dreaming too much!

The way you were even garnishing the “mama’s house” tho! You want to hear it also from mama before you know you are no longer Egypt's Joseph??

I have tried all my possible best to get a job, am not a lazy type but I always feel I need a helper... I have applied almost everywhere, even requested for a labour's work but its just like wasted effort... I may work, twice in a month...
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by chatinent: 7:22am On Oct 28, 2021
Ebubechuwku:


I know the meaning, I have fasted, prayed, used spiritual things, even I don tired to dey baf soap ontop the issue... atleast man no fit do pass that..

Remove the bad omen mentality from your mindset. It's not about fasting, doing “spiritual things”.. who dey even dey tell you e get soap wey dey remove spiritual bad omens?

Baba, all you need is to work.

Big man no dey carry these things for head.

Na wa for una o
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by chatinent: 7:25am On Oct 28, 2021
Ebubechuwku:


I have tried all my possible best to get a job, am not a lazy type but I always feel I need a helper... I have applied almost everywhere, even requested for a labour's work but its just like wasted effort... I may work, twice in a month...

The bolded is why you aren't giving your all. Always work like you believe there is nobody conditioned to help you.

It is only then you'll be working hard and may meet sb who will readily want to help you.

Have you tried freelance jobs in your area of expertise?

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Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by coolhumble(m): 7:25am On Oct 28, 2021
Still avoid sleeping at home for now, as you avoid the house, fast and pray then go out to search for jobs.



Ebubechuwku:


I know the meaning, I have fasted, prayed, used spiritual things, even I don tired to dey baf soap ontop the issue... atleast man no fit do pass that..
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:25am On Oct 28, 2021
coolhumble:
You already know the meaning of that dream so start doing the needful which is fasting and praying against it. The longer you have such dream the bigger the problems become. Please pray now and move away from home for now. Good morning!

A pastor told me to leave home, mind you I rented an apartment dis year February when I was working, but I left the place because couldn't feed again... its not easy to stay alone... I have been trying my best to stand alone but I see myself getting there and fall again.

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Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:27am On Oct 28, 2021
chatinent:


Remove the bad omen mentality from your mindset. It's not about fasting, doing “spiritual things”.. who dey even dey tell you e get soap wey dey remove spiritual bad omens?

Baba, all you need is to work.

Big man no dey carry these things for head.

Na wa for una o

I was into freelancing job before, things gone south.
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:29am On Oct 28, 2021
coolhumble:
Still avoid sleeping at home for now, as you avoid the house, fast and pray then go out to search for jobs.




How can someone that is penniless avoid his home, no one wants a liability, nobody to stay with and I can because of that be sleeping under the bridge.
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:30am On Oct 28, 2021
Ebubechuwku:


How can someone that is penniless avoid his home, no one wants a liability, nobody to stay with and I cant because of that be sleeping under the bridge.
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:34am On Oct 28, 2021
Mood11:
Dear brother,
In all what you have said I noticed there was no mention of prayers so I want to encourage you to take out a few days and engage in fasting and prayers. Your prayer points should be That the Lord should have mercy on you and open the doors of heaven and pour forth blessings upon you. Pray that your destiny is restored and that every setbacks come to an end..
You can make the fasting 3 days, 6am-12pm.
One thing I know is that where all our efforts fails, prayers will not.
Read this Bible verse while praying,
"No longer will they call you Deserted or name your land Desolate. But your name will be called Hephzibah and your land Beulah (Isaiah 62:4)
Today, God will give you a new name! a name of honour; you will be called "HEPHZIBAH" because you will become a delight of God; and You will also be called "BEULAH" because men shall see the great hands of God upon you in Jesus name. Amen


I need the grace bro... I do pray. But I get tired when I don't see tangible result... I trust God will do it and am giving nature its way, cause nature sometimes heal naturally.

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Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by coolhumble(m): 7:34am On Oct 28, 2021
If you have friends close by or far away you can talk to them to stay for a short period why you fast and pray. You have to leave your comfort zone bro. If you reside outside Nigeria you will survive without your mom.



Ebubechuwku:


How can someone that is penniless avoid his home, no one wants a liability, nobody to stay with and I can because of that be sleeping under the bridge.

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Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Nobody: 7:39am On Oct 28, 2021
An idle mind is the devil's workshop.
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:49am On Oct 28, 2021
WibusJaga:


Which one is actually your problem; the dream or lack of job?
My guy, if you get a good job, those nonsense dreams will naturally stop.

Even if they don't stop, that will be subject for another day but never go to any prophet to interprete dreams for you.

Am thinking, maybe the dream could be the reason for things going up and down...
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 7:57am On Oct 28, 2021
HenryDion:
An idle mind is the devil's workshop.

Sure... am not happy about it myself...
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Truvelisback(m): 10:41am On Oct 28, 2021
Ebubechuwku:
I will be 25 years by December.  I finished my Nysc a year ago, ever since then, things have not been easy. At a time I was staying with a friend, he sent me away after 3months because I didn't have a job and I was just like a liability to him. I didn't have any choice than to go back to my mama's house.
Things were not easy around this year january, it was as if every odd  was standing against me... along the line, I got a job, I was being paid up to 60k per month until I lost the job around August,I didn't see it coming, and I didn't have much savings because I was literally paying debts through all my month of working.
So after I lost my job, I went back to my mama's again, ever since I got home, I noticed that most times when I sleep, I do see myself writing exams, or seeing myself with old class mates, or see myself going to school in my dream... and this has been making me sad, I don't wanna believe it signifies setback, and I don't like teaching, I tried it years ago, I dislike teaching job, it's a time waster for a man... and I have been applying for other jobs, things are not working out...and now am trying to learn how to drive maybe I can earn a living through driving.....pls what can I do?.

The dream is telling u that u have refused to learn from ur past mistakes, trials and setbacks.

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Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by ghettochild(m): 11:32am On Oct 28, 2021
For now look for labourer jobs where dem dey build house..
It ur sure bet too.
I used to dream that same dream before I left naija
At a time I taught it was a sign I needed to go for my MSC program
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by mastermaestro(m): 11:45am On Oct 28, 2021
The just shall live by his faith (Habakkuk 2:4), not by dreams. Mind you I believe in dreams and visions hundred percent. However it is not wise for anyone to build their life around dreams and visions. If you do so, you will easily be misled by manipulative dream demons and false prophets.

You seem very spiritual but in an unhealthy way. You talked about using spiritual 'things'. My guy, Satan is already having you. Get hold of GOD'S Word. Study, declare it and hit the street. Spiritual 'things' will only hold you back and pin you down.

Do some fasting and prayer using GOD'S Word as your push. After that, contact your acquaintances, friends and relatives for job or business links. Before you exhaust the list of these people, one of them would certainly give you a vital information.

Arise and act! Don't let the devil mess up your mind with rubbish dreams.

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Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 12:08pm On Oct 28, 2021
mastermaestro:
The just shall live by his faith (Habakkuk 2:4), not by dreams. Mind you I believe in dreams and visions hundred percent. However it is not wise for anyone to build their life around dreams and visions. If you do so, you will easily be misled by manipulative dream demons and false prophets.

You seem very spiritual but in an unhealthy way. You talked about using spiritual 'things'. My guy, Satan is already having you. Get hold of GOD'S Word. Study, declare it and hit the street. Spiritual 'things' will only hold you back and pin you down.

Do some fasting and prayer using GOD'S Word as your push. After that, contact your acquaintances, friends and relatives for job or business links. Before you exhaust the list of these people, one of them would certainly give you a vital information.

Arise and act! Don't let the devil mess up your mind with rubbish dreams.

Thanks brother, I will definitely do that..
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 12:08pm On Oct 28, 2021
ghettochild:
For now look for labourer jobs where dem dey build house..
It ur sure bet too.
I used to dream that same dream before I left naija
At a time I taught it was a sign I needed to go for my MSC program

Thanks
Re: I Still Don't Understand This Dream Of Mine. by Ebubechuwku(m): 12:14pm On Oct 28, 2021
Truvelisback:
The dream is telling u that u have refused to learn from ur past mistakes, trials and setbacks.

This your comment really touched me... maybe you are right cause am suspecting that also because of that I stopped so many things... I stopped doing illegal things. Because my conscience do disturb me anytime I do illegal things to make money... well, I will take note of that...

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