Candidlady:
She can stay with both of 'em!

morning shift


night shift

mexxy1:
Hello everyone, I have someone in a dilemma and needs advice on the next course of action. She needs advice on which man to be with between two men she loves.

Please advice her and not abuse her as I'll show here the comments here. I have this young lady in her early twenties who is in love with two guys. I'll refer to them as Guy A and Guy B.

Both have their baggages which has left her confused hence, her request for advice which I had to bring here. I'll keep my opinion to myself though, I already told her my thoughts.

Now, to their baggages.

GUY A:
- Has dated her for three (3) years now and deflowered her.
- Is always away for months for work (according to him).
- She recently found out he has been chasing everything in skirt and is highly promiscuous from his facebook messages and voice recordings she had to forward to herself oh him telling other girls about marrying them and about their times spent together in hotels.
- Prone to violence.
- Engaged her early this year but, she wasn't sure though accepted due to compromise and she hasn't seen him in seven (7) months now though he calls often and says he's at work. She doesn't pay him unscheduled visits to confirm since he's not around.

GUY B:
- Met her last year and has been dating her for close to a year.
- Was married for six (6) years but, separated and headed for divorce before she met him.
- Has a two (2) year old son from the previous marriage.
- Calm and very understanding (she wishes she met him earlier).
- She's had no problems with him and he's always been there for him.

Her problems?
1. She is in love with both men.
2. The major problem for her with Guy A is that he is never around and is always on one trip or another.
3. The major problem for her with Guy B is that he has a son.

Ladies and gentlemen, what will you advice and who would you suggest she stays with?

Thank you.

mexxy1:


This is something serious. She wants to make a choice who to settle down with.

Candidlady:



and you expect nl to make a choice for her?!?

okay lemme park and learn too

mexxy1:

Suggestions if you were in her shoes. The choice will be hers to make.

Nemesis0147:
Why is she judging GUY A when she is already cheating on him with GUY B?
These girls sef!

Godada:




Guy B is her surest bet, sentiment aside.

Guy A is a load of grief if she gets married to him. From his antecedents, it's obvious that he is promiscuous, violent, and hardly spends time with her so she cannot bet on what the outcome will be if she gets married.

Besides, he has promised every other ladies he is shagging marriage, so it's obvious, he is someone she cannot trust.

Now if all the info, she has on Guy A is anything to depend on, Guy A won't work.

Guy B is straight forward and honest. He stated his martial status before hand. But she needs to gather more intel on Guy B.

Where is the mother of his son. What's the story? Is she dead or alive.

If dead, what's the circumstance?

If alive, what is the rationale leaving her only son with the dad? Some thing is not adding up here. What's so wrong that she can't stay in the relationship with him.

Get these facts.

On the surface....Guy B is the better of the two options.

Left to me, I would advise her to look elsewhere.

By the way, how did she manage to waste 6years of her life with a confirmed player?

mexxy1:


Thank you for your inputs. From what I know;

1. She's been with Guy A for three (3) years not six(6)

2. Guy B had financial issues which made his ex wife leave him and she left with the child. They are in the process of divorce.

3. She fears the ex wife (of Guy B) might instigate the child against her in future which is her major concern (according to her)

siofra:
Please none No cheaters! And no Single fathers!!!

Last week u used fake photo of half cast girl on yor profile.. this week u use dakskin girl.. U a big fraud 419 fraudsta,,,,u tink u can use photo to get moiney of people? u are a OLE!!!


...anyways i forgive u still. coz i like u a little..i beg .. i wannnto to smash I beg. please can we smash...? Real talk?

Pumpumking:


Last week u used fake photo of half cast girl on yor profile.. this week u use dakskin girl.. U a big fraud 419 fraudsta,,,,u tink u can use photo to get moiney of people? u are a OLE!!!


...anyways i forgive u still. coz i like u a little..i beg .. i wannnto to smash I beg. please can we smash...? Real talk?

Nemesis0147:
Why is she judging GUY A when she is already cheating on him with GUY B?
These girls sef!

siofra:


No we won't!!!!

We will never ever smash.
Pumpumking repent and give your life to Christ.

Dindirin!!!!

mexxy1:
Hello everyone, I have someone in a dilemma and needs advice on the next course of action. She needs advice on which man to be with between two men she loves.

Please advice her and not abuse her as I'll show her the comments here. I have this young lady in her early twenties who is in love with two guys. I'll refer to them as Guy A and Guy B.

Both have their baggages which has left her confused hence, her request for advice which I had to bring here. I'll keep my opinion to myself though, I already told her my thoughts.

Now, to their baggages.

GUY A:
- Has dated her for three (3) years now and deflowered her.
- Is always away for months for work (according to him).
- She recently found out he has been chasing everything in skirt over the years and hasn't stopped and is highly promiscuous from his facebook messages and voice recordings she had to forward to herself of him telling other girls about marrying them and about their times spent together in hotels.
- Prone to violence.
- Engaged her early this year but, she wasn't sure though accepted due to compromise and she hasn't seen him in seven (7) months now though he calls often and says he's at work. She doesn't pay him unscheduled visits to confirm since he's not around according to him.

GUY B:
- Met her last year and has been dating her for close to a year.
- Was married for six (6) years but, separated and headed for divorce before she met him.
- Has a two (2) year old son from the previous marriage.
- Calm and very understanding (she wishes she met him earlier).
- She's had no problems with him and he's always been there for her.

Her problems?
1. She is in love with both men.
2. Both men want to marry her.
3. Both families (of the men) already know her and love her.
4. The major problem for her with Guy A is that he is never around and is always on one trip or another.
5. The major problem for her with Guy B is that he has a son (he told her from the onset before she agreed to date him and never hid his status from her).

Ladies and gentlemen, what will you advice and who would you suggest she stays with as both men want to marry her?

Thank you.