My niece is currently enmeshed in this predicament, she has broken everyone's heart in her family including me and my brothers that provided her financial support from 100-400l in uni, she doesn't pick my calls anymore, starting from the week I sent her money last, that was the week I heard everything about her and the moment she knew that, she avoided me like plague as well as my brothers and sisters, she even ignored her mum's calls during that period, she finished school and refused to travel home with an excuse that she was still working on her project, her boyfriend hide her for weeks inside the campus, nobody knew her whereabouts, her mum became very distraught then, eventually she left the campus and traveled to another state entirely without the knowledge of anyone of us.
Her boyfriend is from another tribe and he's not well polished according to my sister, he doesn't respect my sister and her husband! he talks to them rudely, though when I called him he denied those allegations.

Personally if I'm dating a lady and her family says leave her alone, I will end such relationship immediately because I don't want any problem at all, if something happens tomorrow, how do I handle it.

I believe as a grown up person we're at liberty to make certain decisions, but we should not ignore some good advice from our family members.
Sometimes when you are madly in love with someone, it blinds you, you won't be in the right frame of mind to make certain decisions by yourself, your family can see somethings which you cannot because of the love. But eventually your eyes will open.
I am an advocate of inter ethnic marriage, but that's just me alone, I don't want to to incur the wrath of my family by supporting her at this point.

She alleged that her family (her mum and dad) are trying to force someone else on her, but my sister denied the allegation, according to my sister, she was the one that even met the second guy herself, the relationship started and they both agreed to do introduction the moment she finishes. My sister prefers the guy from my tribe but she doesn't want him.

I raised this girl while she was growing up because I lived with my sister till I finished primary school, she was a very humble girl to the core then, she's almost 26 now! she's the first child

Actions have consequences and we should always be ready to accept them, our decisions will either make or mar our future, so it will either be a good or bad turn.

No insult please.

Most girls prefer to learn from their mistakes, so I'll advise you stay away from her so she can learn.

The attitude of the guy already shows that he's irresponsible and only out to use her to satisfy his sexual desires, cos no responsible guy will fold his arms and watch a girl he claims to love disown her own people.

Allow her be for now, once things go south with the guy in question, she'll come back home.

Nazgul:
Most girls prefer to learn from their mistakes, so I'll advise you stay away from her so she can learn.

The attitude of the guy already shows that he's irresponsible and only out to use her to satisfy his sexual desires, cos no responsible guy will fold his arms and watch a girl he claims to love disown her own people.

Allow her be for now, once things go south with the guy in question, she'll come back home.

Thanks for your candid advice.

I nor say u get sense like this.ur sense go full cover beer

If the girl is an igbo girl
I would blame the family

Cuz this so similar to what happened to me
Immediately after schooling in Gh the igbo girl i was dating was bent on never returning to the east, because are father's friend was waiting.
Her father called me, after she told her father she would never return and i assured him she would be on a bus the next day
Heavens nearly fell getting her to the bus station, paid and told the driver about it.
Was one of the most painful moment
Of my life.
Never dated till 3yrs plus after

Her eyes go soon clear

Abfinest007:
I nor say u get sense like this.ur sense go full cover beer

Lol, you are funny man

Debbe:
Her eyes go soon clear

Exactly dear

richeeyo:
If the girl is an igbo girl
I would blame the family

Cuz this so similar to what happened to me
Immediately after schooling in Gh the igbo girl i was dating was bent on never returning to the east, because are father's friend was waiting.
Her father called me, after she told her father she would never return and i assured him she would be on a bus the next day
Heavens nearly fell getting her to the bus station, paid and told the driver about it.
Was one of the most painful moment
Of my life.
Never dated till 3yrs plus after

she's not an Igbo girl, for your story it's better that way bro, that was a hard decision to make, but it's a good one

HOLLY GRAM I NO GET ANYTHING TO YAN 4 DIS MATTER SO MAKE I JUST RELAX N HIGH UP MY KUSH. WTF MAN