Hey guys! I need your advice on dis issue bothering my state of mind...My story goes dis way, I fell inlove with dis girl not quite long maybe close to 8month now. Am a prospective graduate to be. The girl in the picture just concluded her waec dis year. Though! I think I love her so much but my biggest fear is that she demands i see her parents in other for her to gain my full trust and to prove to her how much I really love her, and I don't buy the idea.
Am just considering dat she might want to trap me down or probably she is pregnant for someone else and want me to carry d full responsibility. Apart from that, I really don't know how to go about that becuz I don't know how her parents will react to it becuz she is still very young maybe 18years. My fear is that how do I drop the word to her parents becuz her father is a no nonsense man and am not ready to die yet.
Do u think is too early for that?

Her reasons for dis Is becuz she wants to gain my trust and for me to prove to her how much I really love her.

Bro, its over early, like too early. For you to earn her full trust? Buh sha its still normal thing. Just go greet them make sure her dad is not around. You hear me bah?

ahmthankgod:
Bro, its over early, like too early. For you to earn her full trust? Buh sha its still normal thing. Just go greet them make sure her dad is not around. You hear me bah?

Noted bro.....thanks.

UYEMDO35:
Noted bro.....thanks.

You're welcome

She is wise.

A good relationship should have both parents’ approval. Only then will you be careful with your dealings with her.

It's not too early. It's actually great!

Aren't you dating for marriage? What's the fear?

Is she the one here-https://www.nairaland.com/6598674/girlfriend-cheated-me-claims-belong ?

What are you doing with an 18 year old

OnlineArchitect:


Should we tell him? abi make we allow am learn from experience

Bro! Spill it out, am here to learn so dat I won't make any mistake.

ednut1:
What are you doing with an 18 year old

bro! You won't understand... Am in love with her

chatinent:
She is wise.

A good relationship should have both parents’ approval. Only then will you be careful with your dealings with her.

It's not too early. It's actually great!

Aren't you dating for marriage? What's the fear?

Best advise so far..... To be candid, am dating her for marriage and I think I have found her worthy.

If e no be for marriage this is 4 u
Irredeemable Simps Are Useless...All Of Them

Oglock:
If e no be for marriage this is 4 u
Irredeemable Simps Are Useless...All Of Them

Didn't get ur statement

UYEMDO35:
Hey guys! I need your advice on dis issue bothering my state of mind...My story goes dis way, I fell inlove with dis girl not quite long maybe close to 8month now. Am a prospective graduate to be. The girl in the picture just concluded her waec dis year. Though! I think I love her so much but my biggest fear is that she demands i see her parents in other for her to gain my full trust and to prove to her how much I really love her, and I don't buy the idea.
Am just considering dat she might want to trap me down or probably she is pregnant for someone else and want me to carry d full responsibility. Apart from that, I really don't know how to go about that becuz I don't know how her parents will react to it becuz she is still very young maybe 18years. My fear is that how do I drop the word to her parents becuz her father is a no nonsense man and am not ready to die yet.
Do u think is too early for that?

Her reasons for dis Is becuz she wants to gain my trust and for me to prove to her how much I really love her.

My brother, in the first place,18years old girl, is very small for you to fall in love with!, You are about to graduate, many journey ahead of you, soon you will go for service and meet with alot of ladies home and aboard, and your thinking will change!
Dating for marriage as you said, how long will you wait for her to be ready and by Dan did you think things will still be like how you guys planned it
You can go to her parents for just a visit as friends okay, not other way round, coz no parents will accept that from you, you know what I mean!.... Love, life and marriage is more Dan that bro, it beyond what you can be preparing for with 18years (waec graduate) ....any journey ahead, many things will happen, to me this is just *a dream impossible*

Ingredient88:


My brother, in the first place,18years old girl, is very small for you to fall in love with!, You are about to graduate, many journey ahead of you, soon you will go for service and meet with alot of ladies home and aboard, and your thinking will change!
Dating for marriage as you said, how long will you wait for her to be ready and by Dan did you think things will still be like how you guys planned it
You can go to her parents for just a visit as friends okay, not other way round, coz no parents will accept that from you, you know what I mean!.... Love, life and marriage is more Dan that bro, it beyond what you can be preparing for with 18years (waec graduate) ....any journey ahead, many things will happen, to me this is just *a dream impossible*

Am just shot of words, A word from an elder. Thanks sir! I think I will give into your words. I thought of dis before but i was so blinded to see it dat way. when I brought up the issue to her she was like before she could think of settling down it will take 5to6 year... Which I think is still very far.

UYEMDO35:

Am just shot of words, A word from an elder. Thanks sir! I think I will give into your words. I thought of dis before but i was so blinded to see it dat way. when I brought up the issue to her she was like before she could think of settling down it will take 5to6 year... Which I think is still very far.

Am not even sure if she will be ready in 6years time, look at it in this way, she will wait for results to be ready, 1year gone, Dan gain admission spend 4years or more, it depends, that is 5years already, Dan maybe her school will mobilize her a year after graduation, Dan she will want to finish her service b4 she is ready or try and get something doing b4 going into marriage.........
My advice for you is that you both should continue as friends, if God want she will be your better half someday....you should be focus on your graduation now, and graduate with GOOD GRADES.....

Ingredient88:

Am not even sure if she will be ready in 6years time, look at it in this way, she will wait for results to be ready, 1year gone, Dan gain admission spend 4years or more, it depends, that is 5years already, Dan maybe her school will mobilize her a year after graduation, Dan she will want to finish her service b4 she is ready or try and get something doing b4 going into marriage.........
My advice for you is that you both should continue as friends, if God want she will be your better half someday....you should be focus on your graduation now, and graduate with GOOD GRADES.....

Thank u sir, I really appreciation ur words of advise.

HOLLY GRAM NA NORMAL PAROLE. NO B TO SEE PARENTS. ABOBI GO SEE DEM. WTF MAN

ednut1:
What are you doing with an 18 year old

I started dating at 13,got married at 16 had grandchildren at 30.I'm 60+ now with numerous great grand children, so erase that mentality against early marriage.

An 18 year old dishing out instructions to a Fool/full grown Man, you have a long way to go

WTF man ! Nairalanders pls tell him

Iyaebe:
I started dating at 13,got married at 16 had grandchildren at 30.I'm 60+ now with numerous great grand children, so erase that mentality against early marriage.

lmbdoooo