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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by uchdavinci: 11:39am On Nov 08, 2021
You don't need any advice, you already made up ur mind and no advice can change it.
Ok, lemme advice you, leave school.
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by MrPresent(m): 11:41am On Nov 08, 2021
Tell her then.
If she says yes....good.
If she says no...life goes on.

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by passthem(m): 11:42am On Nov 08, 2021
Special32:
Am a 24 years medical student in my fourth year of the university I meet her when we where in our second year I never knew she was even in our class until our second year at first we where only saying hello to each other than some school stuff brought us together in our third year ever since we became close as friends and now I am realizing that I really like her and I want more than just being normal friends with her.

I feel it wouldn't be right because we are in the same department same level in school I keep on trying to let the feeling go but everyday I keep on seeing her and my feelings for her keep on increasing.

I really need advice on what to do I don't know what to do about the emotions I feel towards her.

Moeny first before women.Stop being idiotic.

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by akmath: 11:50am On Nov 08, 2021
You just de find who you wan Bleep



You never talk true Mr Lovinus

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by degab148(m): 11:51am On Nov 08, 2021
U don't need to be in relationship for now if you don't want to et distracted and distract her as well. What to do: 1. Know when to use MEET and MET. 2. When to use WHERE and WERE..... I remember my Lecturer always saying extra-cool(midnight calls) among students simply means u and ur partner are saying to each other"i want to fail, i want to fail".... Till i got married i did not marry any of them.
Special32:
Am a 24 years medical student in my fourth year of the university I meet her when we where in our second year I never knew she was even in our class until our second year at first we where only saying hello to each other than some school stuff brought us together in our third year ever since we became close as friends and now I am realizing that I really like her and I want more than just being normal friends with her.

I feel it wouldn't be right because we are in the same department same level in school I keep on trying to let the feeling go but everyday I keep on seeing her and my feelings for her keep on increasing.

I really need advice on what to do I don't know what to do about the emotions I feel towards her.
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Nafizzey(m): 12:06pm On Nov 08, 2021
obembet:
Go and marry her before someone else take her away from u. Woman are very scares this day o
Women scars in this days? I think you are saying the irony..

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Nobody: 12:12pm On Nov 08, 2021
DriverX:
You feel it wouldnt be right, so what are you doing here seeking advice from strangers who don't give a fuck_ about you?

So hol up. If strangers ask you to do what you feel is not right, you will do it?



You're wise, Broh


Said it all...

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by dahme147(m): 12:22pm On Nov 08, 2021
padi94:
Na mumu dey fall in love, one month to Christmas

Dis guy an wahrey walahi....... grin grin grin hahaha
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Nobody: 12:31pm On Nov 08, 2021
padi94:
Na mumu dey fall in love, one month to Christmas

Na mumu dey fall in love at all. Love na proper slavery and Scam.
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Nobody: 12:37pm On Nov 08, 2021
Special32:
Am a 24 years medical student in my fourth year of the university I meet her when we where in our second year I never knew she was even in our class until our second year at first we where only saying hello to each other than some school stuff brought us together in our third year ever since we became close as friends and now I am realizing that I really like her and I want more than just being normal friends with her.

I feel it wouldn't be right because we are in the same department same level in school I keep on trying to let the feeling go but everyday I keep on seeing her and my feelings for her keep on increasing.

I really need advice on what to do I don't know what to do about the emotions I feel towards her.

I once had same problem back in the days. Thankfully I've trained myself to take radical decisions once I know something will enslave me.

I just started finding fault with her and beefing her. I simply ignited deep quarrel between us and she got angry and retaliated.

Long story short it did the trick. We stopped talking and my feelings for her began to gradually go down. I was deeply tempted to apologize cos I had deep sympathy for her but I thoroughly disciplined myself to wait till every feelings I have for her totally dies. The method completely solved the problem.
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Caseless: 12:52pm On Nov 08, 2021
Special32:
Am a 24 years medical student in my fourth year of the university I meet her when we where in our second year I never knew she was even in our class until our second year at first we where only saying hello to each other than some school stuff brought us together in our third year ever since we became close as friends and now I am realizing that I really like her and I want more than just being normal friends with her.

I feel it wouldn't be right because we are in the same department same level in school I keep on trying to let the feeling go but everyday I keep on seeing her and my feelings for her keep on increasing.

I really need advice on what to do I don't know what to do about the emotions I feel towards her.
if you love your parents, stay focused on your studies. If get you into any relationship and there's problem, which is likely, you'll forced to skip classes and depressed, especially when she's now rolling with another guy.

Again, if you want to see yourself in faculty of science and have the people who calls you "doctor" now to take that away, go into a relationship.

Face your studies.

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by muheeb01(m): 1:05pm On Nov 08, 2021
Read your book oo don't look focus

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Greatfullheart: 1:07pm On Nov 08, 2021
excellence44:

Somebody help me with that meme where flogging that boy with Cain or the one wey mc root I'm colleague.
Face ya study.
see the one wey we get.

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Greatfullheart: 1:09pm On Nov 08, 2021
Have ever ask yourself why are you falling in love at 400level? Use your head, am talking from experience that what happened to me and i didnt get to finisi my ND back in 2017.

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Uncleodi(m): 1:11pm On Nov 08, 2021
Special32:
Am a 24 years medical student in my fourth year of the university I meet her when we where in our second year I never knew she was even in our class until our second year at first we where only saying hello to each other than some school stuff brought us together in our third year ever since we became close as friends and now I am realizing that I really like her and I want more than just being normal friends with her.

I feel it wouldn't be right because we are in the same department same level in school I keep on trying to let the feeling go but everyday I keep on seeing her and my feelings for her keep on increasing.

I really need advice on what to do I don't know what to do about the emotions I feel towards her.

Being a medical student keeps you ahead of your contemporaries who are not studying medicine.

If you love her and she loves you too, then the sky is your starting point.

Marry her during your house job and enjoy you growth together

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by PrincewithGod(m): 1:12pm On Nov 08, 2021
My brother, i will advice you to give your life to Christ and prepare yourself for heaven.

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by eteba(m): 1:36pm On Nov 08, 2021
Just get her around, smash her puna....move on and face ur studies.
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Chyjoey(m): 1:45pm On Nov 08, 2021
Uncleodi:


Being a medical student keeps you ahead of your contemporaries who are not studying medicine.

If you love her and she loves you too, then the sky is your starting point.

Marry her during your house job and enjoy you growth together

I totally agree with you (though not with your sentiment about being ahead of non-medical peers, being a doctor doesn't suddenly make you god).

If your feelings are genuine, I think you should go ahead and tell her. I don't understand the 'face your studies' mantra. A healthy romantic relationship can be beneficial to your studies. I'm a medical doctor, and my significant other was a medical student like myself. I did not fail - I graduated top of my class.

I don't get what romance has to do with studies and intellect.
I say go for it, if it works, it works. If it doesn't - move on. At least you know you tried.

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:57pm On Nov 08, 2021
Baby boy don't mine those people saying you should not fall in love. They all fell in love when they were your age. Yes we all did. Fall in love and fall as deep as your can go. When it's time to rise, you rise and fall again and again. It's not a crime and it's not a sin..it's part of human developmental process. Just make sure you rise when you need to and don't even stay inlove if the person you fell for didn't fall with you or had left you and walked away.
Explore but don't lose yourself while doing so.

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Adefolarin1: 2:36pm On Nov 08, 2021
Bukasint:


Don't fail your Pharmacology and Pathology. I know how a guy in my class failed because of his love for me and I used him the extent he repeated the class. I moved on and he is still in final year now.
Chai grin
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by maureensylvia(f): 3:34pm On Nov 08, 2021
Katcall:
am falling in luv with you

I Dodge it
Meanwhile, it's I'm not Am
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Lokojatoofar: 3:45pm On Nov 08, 2021
Just fall. When you fall finish standup and move on either alone or with the woman you fell for

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Solsix(m): 4:22pm On Nov 08, 2021
Munzy14:

I hope you did thanksgiving.. grin


Devil kwa?

My brother nothing bad in loving, just know you must do first thing first.

Lol, the gal was not loving me back. You how this overrated gals dey behave. It was when I started boning her that she started calling and coming around but I didn't give her any chance again
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Munzy14(m): 4:24pm On Nov 08, 2021
Solsix:

Lol, the gal was not loving me back. You how this overrated gals dey behave. It was when I started boning her that she started calling and coming around but I didn't give her any chance again
Maybe she was doing hard to get stuffs.. grin

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Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by tomzyELNINO: 4:29pm On Nov 08, 2021
You can open up to her. You never can tell, she might be entangled in love or relationship with another person. But first of all, you need to ask yourself if you are emotionally matured to enter a relationship or you are just looking for a way to fall into fornication. Also, note that feelings grow naturally with proximity. You can try your best to avoid her. its not easy, but you have to try and endure. But overall, FLEE ALL APPEARANCES OF SIN.
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by DavidHarry(m): 4:38pm On Nov 08, 2021
Tell her you finds her attractive and you hope she can fit into ur world
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Adegbem01(m): 4:42pm On Nov 08, 2021
Mmadu2:


I once had same problem back in the days. Thankfully I've trained myself to take radical decisions once I know something will enslave me.

I just started finding fault with her and beefing her. I simply ignited deep quarrel between us and she got angry and retaliated.

Long story short it did the trick. We stopped talking and my feelings for her began to gradually go down. I was deeply tempted to apologize cos I had deep sympathy for her but I thoroughly disciplined myself to wait till every feelings I have for her totally dies. The method completely solved the problem.
Bros na lie.... Is either it was not true feeling or at the least the feeling step back to come rushing back soonest grin grin grin
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Katcall: 4:44pm On Nov 08, 2021
maureensylvia:

I Dodge it Meanwhile, it's I'm not Am
why? I like you
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by ayo6hammiey(m): 6:32pm On Nov 08, 2021
Very simple.

Be mature about it. Let her know you are developing feelings for her and you wanna know if it's mutual or not before you pursue the feelings. Let her know you are telling her this to know if the feeling is mutual, and if not you can quickly and easily curb it so it won't affect your friendship with her.
SHIKENA!!
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by Nobody: 7:37pm On Nov 08, 2021
Adegbem01:

Bros na lie.... Is either it was not true feeling or at the least the feeling step back to come rushing back soonest grin grin grin

https://www.nairaland.com/6840117/how-break-loose-youre-falling#107444083
Re: I Am Falling In Love With My Course Mate Really Don't Know What To Do About It by TheSociopath(m): 9:12pm On Nov 08, 2021
tctrills:

He is a medical student not in the grammar class.
If you are dying of a sickness, you wouldn't care if the doctor spoke bad English.

Doesn't mean he shouldn't write good English

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