Saw this from a friend who needs help &felt I should throw it open to the house for matured minds advise.
#Copied... But True Story.


I graduated at age 20yrs, did my NYSC &got a job where I was paid N250k monthly. Being the last child of my parents, my elder ones are doing very fine for themselves (&family), so literally, I had no financial obligation outside my parents welfare. At work place, Real Agents once walked in to enlighten us on an existing offer that made so much sense & how one could make installment payment over time. I bought the idea, keyed into it &within 2yrs, was able to finish payment & with the help of God, was able to also construct 8Units of 2bedroom flats (all occupied by tenants) on the piece of land I acquired. Currently, I'm 28yrs old &about to get married, TM had been fixed for 28th Dec. Myself & Fiancé had a date two Sundays ago where we opened up to ourselves, making bare every secrets that had stayed hidden all the while. That was when I told him I had some properties &how I acquired them. You could tell from his expression that he was shocked & surprised. Told me he had no such but was working towards acquiring such also in the nearest future. He has a car, lives in a rented 3bedroom apartment with a good job &seems comfortable.

Why am I writing all these?
My man called last night (as usual), before he ended the call, he said after marriage, he would want me to transfer the Deed of my property to his name &also the account to which my tenants have been paying their rent to should now be moved to an account in his name as well, stating that's how a woman ought to be under a man. I found it totally strange (&very weird) but at the same time, didn't want to go into an argument with him or sound feminist.

We have only done introduction. House, please how can I tell him its not going to be possible if I am going to go ahead with the marriage?

His money is OUR money
My money is MY money.




Who are they?

Seek counsel from your pastors not on Nairaland.

The next time you talk,just tell him his joke the other day on the phone was hilarious.

Okay ooo

Davash222:
His money is OUR money
My money is MY money.


Who are they?

My property is my property
Her property is MUST BE my property

Who are they?

Hmmm

Honestly one plus one is equal to one

The only thing wrong is that he said in his name instead of our names, rent payment also could be in a joint account not in his private account.

I am particularly surprised he is in a hurry about it he should have waited for some time after marriage to come up with this.

Whatever decision reached must be mutually agreed on

LIVE HIM NOW, HE FEELS SINCE YOU HAVE MORE MONEY THAN HIM HE'S INFERIOR. HE WILL DO EVERY THING TO MAKE HIMSELF SUPERIOR TO YOU EVEN BEATING

Debodimeji01:
Saw this from a friend who needs help &felt I should throw it open to the house for matured minds advise.
#Copied... But True Story.


I graduated at age 20yrs, did my NYSC &got a job where I was paid N250k monthly. Being the last child of my parents, my elder ones are doing very fine for themselves (&family), so literally, I had no financial obligation outside my parents welfare. At work place, Real Agents once walked in to enlighten us on an existing offer that made so much sense & how one could make installment payment over time. I bought the idea, keyed into it &within 2yrs, was able to finish payment & with the help of God, was able to also construct 8Units of 2bedroom flats (all occupied by tenants) on the piece of land I acquired. Currently, I'm 28yrs old &about to get married, TM had been fixed for 28th Dec. Myself & Fiancé had a date two Sundays ago where we opened up to ourselves, making bare every secrets that had stayed hidden all the while. That was when I told him I had some properties &how I acquired them. You could tell from his expression that he was shocked & surprised. Told me he had no such but was working towards acquiring such also in the nearest future. He has a car, lives in a rented 3bedroom apartment with a good job &seems comfortable.

Why am I writing all these?
My man called last night (as usual), before he ended the call, he said after marriage, he would want me to transfer the Deed of my property to his name &also the account to which my tenants have been paying their rent to should now be moved to an account in his name as well, stating that's how a woman ought to be under a man. I found it totally strange (&very weird) but at the same time, didn't want to go into an argument with him or sound feminist.

We have only done introduction. House, please how can I tell him its not going to be possible if I am going to go ahead with the marriage?

Her guy is a thief and a criminal for planning to claim her properties. He wants to play yahoo game on her. She shouldn't fall for his yahoo game. SHE NEENS TO BE WISE UP!!!

That's a gold digger you have there.

What is really wrong with some people self. Why are we so obsessed with material things? Materials things or money is the last thing I will ever fight, steal or drag with someone in my life.

A woman that will eventually willingly handed over everything to you the moment she see you are not the type that is obsessed with her wealth or properties. Infact, she would be the one begging you to manage it for her.

The bobo na Anini

It is either he's greedy or someone is advising him wrongly. Whatever the case, it's a wrong move by the guy and a big red flag.

She has been dealing with a man who's ignorantly small-minded, domineering, and/or greedy.

So since that Sunday, this is all he's had his mind on. An advice he got from someone or not, for the fact that he actually thought it wise to voice it out to you smh it's indeed a shame.

You must end the relationship.

More red flags are about to be unveiled.

It can never end well. Why should ha have the guys to even ask?

You may end up doing it because you are desperate to be married but the signs are already there for you.

Be wise.
He's trying to take over your bearing and entire property after which he'll kick you out anytime he feels.

Look, human beings can not be trusted. They can change and become strangers overnight
You made a mistake by divulging that aspect of your life to him. I mean... It won't hurt him if you dont tell him... The only ones you would have felt safer telling are your children, in the future.

Now, you won't know what he's after anymore. Whether it's you or your property. If he doesn't call off the marriage now, he may start giving you attitude in marriage making the whole thing tiring for you even before you start. Men are like that

My candid advice, forget about him cos if you go ahead, you no go hear word for that marriage. He'll continue to disturb you about it and begin to grow jealous to the point of getting rid of you.

Never disclose your wealth to any man born of a woman in the name of relationship or love.

Mercychen:
Be wise.
He's trying to take over your bearing entire and property after which he'll kick you out anytime he feels.

Look, human beings can not be trusted. They can change and become strangers overnight
You made a mistake by divulging that aspect of your life to him. I mean... It won't hurt him if you dont tell him... The only ones you would have felt safer telling are your children, in the future.

Now, you won't know what he's after anymore. Whether it's you or your property. If he doesn't call off the marriage now, he may start giving you attitude in marriage making the whole thing tiring for you even before you start. Men are like that

My candid advice, forget about him cos if you go ahead, you no go hear word for that marriage. He'll continue to disturb you about it and begin to grow jealous to the point of getting rid of you.

Never disclose your wealth to any man born of a woman in the name of relationship or love.

so u advising him to hav sexxx wit he mother I law becuz he buy propaty? ..are u a gold digger? Shame on u again for misliddin man!!(no oofensece)

Mercychen:
Be wise.
He's trying to take over your bearing entire and property after which he'll kick you out anytime he feels.

Look, human beings can not be trusted. They can change and become strangers overnight
You made a mistake by divulging that aspect of your life to him. I mean... It won't hurt him if you dont tell him... The only ones you would have felt safer telling are your children, in the future.

Now, you won't know what he's after anymore. Whether it's you or your property. If he doesn't call off the marriage now, he may start giving you attitude in marriage making the whole thing tiring for you even before you start. Men are like that

My candid advice, forget about him cos if you go ahead, you no go hear word for that marriage. He'll continue to disturb you about it and begin to grow jealous to the point of getting rid of you.

Never disclose your wealth to any man born of a woman in the name of relationship or love.

Wow so u advisin man to sleep wit his mother in law be coz he by property tonight? sister r u ok sir??(no oofensece)

Debodimeji01:
Saw this from a friend who needs help &felt I should throw it open to the house for matured minds advise.
#Copied... But True Story.


I graduated at age 20yrs, did my NYSC &got a job where I was paid N250k monthly. Being the last child of my parents, my elder ones are doing very fine for themselves (&family), so literally, I had no financial obligation outside my parents welfare. At work place, Real Agents once walked in to enlighten us on an existing offer that made so much sense & how one could make installment payment over time. I bought the idea, keyed into it &within 2yrs, was able to finish payment & with the help of God, was able to also construct 8Units of 2bedroom flats (all occupied by tenants) on the piece of land I acquired. Currently, I'm 28yrs old &about to get married, TM had been fixed for 28th Dec. Myself & Fiancé had a date two Sundays ago where we opened up to ourselves, making bare every secrets that had stayed hidden all the while. That was when I told him I had some properties &how I acquired them. You could tell from his expression that he was shocked & surprised. Told me he had no such but was working towards acquiring such also in the nearest future. He has a car, lives in a rented 3bedroom apartment with a good job &seems comfortable.

Why am I writing all these?
My man called last night (as usual), before he ended the call, he said after marriage, he would want me to transfer the Deed of my property to his name &also the account to which my tenants have been paying their rent to should now be moved to an account in his name as well, stating that's how a woman ought to be under a man. I found it totally strange (&very weird) but at the same time, didn't want to go into an argument with him or sound feminist.

We have only done introduction. House, please how can I tell him its not going to be possible if I am going to go ahead with the marriage?

OP please ignore Mercychen...she sound like gold digger sir...there types is every were sir!!

Debodimeji01:
Saw this from a friend who needs help &felt I should throw it open to the house for matured minds advise.
#Copied... But True Story.


I graduated at age 20yrs, did my NYSC &got a job where I was paid N250k monthly. Being the last child of my parents, my elder ones are doing very fine for themselves (&family), so literally, I had no financial obligation outside my parents welfare. At work place, Real Agents once walked in to enlighten us on an existing offer that made so much sense & how one could make installment payment over time. I bought the idea, keyed into it &within 2yrs, was able to finish payment & with the help of God, was able to also construct 8Units of 2bedroom flats (all occupied by tenants) on the piece of land I acquired. Currently, I'm 28yrs old &about to get married, TM had been fixed for 28th Dec. Myself & Fiancé had a date two Sundays ago where we opened up to ourselves, making bare every secrets that had stayed hidden all the while. That was when I told him I had some properties &how I acquired them. You could tell from his expression that he was shocked & surprised. Told me he had no such but was working towards acquiring such also in the nearest future. He has a car, lives in a rented 3bedroom apartment with a good job &seems comfortable.

Why am I writing all these?
My man called last night (as usual), before he ended the call, he said after marriage, he would want me to transfer the Deed of my property to his name &also the account to which my tenants have been paying their rent to should now be moved to an account in his name as well, stating that's how a woman ought to be under a man. I found it totally strange (&very weird) but at the same time, didn't want to go into an argument with him or sound feminist.

We have only done introduction. House, please how can I tell him its not going to be possible if I am going to go ahead with the marriage?

Don't ever do that. The purpose of marriage is not for us to lose our senses and individuality.