Sexual Market Value - SMV

I know many of you must have heard of the SMV before but some people still find it hard to grasp so I will make it as easily understandable and Nigerianly relatable as possible before comparing it with the West.
Lets go to the root cause of the problem – women thinking they are men. Men are success object and women are sexual object. Men will always be judged by their ability to provide and for women, they sexual attraction is first point of assessment.
If she is young, it makes it a big advantage because of biology – fertility and natural sense of submissiveness to older romantic figure.
It is not surprising the desperate pace at which thirst traps and sultry pictures for validation has clouded social media relations.
You hear women say your 20s are for living because though they won’t admit it, they are conscious of the wall. In their peak, they have unlimited options of prime male - thanks to sexual attraction, age, fertility, availability and others personal to you.
This explains why many won’t date their mates and brag they don’t date boys but men. Good enough, many marry (and still have a career).
As they hit their 30s, epiphany hits and they suddenly want to have the cake they ate.
Their male age mates who were still finding their feet are now fully blossomed both physically and financially. These men saw their mates leave them for mature guys with whom they could not compete. Uni guys can attest to working class guys picking up their babes on Fridays.
As these guys hit their 30s, power changes hand naturally and they now have unlimited options between young ladies and their unmarried mates. We know who have the advantages?
What do women in their 30s/women who plan not to marry till their 30s for career/wild oats reasons, do?
They try manipulative games of calling you a predator for overlooking them in their winter season for younger ladies in their prime. They flaunt their career and sometimes, money and claim men are afraid of strong, independent women.
These are just shalaye. Note that many of their friends are married and even have kids and career. This is not to shame women nor does it in anyway intend to mock those who genuinely seek matrimony but have been unlucky. I'm just making plain upon tables, age old knowledge.
Men mostly don’t care about your career. That is your personal problem. You are the one who made a choice to chase career at the expense of marriage. You can’t police men to marry you just because you think you are now ready to settle down.
Your options are now limited to older guys who are still unmarried, divorcee, single dads or polygamists except you can date down. There is really no problem, its you who choose to chase career or hoe away or whatever. Just accept the consequences of the choices when the wall hits.

Nice one

Talk am small small. No too dey loud am.

Another truckload of TRASH!!!

Papa Benji give this Op one Bo!!

I smell something fishy on this thread,it must be the commenter above me isshhh..

siofra:
Another truckload of TRASH!!!

Hahahaha E pain you

Let me park hear and wait for the elders

siofra:
Another truckload of TRASH!!!

You better learn lesson from what the op wrote before you hit the wall and start begging men to date and marry you. And if you have hit the wall you can still go to shiloh for prayers and fasting. There is nothing God cannot do.

siofra:
Another truckload of TRASH!!!

Social media creates delusions and delusions are comforting. Women claim they don’t need men and men overrate their importance. Yet, half the prayers in church are prayers for husbands. The only gender that testifies about getting married are women.
The gender that demands respect from their single friends for being married are women. The one who loudly shut down social media with engagement, traditional and white wedding are women.
For those who love to say a woman is not defined or limited by marriage, please relax.
Marriage is important to everybody -male or female and family is the most important core of humanity. Enough of the self deceit. Career is good. It is not the ultimate.

When a woman hits 30, family gets worried and even she gets mad and anxious when her partner hasn’t proposed.
When a woman is dumped in her 30s, she cries that age is no longer on her side and female commenters start wishing the guy unimaginable evil. To get the true thoughts of their hearts, look at their reactions to intimate affairs of 30+ women – whether bliss or heartbreak.
In their 30s, they tend to tolerate shit they ordinary may not tolerate in their 20s because – “where do I start from.” Women are more eager to accept ring 2 weeks after the first meeting in their 30s out of desperation but call it “knowing what I want” to control the narrative.
They also praise the man as serious for knowing what he wants. LOOOL. It is just an euphemism for "Thank God it is happening."

Ignore the bullshit of 30+ women understanding men more than younger women. 30+ women are the most vulnerable of all women - Easy peasy.
The biggest problem women have is not accepting the sexual values they had in their 20s has dropped. The sexual market value of a woman is determined by men unless she is gay.
As age goes up, demand drops and so does the SMV.
Nothing is more threatening, yet simultaneously attractive to a woman that a man who is aware of his own value to women.
- Rollo Tomassi

Women don't want you to see your value even in your prime because your knowledge of that is threatening.

oilmonie:
Sexual Market Value - SMV

I know many of you must have heard of the SMV before but some people still find it hard to grasp so I will make it as easily understandable and Nigerianly relatable as possible before comparing it with the West.
Lets go to the root cause of the problem – women thinking they are men. Men are success object and women are sexual object. Men will always be judged by their ability to provide and for women, they sexual attraction is first point of assessment.
If she is young, it makes it a big advantage because of biology – fertility and natural sense of submissiveness to older romantic figure.
It is not surprising the desperate pace at which thirst traps and sultry pictures for validation has clouded social media relations.
You hear women say your 20s are for living because though they won’t admit it, they are conscious of the wall. In their peak, they have unlimited options of prime male - thanks to sexual attraction, age, fertility, availability and others personal to you.
This explains why many won’t date their mates and brag they don’t date boys but men. Good enough, many marry (and still have a career).
As they hit their 30s, epiphany hits and they suddenly want to have the cake they ate.
Their male age mates who were still finding their feet are now fully blossomed both physically and financially. These men saw their mates leave them for mature guys with whom they could not compete. Uni guys can attest to working class guys picking up their babes on Fridays.
As these guys hit their 30s, power changes hand naturally and they now have unlimited options between young ladies and their unmarried mates. We know who have the advantages?
What do women in their 30s/women who plan not to marry till their 30s for career/wild oats reasons, do?
They try manipulative games of calling you a predator for overlooking them in their winter season for younger ladies in their prime. They flaunt their career and sometimes, money and claim men are afraid of strong, independent women.
These are just shalaye. Note that many of their friends are married and even have kids and career. This is not to shame women nor does it in anyway intend to mock those who genuinely seek matrimony but have been unlucky. I'm just making plain upon tables, age old knowledge.
Men mostly don’t care about your career. That is your personal problem. You are the one who made a choice to chase career at the expense of marriage. You can’t police men to marry you just because you think you are now ready to settle down.
Your options are now limited to older guys who are still unmarried, divorcee, single dads or polygamists except you can date down. There is really no problem, its you who choose to chase career or hoe away or whatever. Just accept the consequences of the choices when the wall hits.

Thank you for the post.

What they fail to know is that "He is life start at 40 while her life ends at 40".
But unfortunately no one is ready for this discussion.

Amazing write up....
I couldn't have put it better...
This is not to shame the ladies buh...
The same way older guys were dating you while you were younger is the same way they will ignore you to date younger girls when you're older ((if you're unmarried))..

It's a harsh reality, buh it's true none the less...
A large percentage of guys between the ages of 30 - 35 will prefer girls that are in 20's than girls within that age range, because the girls within their age range are no longer sexually appealing to their eyes when compared to girls in their 20's...

That's why I always tell ladies in their 20's who intend to "settle down" one day, that be REALISTIC IN YOUR EXPECTATIONS, stop all this nonsense idea of "I want a man who is rich, tall, handsome, chocolate skinned etc", chances are that you won't find all those qualities in one man ((how many rich people are tall and chocolate skinned??))... And even if you find all those qualities in one man, what are the chances that you have the qualities he's also looking for??

I'm not in anyway saying ladies should settle for less, PLEASE DON'T, buh if you intend to ever get married and get married well, make your expectations realistic especially in your 20's, so that you don't end up marrying out of desperation in your 30's....

oilmonie:
Social media creates delusions and delusions are comforting. Women claim they don’t need men and men overrate their importance. Yet, half the prayers in church are prayers for husbands. The only gender that testifies about getting married are women.
The gender that demands respect from their single friends for being married are women. The one who loudly shut down social media with engagement, traditional and white wedding are women.
For those who love to say a woman is not defined or limited by marriage, please relax.
Marriage is important to everybody -male or female and family is the most important core of humanity. Enough of the self deceit. Career is good. It is not the ultimate.

When a woman hits 30, family gets worried and even she gets mad and anxious when her partner hasn’t proposed.
When a woman is dumped in her 30s, she cries that age is no longer on her side and female commenters start wishing the guy unimaginable evil. To get the true thoughts of their hearts, look at their reactions to intimate affairs of 30+ women – whether bliss or heartbreak.
In their 30s, they tend to tolerate shit they ordinary may not tolerate in their 20s because – “where do I start from.” Women are more eager to accept ring 2 weeks after the first meeting in their 30s out of desperation but call it “knowing what I want” to control the narrative.
They also praise the man as serious for knowing what he wants. LOOOL. It is just an euphemism for "Thank God it is happening."

Ignore the bullshit of 30+ women understanding men more than younger women. 30+ women are the most vulnerable of all women - Easy peasy.
The biggest problem women have is not accepting the sexual values they had in their 20s has dropped. The sexual market value of a woman is determined by men unless she is gay.
As age goes up, demand drops and so does the SMV.
Nothing is more threatening, yet simultaneously attractive to a woman that a man who is aware of his own value to women.
- Rollo Tomassi

Women don't want you to see your value even in your prime because your knowledge of that is threatening.

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