Good day dear fellow Nairalanders, please forgive my grammar. How do y'all forgive yourselves when you act stupid without knowing you're being stupid all in the name of love, most especially when this stupidity cost you so much Fortune, a fortune that can do something tangible in your life. Please advise me

I don't make such mistakes, so I can't relate to your problem.

I conclude that I'm an imperfect being after all, so I take it as a lesson learnt the hard way. Then I become more careful.

Life itself is unfair and nobody can escape regrettable acts.

A SIMP confessing his sins in a stylish way...



Well, we all make mistakes at some point, try to forgive yourself for those foolish mistakes you made, and never you repeat it again.


You will be fine.

First and foremost, admit, accept and acknowledge you're a SIMP and a fool.


It's now left for you to use your foolishness to gain knowledge. Let your foolishness encourage you to always remember that to Love a Nigerian girl is not worth it and no girl deserves to be adorned.


Welcome to the club. Meet Elder ReoCoker and Ichie Ikillbrokehoes to lecture you more.

Rich4eva11:
Good day dear fellow Nairalanders, please forgive my grammar. How do y'all forgive yourselves when you act stupid without knowing you're being stupid all in the name of love, most especially when this stupidity cost you so much Fortune, a fortune that can do something tangible in your life. Please advise me

We all learn.. either from our mistakes or other people’s mistake...
Don’t beat yourself up...just don’t make the same mistake again....

Don’t invest in anybody in the name of love if the amount will hurt u when they leave..not even your wife....u met on the street...they can betray you at anytime

Rich4eva11:
Good day dear fellow Nairalanders, please forgive my grammar. How do y'all forgive yourselves when you act stupid without knowing you're being stupid all in the name of love, most especially when this stupidity cost you so much Fortune, a fortune that can do something tangible in your life. Please advise me

Write out in a sheet of paper.
The stupid thing you did.
Then on another paper write out the thing you will do in line with your relationship goals.
Tire the first one and forgive yourself.
The say this affirmation twice daily for 25 days.
I am a wise man and I use my God given wisdom to better my relationship.

MufasaLion:
I don't make such mistakes, so I can't relate to your problem.

I pray you don't make such a silly mistake bro, only if I had known

GeniusHawlah:
I conclude that I'm an imperfect being after all, so I take it as a lesson learnt the hard way. Then I become more careful.

Life itself is unfair and nobody can escape regrettable acts.

Especially when I remember what I lost so far

ReoCoker:
A SIMP confessing his sins in a stylish way...



Well, we all make mistakes at some point, try to forgive yourself for those foolish mistakes you made, and never you repeat it again.


You will be fine.

Thanks sir

Kriss216:
First and foremost, admit, accept and acknowledge you're a SIMP and a fool.


It's now left for you to use your foolishness to gain knowledge. Let your foolishness encourage you to always remember that to Love a Nigerian girl is not worth it and no girl deserves to be adorned.


Welcome to the club. Meet Elder ReoCoker and Ichie Ikillbrokehoes to lecture you more.

I have already let go of everything, just healing

Rich4eva11:


I pray you don't make such a silly mistake bro, only if I had known

Sorry, man. You've learnt your lesson. Always safeguard your heart and never let it be toyed with.

advanceDNA:


We all learn.. either from our mistakes or other people’s mistake...
Don’t beat yourself up...just don’t make the same mistake again....

Don’t invest in anybody in the name of love if the amount will hurt u when they leave..not even your wife....u met on the street...they can betray you at anytime

I was blinded by love, I did what i know I can't do on a normal day

joinnow:


Write out in a sheet of paper.
The stupid thing you did.
Then on another paper write out the thing you will do in line with your relationship goals.
Tire the first one and forgive yourself.
The say this affirmation twice daily for 25 days.
I am a wise man and I use my God given wisdom to better my relationship.

I just can't forgive myself, how I wish I can spend that Fortune on myself, it would have been better

MufasaLion:


Sorry, man. You've learnt your lesson. Always safeguard your heart and never let it be toyed with.

All these happened Within a space of 2 to 3 months

Rich4eva11:


All these happened Within a space of 2 to 3 months

That was so fast. You are emotionally weak.

Elders in the house plz help this SIMple man.

MufasaLion:


That was so fast. You are emotionally weak.

Yeah you're so right sir, that's why I normally avoid relationships, been more than 8 years that I haven't been in any serious relationship, but the boy is getting old and needed a serious girl for a serious relationship. This is what I got

Rich4eva11:


I was blinded by love, I did what i know I can't do on a normal day

We’ve all been there....no worry you go dey alright last last....no be God leave you..

some of these women are good... but most of them na shedí bàlà-bàlà....they just date you for the gain, use your for sex and still claim they are doing you a favour for sleeping with you..

Look... that doesnt men u should be afraid to date... the quicker you get back out there, the faster your will heal....

Just have a principle... your precious time, money, and other valuable resources shouldn’t be spent on any woman...:a woman that bills you like ATM don’t love you... don’t let anyone make you think you must spend for any girl that’s dating you...
you are both doing each other a favour and committing sin for fvcking each other... nigga.. u shouldn’t have to pay for it

A gift once in a while is not a bad idea...
But no let am pass 5k, woman no dey give pass boxers and singlet... why should they get iPhone X, school fees, bone straight wig, and the likes in return...

Rich4eva11:
Good day dear fellow Nairalanders, please forgive my grammar. How do y'all forgive yourselves when you act stupid without knowing you're being stupid all in the name of love, most especially when this stupidity cost you so much Fortune, a fortune that can do something tangible in your life. Please advise me

Sure you can forgive yourself as long as you are still breathing and able to meet your basics necessity..
My advice Embrace Stoicism so that you won't live a life of regrets

Rich4eva11:


Yeah you're so right sir, that's why I normally avoid relationships, been more than 8 years that I haven't been in any serious relationship, but the boy is getting old and needed a serious girl for a serious relationship. This is what I got

You caused it unintentionally because you were desperate, and the lady already perceived it, so she took advantage of that.

advanceDNA:


We’ve all been there....no worry you go dey alright last last....no be God leave you..

some of these women are good... but most of them na shedí bàlà-bàlà....they just date you for the gain, use your for sex and still claim they are doing you a favour for sleeping with you..

Look... that doesnt men u should be afraid to date... the quicker you get back out there, the faster your will heal....

Just have a principle... your precious time, money, and other valuable resources shouldn’t be spent on any woman...:a woman that bills you like ATM don’t love you... don’t let anyone make you think you must spend for any girl that’s dating you...
you are both doing each other a favour and committing sin for fvcking each other... nigga.. u shouldn’t have to pay for it

A gift once in a while is not a bad idea...
But no let am pass 5k, woman no dey give pass boxers and singlet... why should they get iPhone X, school fees, bone straight wig, and the likes in return...

Thank you sir for your kind words

Only stupid people can relate to your question, fortunately I don't fall into that category.

MufasaLion:


You caused it unintentionally because you were desperate, and the lady already perceived it, so she took advantage of that.

I think she used something on me, I lost so much

Brunosamel:
Sure you can forgive yourself as long as you are still breathing and able to meet your basics necessity..
My advice Embrace Stoicism so that you won't live a life of regrets

Thank you boss, I appreciate this

Rich4eva11:



I think she used something on me, I lost so much

She didn't use anything on you. It was a normal occurrence.

MufasaLion:


She didn't use anything on you. It was a normal occurrence.

Alright boss, thank you so much for your kind words

Your sins have been forgiven go and simp no more. Just forgive yourself and move on.