It is true that we start life with both boys and girls not quite spotting much of the difference earlier on but then boys will always be boys and girls always girls soon enough boys get doing boys things while girls start doing girls stuff.

From childhood the roles get separated from a very tender age, girls start braiding their head of hairs while boys get more frequent haircuts, later on girls will be thought more feminine stuff like cooking, sweeping while boys take on things like farming and general hustling.

In all these years sometimes boys and girls role clash like in terms of education, both boys and girls are eagerly educated then when these common grounds are off, even in the play ground buys prefer more physical activities like football, fighting while women prefer side talking and day dreaming.

All these points out to a lifetime of closeness between boys sometimes it also points to a lifetime of closeness between women, well human female are very weird creature and even among their own gender they are the most dangerously competitive and often engage in frequent bitterness, well it is expected of a specie (Gender) that enjoys talking a lot becuase most times they are talking about the others behind the back and evolution, adaptation and competition for seemingly limited resources (Quality Men) had made it such that most times these talks are not just friendly at all.

Now back to why I treasure relationship with my fellow men more than relationship with women: The fact is that unless a mother or female siblings, female notion of romantic love is usually not all it seems to be.

During my childhood, I have had a couple of my friends from long ago till today, we do fight, there are few backstabbing from time to time but we are still together and it is apparently harder for me to make new friends.

In fact for the past 2 years I had not added anyone into my very good friends, apart from the fact that the status as a very good friend have to be earned, it is just not been easy accepting entirely new people into my life.

Note I don't have a best friend, the best status my friends ever got to is "a very good friend", I have women apart from family members who had gotten to this very good friend status, some I have had some sort of connections with but the reality is relationship with women is quite not so natural.

I have had my guys since forever but never have I told any of my guys that I can't imagine life without them, but I had met a girl for two weeks and I had told her I can't imagine life without her, I was not joking at that point it feels so, but one eventually forgets so soon that life had been on without this particular lady.

It is called falling in love but that's a huge evolutionary hoax, eventually there may not be happy endings and you figure out your guys would still be the one to call and tell you how it happened to them and how they got over it, your friends would treat you to a nice hang out in your favourite place, alcohol and all of that.

I think true love is in family, and friends evolution does a lot of mind game with romantic love, imagine that you could get off a very heart breaking relationship today and tomorrow you are already found another woman that you can still tell, "You are all that I have", it is like romantic relationships can be replaced easier but true friendships especially those that had lasted long is quite hard to get over.

Maybe that's why once good friends Turns enemy then forget it, Note I'm a very passionate lover and I'm not advocating that guys should disrespect their women or love them less, I'm just saying Romantic relationships has a lot of Hormones Surging to it that makes it quite intoxicating but then it is worth it but honestly if I tell you that I can't breath without you, while it may do feel so just remind yourself that I had always been breathing without you.

And in case of eventual breakup, I will just call one or few of my guys that I had ababdoned when you meant the world to me and we would once again get back to the world we had always known. #BoysLife,

Hmmm

I'm coming...

Na Mumu dey love Nigerian girls.

. I think true love is in family

Major highlight of the epistle.

Okay. Your personal opinion, not an objective truth so problem there.

Magnoliaa:
Okay. Your personal opinion, not an objective truth so problem there.

I'm not doubting love or stuff like that, I'm just saying that lower animals are more sex smarter, love is just an equivalent to female dogs finding quality mates, all these are carefully ingrained into the DNA in the animal Kingdom, both men and women are after quality mating that can ensure quality offspring romantic love is evolution at play, well most of us can't go beyond that evolutionary role, but just know love is inspired by sustainability, you might not realise, we are humans after all

Kriss216:
Na Mumu dey love Nigerian girls.




Major highlight of the epistle.

Romantic love is the same everywhere, No woman loves you and you don't love them either it is evolution making you think that way, all evolution cares about is the quality of your children and making sure the human species is not wiped out, if she loves you for the money just appreciate it and hustle harder apparently she's thinking more about her children with you at that point, what we call love must be inspired by the ability to sustain our kind (humanity)

AlexBells:

I'm not doubting love or stuff like that, I'm just saying that lower animals are more sex smarter, love is just an equivalent to female dogs finding quality mates, all these are carefully ingrained into the DNA in the animal Kingdom, both men and women are after quality mating that can ensure quality offspring romantic love is evolution at play, well most of us can't go beyond that evolutionary role, but just know love is inspired by sustainability, you might not realise, we are humans after all

Oga, your personal opinion is your personal opinion. Which one be all this shalaye for Sunday morning na? It's not by force to respond to me.

I simply am not believing (or reading) what you've written; you can't convince me otherwise.

OYO for you

AlexBells:

Romantic love is the same everywhere, No woman loves you and you don't love them either it is evolution making you think that way, all evolution cares about is the quality of your children and making sure the human species is not wiped out, if she loves you for the money just appreciate it and hustle harder apparently she's thinking more about her children with you at that point, what we call love must be inspired by the ability to sustain our kind (humanity)

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I don't understand. Explain more please.
Thanks

Magnoliaa:


Oga, your personal opinion is your personal opinion. Which one be all this shalaye for Sunday morning na? It's not by force to respond to me.

I simply am not believing (or reading) what you've written; you can't convince me otherwise.

Oh Sorry, lol, If you think the fight would make me pick special interest, abeg I have some drink with my guys this evening, join us or go find a fellow female to fight with, my heart is currently not available, it usually starts with small pockets of dare, I cover my head and heart with the blood of God, next guy please.

Before you know now, I would pick interest, reminds about 2Pac and Janet Jackson in poetic justice, you know what, young lady you had won, Happy Sunday lol

Kriss216:

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I don't understand. Explain more please.
Thanks

Romantic love MUST be inspired, no woman except your family members love you just the way you are, either you have pink lips, or you have cute eyes or you are 6.2 feet tall or you have a Lamborghini or you own a bank these things all means that some of these qualities would be transferred to the offspring (your children with her) in fact the moment a woman fall in love with you she's already thinking about sex, that's evolution,

So a woman is not your mother not your sister, you have to guarantee her survival and quality of the children with her, the real issue here is that we think humans are so special not so special afterall.

Your woman must stay with you for some guarantee of some sort, that's how it had always been, that's how it is everywhere, any where in the world, the woman may not love you for the money becuase she could be as well rich, the situation in Nigeria is about the economy not about the women generally, I still find it very surprising to believe that upon all this hardships Nigerian woman still find a space to pretend to be in love lol

AlexBells:
I still find it very surprising to believe that upon all this hardships Nigerian woman still find a space to pretend to be in love lol

Abeg, today is Sunday, let's not ruin our day. Forget that gender for now

Kriss216:



Abeg, today is Sunday, let's not ruin our day. Forget that gender for now

That Gender is why Today is Sunday, that Gender and the Us is why we are here lol, after all we are all products and of sex and by sex the can get in on the next generation, if you like Own a bank, or the biggest stock in Amazon, the only reason we are here is cause our parents agreed to get laid, very important lol

AlexBells:

That Gender is why Today is Sunday, that Gender and the Us is why we are here lol, after all we are all products and of sex and by sex the can get in on the next generation, if you like Own a bank, or the biggest stock in Amazon, the only reason we are here is cause our parents agreed to get laid, very important lol

Don't expect alot of people to understand you,your thinking is well above the conventional and people are in love with their illusions,they would fight you for trying to make these known(destroying their illusions.)

Like I said in previous thread, I chose my friends they don't choose me

I don't fancy friendships with women. They are only out to Exploit you, manipulate and then you into their personal Slave or Pet,albeit discreetly.

The only connection i have with women is the desire for sexual pleasures, nothing more. I See MOST of them as sex objects, which they rightly are.

You'll see them posting half nude pics on social media everyday, twerking and doing all other sorts of Sexual activities just for attention and validation from men. The only thing They have to offer in Relationships (not MARRIAGE) is sex and nothing more.

helinues:
Like I said in previous thread, I chose my friends they don't choose me

My Man Helinues what are you doing in romance session, this is where I come to unwind when politics gets really messy, I don't even think you have friends in real life, wherever evil politicians are that's when you are found lol, I wonder what it would look like for a woman to have you as lover, once she come in between your usual misleading support for corrupt politicians and more na breakup straight lol.

odinson1:
I don't fancy friendships with women. They are only out to Exploit you, manipulate and then you into their personal Slave or Pet,albeit discreetly.

The only connection i have with women is the desire for sexual pleasures, nothing more. I See MOST of them as sex objects, which they rightly are.

You'll see them posting half nude pics on social media everyday, twerking and doing all other sorts of Sexual activities just for attention and validation from men. The only thing They have to offer in Relationships (not MARRIAGE) is sex and nothing more.

Once you see the whole reality from the angle of what really is, you would stop getting yourself worked up on trying to understand how women are wired, about nude, you are even lucky you were born in the Morden time, it is our nature as human to be naked, forget about all the societal notion of morality, unclothedness is human nature and yes evolution approves of it.

Women are not the only one freaked out about unclothedness but the fact is men are drawn by what they see so men tend to get attracted to naked women while women are attracted to what they hear so men lie more (not about cheating lies oo) but men are more likely to point at the empty space on the other side of the road and tell you the land is his.

Majority of the woman have no intention to Exploit you, yes they do it sometimes thinking it is intentional but have you ever asked yourself why is it that a woman would collect 20K from a man this week and had gone back to begging next week without being able to give an apparent account of what the last 20K was used for.

Upon all the Exploit as I would love to call it why is it that a woman ever hardly buy phone for herself but would rely on same man that sent her 100K to buy her a phone, where does these whole exploits go?, mind you most of them don't even help family members with this money, in fact most don't even want their parents or siblings to know about such money,

Look we are all foolish here, acting on impulse thinking ourselves the super but apparently no one really know what is going on, you actually think being sex object is really mean that's what we all are those who makes a little more out of sex is even genius, I mean if a woman is not having sex with men, do they really have much other appealing option

Dliquidmetal:
Don't expect alot of people to understand you,your thinking is well above the conventional and people are in love with their illusions,they would fight you for trying to make these known(destroying their illusions.)

As in eh...
An average folk on nairaland cannot understand OP's post...

AlexBells:

My Man Helinues what are you doing in romance session, this is where I come to unwind when politics gets really messy, I don't even think you have friends in real life, wherever evil politicians are that's when you are found lol, I wonder what it would look like for a woman to have you as lover, once she come in between your usual misleading support for corrupt politicians and more na breakup straight lol.

Toh

is that all?