I got appointed as an aide to my Governor (one of the Northern states), so we are always in and out of Abuja. Lately, I just have the urge to get a homely 18-22 year old girl (not a wild runs babe), to be taking care of her financially, then get her to keep me company in Abuja anytime I'm there. I just want to find her in my hotel room anytime we are back from our numerous meetings.

I have a lovely family, 2 kids and a beautiful wife. Wife is everything you can think of in a woman and the sex is great. But I just find myself chatting random girls with a fake account on Facebook, trying to find one that can fit into the side chick profile. Wouldn't mind an 18yr old I can groom.

Is anything wrong with me/that?

U will surely get.. There are plenty of them out there that are waiting for easy ride like urs... Advertise ur vacancy and see how they full ur page.

habsydiamond:
U will surely get.. There are plenty of them out there that are waiting for easy ride like urs... Advertise ur vacancy and see how they full ur page.

But why do you think I have this sudden urge for a side chick? It's never been like that for the 4yrs I've been married

Dat2jo:
But why do you think I have this sudden urge for a side chick? It's never been like that for the 4yrs I've been married

Perhaps the pressure of the job is beginning to take its toll on you. Apply for leave if you can. Go stay with your family and bond again. You'll be fine

Dat2jo:
I got appointed as an aide to my Governor (one of the Northern states), so we are always in and out of Abuja. Lately, I just have the urge to get a homely 18-22 year old girl (not a wild runs babe), to be taking care of her financially, then get her to keep me company in Abuja anytime I'm there. I just want to find her in my hotel room anytime we are back from our numerous meetings.

I have a lovely family, 2 kids and a beautiful wife. Wife is everything you can think of in a woman and the sex is great. But I just find myself chatting random girls with a fake account on Facebook, trying to find one that can fit into the side chick profile. Wouldn't mind an 18yr old I can groom.

Is anything wrong with me/that?

Mumu. Beta use da garri u drink dis evening take hussle and stop daydreaming

FirstCounsel:

Perhaps the pressure of the job is beginning to take its toll on you. Apply for leave if you can. Go stay with your family and bond again. You'll be fine

Could that be it? Cos I do spend quality time with them when around.

Dat2jo:
But why do you think I have this sudden urge for a side chick? It's never been like that for the 4yrs I've been married

trust me it is not always about the sex, companionship is another part of a man life,sometimes I need a girl to share intelligent ideas and conversation,to see things from their point of view but sadly most of our girls are dull and dumb when it comes to such area,what they know is fvck and go,my side chick can engage you for hours with interesting discussion, ideas and solutions to lifes numerous problems that most times we forgot that sex is on the menu,it is interesting to be with an intelligent girl it opens the doors to see how complex and intricate the female mind can be.

Dat2jo:
But why do you think I have this sudden urge for a side chick? It's never been like that for the 4yrs I've been married

what's now the reason behind ur decision

Op sir,to me that urge ure having is very normal.You cant be eating rice everyday and not get tired.
I want you to use your present position to help me get a government job sir.I have a professional diploma in health information management sir,and I am ready to relocate to the north if I get the job sir.


Thanks.

It's normal to have that urge bro.

Advice though is... never get caught. Whatever you do, never bring tears in the eyes of your wife.

And please always use a rubber.

That's what too much money and being in the corridors of power causes. It makes you feel like whatever you have had wasn't enough and now that you have cash and influence you can get babes free of charge with extra toppings.

Healthrelatedjo:
Op sir,to me that urge ure having is very normal.You cant be eating rice everyday and not get tired.
I want you to use your present position to help me get a government job sir.I have a professional diploma in health information management sir,and I am ready to relocate to the north if I get the job sir.


Thanks.

gone are the days when Hausa ppl will be pleased to have a non Hausa come and take their jobs in their lands, doesn't even matter if you a much religious person than they are

Dat2jo:
I got appointed as an aide to my Governor (one of the Northern states), so we are always in and out of Abuja. Lately, I just have the urge to get a homely 18-22 year old girl (not a wild runs babe), to be taking care of her financially, then get her to keep me company in Abuja anytime I'm there. I just want to find her in my hotel room anytime we are back from our numerous meetings.

I have a lovely family, 2 kids and a beautiful wife. Wife is everything you can think of in a woman and the sex is great. But I just find myself chatting random girls with a fake account on Facebook, trying to find one that can fit into the side chick profile. Wouldn't mind an 18yr old I can groom.

Is anything wrong with me/that?

It's natural..have an abundance mindset..ur urge for a sidechick hasn't stopped you from loving ur family..just cheat responsibly cos some women can't fathom seeing their man cheat on them

Dat2jo:
I got appointed as an aide to my Governor (one of the Northern states), so we are always in and out of Abuja. Lately, I just have the urge to get a homely 18-22 year old girl (not a wild runs babe), to be taking care of her financially, then get her to keep me company in Abuja anytime I'm there. I just want to find her in my hotel room anytime we are back from our numerous meetings.

I have a lovely family, 2 kids and a beautiful wife. Wife is everything you can think of in a woman and the sex is great. But I just find myself chatting random girls with a fake account on Facebook, trying to find one that can fit into the side chick profile. Wouldn't mind an 18yr old I can groom.

Is anything wrong with me/that?

I also have the same issue, I have a serious girlfriend and we live together but too knack other tootoo dey hungry me sometimes.

The problem is the kind of girl(s) you are looking for might avoid you if they know you are married.
Many good girls wouldn't accept to be your side chick even with your money.

Recently, I met a young beautiful light skin girl and we connected well, we knacked a couple of times and the moment she found out I was in a relationship her attitude changed. I really like the girl but she doesn't want anything to do with me again.
* I don't spend much on her tho.

My point is before you disclose that you are married make sure you knack well first.

Meanwhile can I be your personal adviser on side chicks matter. I'm very discreet.

it's better u marry a young second wife and house her in Abuja from any tribe of ur choice, be it idoma,ebira,igala hausa or any other decent tribe u admire. However, ladies from the above tribe are very much disposed to the idea of being second wives sha

Ure right sir,but there's no harm in trying

Quality20:
gone are the days when Hausa ppl will be pleased to have a non Hausa come and take their jobs in their lands, doesn't even matter if you a much religious person than they are

Havesomesense:


I also have the same issue, I have a serious girlfriend and we live together but too knack other tootoo dey hungry me sometimes.

The problem is the kind of girl(s) you are looking for might avoid you if they know you are married.
Many good girls wouldn't accept to be your side chick even with your money.

Recently, I met a young beautiful light skin girl and we connected well, we knacked a couple of times and the moment she found out I was in a relationship her attitude changed. I really like the girl but she doesn't want anything to do with me again.
* I don't spend much on her tho.

My point is before you disclose that you are married make sure you knack well first.

Meanwhile can I be your personal adviser on side chicks matter. I'm very discreet.

Na God go judge for this talk.
The pain Sha but na true

Dat2jo:
I got appointed as an aide to my Governor (one of the Northern states), so we are always in and out of Abuja. Lately, I just have the urge to get a homely 18-22 year old girl (not a wild runs babe), to be taking care of her financially, then get her to keep me company in Abuja anytime I'm there. I just want to find her in my hotel room anytime we are back from our numerous meetings.

I have a lovely family, 2 kids and a beautiful wife. Wife is everything you can think of in a woman and the sex is great. But I just find myself chatting random girls with a fake account on Facebook, trying to find one that can fit into the side chick profile. Wouldn't mind an 18yr old I can groom.

Is anything wrong with me/that?

Governor's aide

People in such position aren't bothered about extra pucy, they don't have conscience. They're highly corrupt and don't think the way you think

Because you've ojukokoro. Go and discuss this with your wife and get her consent first. Nonsense.

You are going into Sin... And God will judge you for that...

Dat2jo:
But why do you think I have this sudden urge for a side chick? It's never been like that for the 4yrs I've been married

Because say you don dey get small change nah, if person chop belleful finish nah to dey look for wetin go burst him belle remain.

Theres nothing wrong with you. You've gotten some spare money and your in a place far from family. These kind of thoughts will come up especially if ur rolling with guys that do the same.
It's up to u to have some willpower not to get in trouble

I am sure you would love to hear that your loving wife is also longing for a Side-Guy

She will not tell you aswell. Well what do I know?

Abeg it's almost 8.30pm. Let me go and have my bath, feel fresh and watch a nice American Movie jare.

Maybe your wife is the lady I'm texting now. Who knows?

Enjoy your side piece.

okoroemeka:
trust me it is not always about the sex, companionship is another part of a man life,sometimes I need a girl to share intelligent ideas and conversation,to see things from their point of view but sadly most of our girls are dull and dumb when it comes to such area,what they know is fvck and go,my side chick can engage you for hours with interesting discussion, ideas and solutions to lifes numerous problems that most times we forgot that sex is on the menu,it is interesting to be with an intelligent girl it opens the doors to see how complex and intricate the female mind can be.

So why did you marry a dull and dumb lady when your spec is intelligence? Isnt it common sense to marry you spec so you can keep having intelligent conversations instead of getting STDs outside

That's what Lazy youth do when they see free govt money chop

See them normalising cheating above, but demand faithfulness from their wives, you all deserve cheating wives who will make you father another person's child, amen.

And some Nairaland babes in Abuja will fall for this trap

Howfa Comrade, what are you aiding the governor in? Tell the governor you ain't quite comfortable with the duties, that you really need a direct transfer to ministry of women affairs.

KarinaLove:
I am sure you would love to hear that your loving wife is also longing for a Side-Guy

She will not tell you aswell. Well what do I know?

Abeg it's almost 8.30pm. Let me go and have my bath, feel fresh and watch a nice American Movie jare.

don't mind the mumu OP

Dear op as a woman I gladly give you the go ahead
But Sha don't think your wife is faithful
I mean you are in another state what make you think she is not longing for a long black and succulent dick
God know if I were to be your wife ehn na 4 side cocks straight or if I want to be extra careful na gigolo I go dey order from coded runs and strip clubs
Women also want to relas and be taken kiaruf

atilla:
Theres nothing wrong with you. You've gotten some spare money and your in a place far from family. These kind of thoughts will come up especially if ur rolling with guys that do the same.
It's up to u to have some willpower not to get in trouble

Thanks

This op na wicked man

You don already get wife for house,but you just wanna destroy other people's future wife .