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Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by cyborg44: 9:52am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Most siblings drift apart in communication to one another and love as they grow up.The love they have as kids almost has evaporated when they become adults. Some people have friends that are closer than their blood siblings. We have seen and heard stories of how siblings have committed abominable acts against their siblings. So in your own opinion what do you think is the cause of why siblings of same parents drift apart? cc RoyalRoy |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by slysdesign(m): 9:59am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Maybe it is because of the fact that they spent their whole childhood together and want to explore adulthood independent of their siblings. Or it could be because of personality differences 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by simabastin: 10:21am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Let's start with the bible! 1. Most, if not all, of the cases recorded had to do with each or both parents taking sides (favouritism) with a particular child! E.g. Esau and Jacob, etc. 2. When one sibling is doing better than the other in any or all aspects, it breeds jealousy - a hydra headed vice to possess! E.g Cain and Abel, Joseph and his siblings, etc. 3. Other factors such as peer influence, intolerable bad character of sibling(s), etc... Lemme stop here... However, in my opinion, primarily, if I witness any case, I'd blame the parent/guardian first, before asking questions, cos they're expected to nib such buds early in life! 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by Nobody: 10:28am On Dec 09, 2021 |
It's mostly caused by the parents.Mariangels I first you to comment 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by KillIgbohoN0W: 10:29am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Competition |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by Opeyemiextra(f): 11:47am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Because some people change completely and their new versions might be too complicated to deal with. But nothing should stop siblings from loving each other, nothing. We however are in a world where most people don't just care so... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by meobizy(f): 11:51am On Dec 09, 2021 |
You were born alone and will die alone. The Bible talks the most about one’s journey through life and if they will make it to heaven. It doesn’t talk about a family’s journey through life and if every member will make it to heaven. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by MufasaLion: 11:57am On Dec 09, 2021 |
I can drift from anybody! |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:27pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Is this a general fact? |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by egojeny1(f): 1:59pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Ask psquare |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by Mariangeles(f): 2:03pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Iya egbe, we learn from 60yr old wise elders like you na. |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by Mariangeles(f): 2:08pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
slysdesign: That is just it. Some personalities just don't vibe well together, even if they're siblings. That is where tolerance and making effort comes in. |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by slysdesign(m): 4:04pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Exactly |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Mariangeles:lol wisdom comes with age,60yrs isn't a joke. |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by Dailyparrot: 6:29pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
I think it has to do mainly with personality. For you to keep someone as your friend, you must have the same personality, the same ideology and the same perception to life to a larger extent. The Bible says that "can two work together unless they agree?" this saying also applies to siblings. Another factor is differences in life status either financially or educationally. Some richer siblings see the others as not being equal to them or deserving of their relationship. Likewise, some well educated ones. Lastly, marriage. Nothing separates siblings like marriage especially the men. Once a woman comes into the picture, her first line of action is to create discord amongst the siblings. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by Prolificgiant(m): 7:01pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Favourism,liking some kids than the other bring about this |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by frozen70(f): 7:57pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
cyborg44: I am a victim of this and the only issue there is envy When I saw that envy, I decided not to confront anyone of them and it went on for five years When they were tired, one of them called me to apologize for keeping malice with me uptil now, he said, doesn't even know why he joined the rest of them I asked him just one question, what brought about that stupid behavior? , he said "you are the only one progressing" The rest called and asked for forgiveness, now we are all friends and sibblings sharing things together 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Siblings Of Same Parents Drift Apart? by Klass99(f): 11:52pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
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