If you are single do not comment let the married once comment.
I am sure 95% of the married men and women can relate.

I can hear somebody saying "yes sir" religion can make people act so irrationally.

WibusJaga:
Some of these pastors like making controversial statements just to draw attention.
But what he should have said was Marriage does not guarantee your happiness. Some people find joy & fulfilment in marriage while others experience hell on earth when they get married, especially married to a wrong spouse.

Is there such a thing as being married to the wrong spouse?

staga:
All these merchant pastors that preach things not in the bible. How can you live in the same house, sleep on the same bed with someone you are not happy with?

Not a fan of pastors but read & understand before commenting.

Swipa:
He's actually right.

Explain pls

To get better and not happy? Confusion oo

The simple truth

JavaScript9091:
Happy people by default brings happiness into a marriage. But when a woman us bitter by default, she will export her bitterness into the life of her man and marriage

So a bitter man will also export his bitterness into the life of his wife and marriage, right?

The way pastors are saying things nowadays is just some how

Finally someone with the some hard truth

Kriss216:
Of what use is marriage if it's not designed to make me happy?

If one can't find happiness in marriage, why engaging in it?

If you're unhappy before you got married, you're mostly likely going to be unhappy after you get married

Kobojunkie:
Is there such a thing as being married to the wrong spouse?

EPP me ask am

Fiscus105:


I think the message is basically for women, some women who think marriage is thr as way to beat poverty, when they, themselves have not equipped themselves enough from their parents house to conquer poverty.

shut up , abeg
Will you people die if you don't bitch about women Women this women that yen yen yen - e no dey taya you

Pataricatering:
shut up , abeg
Will you people die if you don't bitch about women Women this women that yen yen yen - e no dey taya you

Read entire post, I'm not the one who posted it, neither I am the one who made ur have entitlement mentality.

U ask urself, wen last did man sleep with u, without given u commiserate money?

Gmajor:


If you're unhappy before you got married, you're mostly likely going to be unhappy after you get married

True but married can never make you happy.. spiritually and scientifically proven over time

JavaScript9091:
Happy people by default brings happiness into a marriage. But when a woman us bitter by default, she will export her bitterness into the life of her man and marriage

another woman wrapper man that can't rest if he hasn't bitched about women at least once per day . At this point all you need is a vagina so u can join us and be a full woman .

This one best qualify as a relationship coach and not a pastor, together with his wife. His teachings or messages have no spiritual substance, always about relationships, datings etc..

Sammydanny:
Popular Nigerian cleric, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has candidly told unmarried people about the complexities of marriage.

In a video he posted on his Instagram page, the pastor explained that marriage was not made to make people happy but was designed to make people better. He said marriage is a place you go to give, not a place to go to receive.

Pastor Kingsley explained that people must take care of things making them feel unhappy and unfulfilled before getting married and not hope that getting married will solve all their problems.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmvdSFKziF8

single people now will see reasons to shy away from getting married because of this preaching, the simple understanding is have a stable financial means before getting Married, of course marriage make people happy stop all this sermon

Kriss216:
Of what use is marriage if it's not designed to make me happy?

If one can't find happiness in marriage, why engaging in it?

Ma nigga, logic full your head scatter

This is pure AGBO TRUTH to some people.

If you love yourself you'll never be alone..

Half the people commenting didn't even watch the video

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Realhommie:
This one best qualify as a relationship coach and not a pastor, together with his wife. His teachings or messages have no spiritual substance, always about relationships, datings etc..

Jesus Christ no send anyone relationship coaching though

I wash my hand commot any marriage that will not make me happy.

End time marriage preacher

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you wiill die of hunger.. scammer

Well, I want happiness. Guess I have nothing to do with marriage

Realhommie:
This one best qualify as a relationship coach and not a pastor, together with his wife. His teachings or messages have no spiritual substance, always about relationships, datings etc..

You can see the make-up of his congregants. Hardly will you see someone above fifty.
What he preaches is exactly what the members mainly youth want to hear.
In marketing, get your clients and you are good to go.