I will try to be brief and don't mind my grammatical errors..

My younger sister was dating soldier guy some years back(7 yrs to be precise).
The guy promise to marry her and in the course of the relationship, he got my sister pregnant which she gave birth to a son.
After the child was born, he took her to his based and promise to come back and the marriage rite and marry her properly. She promise to sponsored her in school bcus she just finished her secondary school when they met. Along the line, he said, he doesn't have interest to marry my sister again and chased her back to the village with the child. My parent were the one taking care of the child since then, though he send money sometimes.

My sister left the child with my parent in the village and came to Abuja to work bcus the guy he will go and take his son to himself which he didn't..
The problem now is, he came to Abuja yesterday and invited my sister to his family member in abuja here and began to beg my sister to come back to him,and his family members were begging my sister to return to him.
My sister is not married yet though and she is 25 years old..
Pls should my sister go back to him?
If yes, on what conditions?
Mod pls help me move it to front page.

If your sister still live him so be it

That is your sisters choice to make not ours.

Hmmmm

Hmmmm
Your sister will decide, not you, not nairaland.... Just watch out for her,that's all.

Has he explained why he acted like the first time? How can y'all be sure he's changed or "repented" of his actions? Why is he back for your sister?

There's high chances of him absconding again. But if your sister is ready to risk it, then so be it.

The disposition of your sister matters. She should count the cost, before taking any step.

God help her

Your sister should move on with her life. The nonsense Nigeria soldier has nothing to offer her again. He just want to impregnate and discard her again. Nigeria soldiers are not to be trusted.

He's reason of coming back is not marriage.him wan continue to dey polash ur sister.cos letting go of someone is a problem to many persons.and him wan use him military force her back to him sef.

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Face your own life business...

How can you be asking this question, when you should be arranging boys to treat his fuvkup?

No man does that to my sister without recieving 2x2.

If you like your sister, never ever advice her to go back to the beast.

Your sister will go back. We know how these things are. A very useless soldier kai