This post is for ladies and men who have lived and are still living in Abuja. I have a few observations about some men I have come across in Abuja. This post is not out here to shade anyone, it is just my observation and would like to get d opinions of others. Thanks .

I have lived all my life in Lagos . Three months ago, I got transferred from Lagos to Abuja.

This is my observation about some men I have come across: (pls note, I am not generalizing, my view doesn’t mean all men are like that, No! Its just a few I have come across ).
Here is my question:
Are guys in Abuja only interested in sleeping with ladies? You will meet a guy this very minute, d next thing he will say is , let’s get somewhere to relax, Relax!!!! How But u just met me and u hardly even know me!! What if I am a witch, lol. ?? Guys, we are no saint but not every lady is that cheap/ lose , some of us just want a meaningful friendship especially someone like me that is practically new in Abuja. I have lost count of d number of guys that have told me let’s go relax in a hotel immediately after we exchange contacts. Come on guys!!!!!!

I stand to be corrected, it’s never like this in Lagos, it’s a totally new experience for me here in Abj and I really don’t know d reason. Are we ladies the reason or these guys in Abuja are just interested in bleep only?

Trust me, some of us just want to have something reasonable and meaningful, we are not for bedroom use only. Treat us with respect. T for thanks! .

Abuja boys you've met probably know you are new and they are trying to rush you like indomie

LofP:
Abuja boys you've met probably know you are new and they are trying to rush you like indomie

lol

It dependence on you
<li>your dressing: you can be de type dat likes to look so gorgeous their eyes go they shoke for your property
<li>your voice: lagos girls they like talk with bed room voice
<li>the kind of guys are they your mate?.
Just in case no one told you earlier, welcome to abuja.
It is my current residence,
i don't want 2 relax with you in any place so that you wont rape me.
You can
contact me
if you like.
Just don't
fall in love
with my company
while your in abuja.