I have tried to overlook some certain behaviours of my wife.. though am not the complaining type, but sometimes I see things from different prospectives and think deep towards it but not quick to arrive on conclusion, but this particular issues gives me lots of concerns even though I try to overlook them .

Am the type that is always proud of my wife, that I post her pictures on my Facebook Story, WhatsApp and other platforms even when she is not celebrating her birthday, just to show her how much I loved and cherished her and also proud of her. Since I met my wife 10 years ago I have been celebrating her birthdays, with her pictures on my DP for couple of days after her birthday.. Honestly when it comes to my birthday my wife has never uploaded my pictures once on any platform to celebrate me even when she is always online doing what I don't know. the most shocking one is she doesn't put her children's pictures either but she will be quick to put her sisters or brothers pictures on what'app or Facebook..

Does it mean that she is not proud of me being her husband or she doesn't love me? Am a very handsome man with nice built up..it's giving me worries because am about to confront her on this issue..

Alaye go rest. stop looking for trouble where there is none!

Odetokun3:
Alaye go rest. stop looking for trouble where there is none!

It's not by force to comment Odu ofia

macolino:
It's not by force to comment Odu ofia

Get the Bleep out

Odetokun3:


Get the Bleep out

Otele

I would normally comment, however OP starting off with insults has me thinking otherwise.

The only reason I wouldn't post my partner on social media is if he's unattractive.

macolino:
Since I met my wife 10 years ago I have been celebrating her birthdays, with her pictures on my DP for couple of days after her birthday.. Honestly when it comes to my birthday my wife has never uploaded my pictures once on any platform to celebrate me even when she is always online doing what I don't know. the most shocking one is she doesn't put her children's pictures either but she will be quick to put her sisters or brothers pictures on what'app or Facebook..

After 10-years of marriage you should be able to communicate with your spouse. She's the only person who can explain the reasons behind her actions (or lack thereof).

You still buy into the idea of social media validation?
In this era where we can choose who can see our activities on social media?
Then you're on a very long thing.
What if she had no phone what other yardstick would you have used to measure the love she has for you?
In the real sense the amount of eye service we dish out all in the name of love on Social media has made me dislike it
For me pinterest,reddit and to some extent Nairaland are my social media

Its actually a matter of concern if after 10years, your wife still does not put your pix on display. You should do the same to her, stop putting hers on display for any reason at all. On her birthday, ignore her totally on social media. Upload other people's own especially other women if possible (maybe a distant female cousin or relative). Give her a dose of her own medicine

Hmmm. That one is strange o