James4358:
Am barely three years into marraige, the least reason i got married to my wife was for making babies.
My wife is going through a family planning method, but my mum and inlaws wont let us drink water.
It is grand children this & grand children that'. Even my own mum i always thought was learned & invoke with 21st century lifestyle has been in the fore front of disturbing our lives.
My wife is barely 26 and pursuing her master's programme to a conclusion & i've been busy traveling & attending various courses to gain speedy promotion & hit the peak of my para-millitary job. Where else would i get the time to start baby-sitting, which i know is a full time job.
Am not just the type to let a house maid take up the responsibility of training my children, this i know has negative effects & may some day backfire.
My mum have even gone ahead to tag this the handi_work of witchcraft. My elder brother has 3kids already, why the cry after my own.
This women wont just let us live our lives in peace!

Except you and your wife has medical or financial issue bordering you, having your children at young age is much more beneficial to you than later in life.

Women, between 20yrs to 32yrs. Men between 28yrs to 40yrs.

my own na when are u getting married when are you getting.. married. they always have a responsible sister to give me.. me that is always folding my long sleeves and looking responsible...they don't know that mosdii has given me the secret code. mosdii tell them

Una dey try sha