It's sad

This evening I was coming back from church when I passed by three young men. They look like they are in their early twenties.

They were making dirty jokes and laughing. When I passed, one of them said: "ah virgin dey pass o make una no talk nonsense too much" I heard them but I ignored them. We were the only ones on the road.

The other guy said: "abeg, pussy wey wide pass gutter." And they started laughing like mad hyenas. I refused to acknowledge their existence and they laughed louder, echoing the stupid statement. I was a bit embarrassed but kept a straight face.

It's disgusting that young men like that think it's okay and funny to make crude jokes about a random girl on the street. What made them think such behaviour is okay

I'm sure those are the kind of guys that will come here and chant "Nigerian girls are useless all of them."

Male children in Nigeria really need to be trained well. They should be taught to behave properly, like civilised people around women not morally decayed agberos.

what about the females?

You were walking past “morally decayed agberos”.
Don’t extend that description to all young men.

anthonyuncle:
what about the females?

What do you mean?

DrayZee:
You were walking past “morally decayed agberos”.
Don’t extend that description to all young men.

That's not the first time it's happening. Young men in Nigeria tend to make stupid comments about women.

Last week Friday I and a fat friend were passing and a group of well dressed young men by the roadside were whistling at us.

We refused to turn back or stop and they started calling us names.

Entitled much

Modified; for those saying they didn't make reference to her weight, why did I have to put it there. Actually they did that's why I even mentioned that she's fat in the first place. Use your head

SmartyPants:


Whats wrong is that describing your friend wasnt relevant in anyway to the point you were making.
You probably feel better about yournownnlooks while next to your friend.

It is relevant. They made fun of her weight. That's why I said it.

The guy in the second comment have just spoke my mind.... we have plenty of them even the famale

Hintona:


That's not the first time it's happening. Young men in Nigeria tend to make stupid comments about women.

Last week Friday I and a fat friend were passing and a group of well dressed young men by the roadside were whistling at us.

We refused to turn back or stop and they started calling us names.

Entitled much

For you to address your friend in this disrespectful manner shows how morally bankrupt and hypocritical you are.


When you point one finger at someone, 3 Fingers is pointing back at you.


Thank you and Merry Christmas.

Hintona:


What do you mean?

am not defending anyone here.
you can't throw moral decadence on only one sex.
this younger generation are (morally) very loosed and lousy.
tagging only one gender is wrong.

you heard what those guys said,
if you hear what their opposite sex vomit these days, you won't even be able to type here.

OP..
Young People are normally like dat!

It is NOT a Male or Female thing!
Our Society is Messed up and There are NO morals despite our Pretense!

You should be thankful dat the Guys you met are 20 Year olds!
In my Area now, 11,12 and 13 Years Old Girls have Already Sprayed their Hair, wearing Bumshots and patrolling at nights based on Christmas paroles.

The Things Some of diz Girls Know, I Sure say you nor know am!
So Forget, u hear? No be Today!

PlayMaker14:
For you to address your friend in this disrespectful manner shows how morally bankrupt and hypocritical you are.


When you point one finger at someone, 3 Fingers is pointing back at you.


Thank you and Merry Christmas.

What is wrong with saying fat

This isn't America, in Asian countries and most European countries fat is fat.

My friend doesn't appreciate it when she's called chubby or any of those "politically correct" words

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Hintona:
It's sad

This evening I was coming back from church when I passed by three young men. They look like they are in their early twenties.

They were making dirty jokes and laughing. When I passed, one of them said: "ah virgin dey pass o make una no talk nonsense too much" I heard them but I ignored them. We were the only ones on the road.

The other guy said: "abeg, pussy wey wide pass gutter." And they started laughing like mad hyenas. I refused to acknowledge their existence and they laughed louder, echoing the stupid statement. I was a bit embarrassed but kept a straight face.

It's disgusting that young men like that think it's okay and funny to make crude jokes about a random girl on the street. What made them think such behaviour is okay

I'm sure those are the kind of guys that will come here and chant "Nigerian girls are useless all of them."

Male children in Nigeria really need to be trained well. They should be taught to behave properly, like civilised people around women not morally decayed agberos.

...ok....gimmme ther name nomba & addresss?

Hintona:


What is wrong with saying fat

This isn't America, in Asian countries and most European countries fat is fat.

My friend doesn't appreciate it when she's called chubby or any of those "politically correct" words

It still doesn't change the fact that you are morally bankrupt.... Must you use that word to describe her?


You made it look like the ladies are left out of what you accuse the guys of.

U have have not seen anything some o use who are into entertainment and stand up mc have seen it all in the hands of the female folks. How will u take it wen u stand on stage to take only to perceive ladies on their table discussing the size and position of ur d*ck. Even at a public gathering.or some practically cini g to brush their hands against ur trousers to feel if its ur zip or the real thing. This thing happens every where.church, party birthday, swimming pool etc

Hintona:


What is wrong with saying fat

This isn't America, in Asian countries and most European countries fat is fat.

My friend doesn't appreciate it when she's called chubby or any of those "politically correct" words

Then she should stop being a glutton, eating like a thief and hit the gym

All gender get their own rotten side when they are not properly groomed

Blame your sisters. During our mother time women were atleast decent in dressing even prostitution then was hidden but nowadays You see dem twerking all over the Internet...pass jabi,abuja or wuse2 at night and u see almost like 50 bitches on d road wearing rubbish all to get men for money. Your sisters are mostly lazy and lost all morales so don't blame the young men much. They see u Girls like thrash and sex tools. I didn't even mention how women back in the days cook and mostly stay indoors but nowadays own drink more than their fathers doing hookups with different men everynight. The vagina part might even be wider than well...very soon a full grown man head will be entering there and get lost inside

Don't blame them.



We are now having difficulty separating hoes from Cats

Hintona:
It's sad

This evening I was coming back from church when I passed by three young men. They look like they are in their early twenties.

They were making dirty jokes and laughing. When I passed, one of them said: "ah virgin dey pass o make una no talk nonsense too much" I heard them but I ignored them. We were the only ones on the road.

The other guy said: "abeg, pussy wey wide pass gutter." And they started laughing like mad hyenas. I refused to acknowledge their existence and they laughed louder, echoing the stupid statement. I was a bit embarrassed but kept a straight face.

It's disgusting that young men like that think it's okay and funny to make crude jokes about a random girl on the street. What made them think such behaviour is okay

I'm sure those are the kind of guys that will come here and chant "Nigerian girls are useless all of them."

Male children in Nigeria really need to be trained well. They should be taught to behave properly, like civilised people around women not morally decayed agberos.

OP, the other day I overheard small children (girls) talking about their boyfriends, the society have decayed it isn't only men , is good you refuse to acknowledge their presence , yes it's painful but it's the best treatment to fools.

It's good those comments were passed on you and you felt bad, at least you will know what those kids feel when you girls come online to type rubbish about guys, it's not as if you different from those riff raffs, you are just playing the victim card here, your comments above shows you are alike, whatever gave you d idea that women, girls or ladies should be respected solely because they are girls shows you need to be trained well yourself, respect is earned, it doesn't fall from d sky because you have breasts hanging on your chest, know this and know peace, you ignored those guys, you did well, pass and go, am sure if you had an able bodied guy beside you this insults you rained on them here is exactly what you will tell them, moral decadence is in both genders, especially the ladies but you decided to glorify the one in women and that's where this "lack of respect" from guys stem from.

Vinnie2000:
In my Area now, 11,12 and 13 Years Old Girls have Already Sprayed their Hair, wearing Bumshots and patrolling at nights based on Christmas paroles.

I just pity Nigerian men who still wish to get married as the pool to fish in for a wife is getting murkier by the day.

Home training is not only for the girl child. Parents should also teach their male children manners and curtsey.

Some guys are so rude. I was walking on heels one day, about to take a bike to church and some guys on my street started making jest loudly and laughing, saying 'who send you, no go fall o'. It was embarrassing, I just had to ignore them.

Another instance; just today I was at Yaba market to buy some things and I got the usual dragging and invasive touching here and there as soon as I got down from the bus. This particular guy kept blocking everywhere I was going, pulling my hand and bumping into me even after I showed I was not interested in what he was selling. The next thing he did was to start insulting me and making fun of the sandals I wore. Even body shamed me.

If you stop to throw a stone at every barking dog, you will never get to your destination. Some people are not worth your time, so don’t belittle yourself by giving them the attention they crave for

Hintona:


What is wrong with saying fat

This isn't America, in Asian countries and most European countries fat is fat.

My friend doesn't appreciate it when she's called chubby or any of those "politically correct" words

Whats wrong is that describing your friend wasnt relevant in anyway to the point you were making.
You probably feel better about yournownnlooks while next to your friend.

"Young men" all your male relatives included I guess.

I agree with you and they even full this nairaland..mannerless group of persons..
Na only talk Dem Sabi do . ..
Through the comment section you gonna even understand what I am saying..the thing is just leave them to keep displaying their stupidity..make your money and bullshit those set of buffons one side..

Hintona:


What is wrong with saying fat

This isn't America, in Asian countries and most European countries fat is fat.

My friend doesn't appreciate it when she's called chubby or any of those "politically correct" words

This is Christmas relax and breath... Merry Christmas

Hintona:


What is wrong with saying fat

This isn't America, in Asian countries and most European countries fat is fat.

My friend doesn't appreciate it when she's called chubby or any of those "politically correct" words

You didn't have to tell us your friend is fat except she was body shamed. And by your narration, she wasnt.
Stick to the detail.

Hintona:


What is wrong with saying fat

This isn't America, in Asian countries and most European countries fat is fat.

My friend doesn't appreciate it when she's called chubby or any of those "politically correct" words

Meanwhile you are very yummy looking... You look like a 3 course meal and I just got off a 60.day fast... You look like a well grilled hamburger and I am craving meat... What's your zodiac sign so I can study you like a book...yummy

Those are the kind of abnormal youths who go about defiling girls in all kinds of deceptive ways and yet they see themselves as the normal by insulting those who restrain themselves from those bad ways. Worst still, at very old ages, when they are 60+ , they will still be stalking and defiling young ladies and sleeping everywhere. It's the best that you ignored them

Hintona:
It's sad

This evening I was coming back from church when I passed by three young men. They look like they are in their early twenties.

They were making dirty jokes and laughing. When I passed, one of them said: "ah virgin dey pass o make una no talk nonsense too much" I heard them but I ignored them. We were the only ones on the road.

The other guy said: "abeg, pussy wey wide pass gutter." And they started laughing like mad hyenas. I refused to acknowledge their existence and they laughed louder, echoing the stupid statement. I was a bit embarrassed but kept a straight face.

It's disgusting that young men like that think it's okay and funny to make crude jokes about a random girl on the street. What made them think such behaviour is okay

I'm sure those are the kind of guys that will come here and chant "Nigerian girls are useless all of them."

Male children in Nigeria really need to be trained well. They should be taught to behave properly, like civilised people around women not morally decayed agberos.

20s are not young men but teenagers.
I think u normally read all kinds of immoral talks here.

Meanwhile, immoral talks are prevalent among ladies nowaday" few years back hardly you would see lady talk about sex but now, they not only talk rubbish about sex, they only smoke and drink to stupor.

Hintona:
It's sad

This evening I was coming back from church when I passed by three young men. They look like they are in their early twenties.

They were making dirty jokes and laughing. When I passed, one of them said: "ah virgin dey pass o make una no talk nonsense too much" I heard them but I ignored them. We were the only ones on the road.

The other guy said: "abeg, pussy wey wide pass gutter." And they started laughing like mad hyenas. I refused to acknowledge their existence and they laughed louder, echoing the stupid statement. I was a bit embarrassed but kept a straight face.

It's disgusting that young men like that think it's okay and funny to make crude jokes about a random girl on the street. What made them think such behaviour is okay

I'm sure those are the kind of guys that will come here and chant "Nigerian girls are useless all of them."

Male children in Nigeria really need to be trained well. They should be taught to behave properly, like civilised people around women not morally decayed agberos.

what do you expect when woman make themselves sex object when Nikki can not sell her song without exposing herself, where woman have made men to believe that what matters mostly is dressing to kill, we lack descent ladies who dress normal without showing breast, we lack woman who has achieved more without pussying around, don't blamed them!!! Blame your female gangs they caused it, "what your sell out its who your been projected out". Merry Christmas