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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by SeriouslySense(m): 8:55pm On Dec 28, 2021
cheesy cheesy cheesy
adecz:



⏩The man is good at bedmatics,
⏩Generally a nice guy
⏩Helps you around the house
⏩Helps you cook


So, what do you really want❓❓


Maybe he doesn't have the kind of
money you are looking for.☹️☹️

❌❌ You women are never satisfied☹️☹️
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Curious345: 8:56pm On Dec 28, 2021
Make sure you marry him
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Mvena(f): 8:58pm On Dec 28, 2021
Eii see good husband grin

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.
na akwa ibom guy....
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Bellerophon: 8:58pm On Dec 28, 2021
It is was a volcanic eruption of laughter for me as I read through your piece! You have an adult baby and a sponge wearing the facade of old age to propagate and perpetuate his dependency on you! Men are naturally egoistic and the machismo of masculine pride would by default discourage a man from taking residence with a woman regardless of the nature of their relationships! It could be an act of love if it is a very brief stint and not repeated, however where there is a recurrence it is only portentous of a classic diagnosis of acute dependency or parasitism!

Outside of you and the relationship you share, he is meant to have a circle however small of friends with whom several rendezvous and soirée together enjoying and relishing their masculine bravado will be a cherished event. What I mean is a man has his circle of boys with whom hanging out should be an indelible experience! Why a man will very happily be comfortable with the ceaseless company of a woman in isolation to the social cycle of friends and family or colleagues is only an indication of one thing, he is parasitic, dependent, lacks social goodwill, less busy and most of all has no business with pride as shame is his constant companion! Console yourself with the sex as you endure your time in the daycare babysitting your baby blimp!

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by sylve11: 8:59pm On Dec 28, 2021
Very funny gist. grin cool
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by fredoooooo: 8:59pm On Dec 28, 2021
Enjoy no be only man go dey soend for woman grin
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by yusuf0876(m): 8:59pm On Dec 28, 2021
Mood11:
How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head cheesy
This one is Nylon Bag husband grin
you no get joy OOO... ur comment just dey make me laff
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Bola146(f): 8:59pm On Dec 28, 2021
grin cheesy grin grin cheesy grin see me laughing seriously here grin grin grin grin God forbid bad thing, you have entered one chance lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Shaev7(m): 9:00pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.
Some guys just embarrassed me.
Well, to me, its just cruise. Evict him out!
Am a guy. I know you are not bothered about the sex thing because you like it. That may not be issue, but he probably just an arse hole and a gold digger.
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Nobody: 9:01pm On Dec 28, 2021
Hmmn.. This is a well known format that giggolo guys use, especially Abuja gold digging boys.

You'll need to be stand your ground with him and ask him to leave otherwise na real gbege you don enter!

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Robinson155(m): 9:01pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.


cheesy grin grin cheesy cheesy
So e reach my guy turn you Dey complain
Why not ask him if he is having issues at his place
That aside
You shouldn’t be here
Go and talk to your boyfriend

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Nobody: 9:01pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.
Please dear sister, give your life to Christ. Stop destroying your life and destiny. So sorry if I appear so harsh. But that's the best advice anyone that sincerely mean well for you can give you now.

Praying that God will touch your heart tonight in Jesus name.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by samflex(m): 9:01pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Google "Abuja men" or search for Abuja men on twitter and see what pops up, you better use police and get rid of him else he won't leave.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Eleken: 9:01pm On Dec 28, 2021
From your write up i know this girl..
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Chiefochiefo(m): 9:01pm On Dec 28, 2021
Hmmmm! Don't worry that guy has a castle somewhere. He might be looking for love and peace of mind. Give it to him. If he's the right one God will bless you through him or if not, be patient, something will trow him out. Talking from experience o[sup][/sup] kiss

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Drunkdick85(m): 9:02pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.



Alot of guys do this stuff.
You are In a serious shit.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by NGArmyTerrorist: 9:03pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.
Seems like nairaland girls had done a meeting thereby releasing Punch lines against guys. Nawaooo! Una don finish guys even to an extent of making him a plate washer, cooker, what an ass licker. That boy needs to be flogged, he is a SIMP' and a disgrace to other guys. Allow the guy, at least he will be flogging you with his big gbola as you love it pass every other thing that is wrong with him. Help your fornicating friend in need.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by tradepunter: 9:03pm On Dec 28, 2021
Hahaha.... Wahala nu dy finish grin grin grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Agboconsult1(m): 9:04pm On Dec 28, 2021
God help me not to be useless to myself and to my generation. Let my actions bring success to me and to people around me.
Let my mistakes make me to be wise. To learn and to unlearn.
To be a man is not easy.
Amen

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by ogashman(m): 9:05pm On Dec 28, 2021
Orgasmgiver123:
One of the reason why I kick people with my rain boot



Damn.. nasty.. I'm out of here


Lol.....ur boot go soon chop finish
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Natemrwiz: 9:05pm On Dec 28, 2021
Mo le ni ki obo eh ki o lepo and he'll move out ��
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Dreadshy: 9:06pm On Dec 28, 2021
I am against the guy moving in to your house but now that the game has changed you are busy complaining about him if it was the other way tound would you complain? These snake tongued women self...

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by JoyousFurnitire(m): 9:06pm On Dec 28, 2021
lilvicky68:
He eats a lot, snores a lot,

and also fûcks alot..add his good side jare grin

Cumrade grin
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by izubext007: 9:06pm On Dec 28, 2021
West life
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by kapelvej: 9:06pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.
snores and eats a lot grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Akon324: 9:07pm On Dec 28, 2021
Stay awat from fornication it killl the soul and spirit it not enjoyment...

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Toks2008(m): 9:07pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

This life has turned upside-down...Guy wey never marry you dey fvk you anyhow and you even have the audacity to come on a smedia to start writing this.

Anyways my advice is that you just go and pay his groom price since you don marry a new wife cos obviously he is good in the things women believe is their role.

Sexual immorality has become a pride and what is carelessly talked about.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by advanceDNA: 9:07pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Have you been to his house??
If not.... u sure say the guy is not married??
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by ednut1(m): 9:07pm On Dec 28, 2021
Abuja boyfriend lol
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by funshow21: 9:08pm On Dec 28, 2021
" Nairalanders
My boyfriend who I once posted here that he he didn't want to
leave my house after coming to visit for the weekend has not
called me after he left. I have called him severally after that and
he picked on a few occasions and said he was busy with work.
What actually happened is we have been dating for close to 3
months now and sometimes spend times in each other's place
but for me I have never spent more than a day at his place
because I love my privacy and when he came to my apartment
for a weekend hangout he refused to go, the day he eventually
left he came back by 11pm calling that he wants to spend one
more night at my place. The next day I took the bold step and
told him to please leave my house because he was going
against the arrangement we had to only spend at most the
weekend in each other's place. Now ever since he left he has
not been calling me.
Could it be that he is no longer interested?"

Na her previous yarn about her mumu relationship be this ..all this gen Z children sha .. then nor mature...any small thing !! my boyfriend this , my boyfriend that ..

wahlahi this gal gan go too like Gbola!!! she sounds like person wey dy run HK ....
Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by creepsyme(f): 9:08pm On Dec 28, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.
Trust the sneeky Abuja guys!

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