Happy new year nairalanders !!! We made it

Please I will try to make this short and don't mind my Grammer jor.

This is based on a true life story.

I will also use a name different from the real persons in life.

Tayor and his girl friend chioma has dated for 3yrs and planning to tie the knot immediately Chioma finishes her undergraduate studies this year March.

Chioma is studying Medicine in one of the Nigerian universities while Tayor is working in a Nigerian commercial bank.

Prior to Tayor's plan to visit Chioma's mum, Chioma has been battling with her decisive mother that says over her dead body her daughter marries a banker, that chioma must marry a rich medical doctor obviously practicing abroad.

This has gotten both chioma and Tayor devasted as they set out to talk to friends who talked with Chioma's mum, still she insisted.

Now chioma and Tayor are really looking upto to wise counsell from meaningful Nigerians to be able to pull thus through.

Please note that the only issue the mother has with Tayor is his occupation,nothing else.

What can we do to salvage this situation as both chioma and Tayor vowed not to leg go of their marriage plan.

Matured minds only please.
No insults and no bashing.

#marriagematter #thislife #2022

Bola146:

If only this can get to front page.

Peoples life depends on this baba

Ugmama:


If only this can get to front page.

Peoples life depends on this baba

Exactly! We shouldn't be sad on the first day of the year now the issue is nothing to me since the guy is working and not lazy, inasmuch there is genuine love, the woman will calm down when her daughter insist, I hope the guy wouldn't disappoint the lady in future

Bola146:


Exactly! We shouldn't be sad on the first day of the year now the issue is nothing to me since the guy is working and not lazy, inasmuch there is genuine love, the woman will calm down when her daughter insist, I hope the guy wouldn't disappoint the lady in future

No this is not a sad story and it's an interim event.

The guy has no issues with the partner and is a very hard working young man.

I'm sure he will stay true to loving the lady unconditionally.

Na the mama be the problem.

Who tells an adult who to marry in this our time

It is not a front page matter

The girl should choose who she loves and stand her ground respectfully.

Go ahead with her marriage plans and marry....

Tell her hubby.....one or two years down the line after marriage, get out of the zoo called Nigeria to Europe or Canada

Simple

And leave the mom here

Nobody should choose for her

Her mother can choose her own, her daughter has chosen and that should be respected

If the woman nor want come the marriage, make nobody beg her

And she should stand her ground with prayers and all that......

Could be because of tribalism chioma momma don't want her daughter to marry Tayor....she is hiding under the excuse of the guy bank work

Restroom:
It is not a front page matter

The girl should choose who she loves and stand her ground respectfully.

Go ahead with her marriage plans and marry....

Tell her hubby.....one or two years down the line after marriage, get out of the zoo called Nigeria to Europe or Canada

Simple

And leave the mom here

Nobody should choose for her

Her mother can choose her own, her daughter has chosen and that should be respected

If the woman nor want come the marriage, make nobody beg her

And she should stand her ground with prayers and all that......

Could be because of tribalism chioma momma don't want her daughter to marry Tayor....she is hiding under the excuse of the guy bank work

Thank you

Taylor should leave Chioma alone. I've met to backward thinking potential inlaws in the past and due to high dignity and respect i have for myself, i decided to leave such family because i value my peace than backward thinking inlaws. At the end of the day, everybody go dey alright.

dingbang:
Taylor should leave Chioma alone.

Why? Did you read the story at all?

Tayor and Chioma ain't letting go nomatter what.

So it's not an option

Ugmama:


Why? Did you read the story at all?

Tayor and Chioma ain't letting go nomatter what.

So it's not an option

oh yes i did read it. I just let you know what i would do if i were taylor.

dingbang:
oh yes i did read it. I just let you know what i would do if i were taylor.

OK. I have a cousin brother that did what you suggested.

But this one is not gonna fly

Ugmama:


OK. I have a cousin brother that did what you suggested.

But this one is not gonna fly

oya na..make the taylor accept whatever gbese him wan put himself into.

dingbang:
oya na..make the taylor accept whatever gbese him wan put himself into.

Na this vex make you leave that family... No chills at all for your side

Ugmama:




Na this vex make you leave that family... No chills at all for your side

omo.. See eh..peace of mind is under-rated.

dingbang:
omo.. See eh..peace of mind is under-rated.

I respect your decision.

And thank you for being true to yourself.

Stupid mother....

VEXT:
Stupid mother....

Easy bro.

In as much as we are very pissed.

Let's watch how we respond to anger.

It's very painful and it's well.

Ladies and gentleme, what will you do if your momma refuses you to marry your soul mate?

I mean what will be your actions and attitudes to help you win the situation.

Will you stop talking to her or will you leave the house?

Issue still persist o.

Wahala dey for this life aswear!

Ugmama:
Happy new year nairalanders !!! We made it

Please I will try to make this short and don't mind my Grammer jor.

This is based on a true life story.

I will also use a name different from the real persons in life.

Tayor and his girl friend chioma has dated for 3yrs and planning to tie the knot immediately Chioma finishes her undergraduate studies this year March.

Chioma is studying Medicine in one of the Nigerian universities while Tayor is working in a Nigerian commercial bank.

Prior to Tayor's plan to visit Chioma's mum, Chioma has been battling with her decisive mother that says over her dead body her daughter marries a banker, that chioma must marry a rich medical doctor obviously practicing abroad.

This has gotten both chioma and Tayor devasted as they set out to talk to friends who talked with Chioma's mum, still she insisted.

Now chioma and Tayor are really looking upto to wise counsell from meaningful Nigerians to be able to pull thus through.

Please note that the only issue the mother has with Tayor is his occupation,nothing else.

What can we do to salvage this situation as both chioma and Tayor vowed not to leg go of their marriage plan.

Matured minds only please.
No insults and no bashing.

#marriagematter #thislife #2022

Both of them are in love with each other, which means they can endure anything that comes their way

Her mother has been stubborn to approve their marriage, so it can't be done

occupation is the problem here not even the man that wants to marry her daughter

This is a very sensitive issue and needs to be handled with patience and prayers

Well left for me, the relationship continues, while they believe that her mum will change her mind

Meaning they should see themselves as couples, do what couples does and still pray for her mother to change her mind

frozen70:


Both of them are in love with each other, which means they can endure anything that comes their way

Her mother has been stubborn to approve their marriage, so it can't be done

occupation is the problem here not even the man that wants to marry her daughter

This is a very sensitive issue and needs to be handled with patience and prayers

Well left for me, the relationship continues, while they believe that her mum will change her mind

Meaning they should see themselves as couples, do what couples does and still pray for her mother to change her mind

The lady is overwhelmed of the mother's behavior, she is not happy and never happy this has been on since about a year now.

A a matter of fact, the mother has blocked her from calling her and even disowned her... Why? Because she asked for her permission to marry Tayor.

Life can be so cruel to good people.

Marriage is now transactional, that's how selfish people see it.

Ugmama:


The lady is overwhelmed of the mother's behavior, she is not happy and never happy this has been on since about a year now.

A a matter of fact, the mother has blocked her from calling her and even disowned her... Why? Because she asked for her permission to marry Tayor.

Life can be so cruel to good people.

Marriage is now transactional, that's how selfish people see it.

Since it's a critical as this, she has to report the issue to her mother family to come and talk to her

So because she has been trained to become a Doctor, she must marry a Doctor

Her mother has another hidden thing in her heart

Ugmama:


The lady is overwhelmed of the mother's behavior, she is not happy and never happy this has been on since about a year now.

A a matter of fact, the mother has blocked her from calling her and even disowned her... Why? Because she asked for her permission to marry Tayor.

Life can be so cruel to good people.

Marriage is now transactional, that's how selfish people see it.

If you and the girl in question cannot develop some balls and marry irregardless of whatever the family says, then break the relationship and move on.
You don't have to waste each other's time, if you both cannot stand up against the world and do what is right for you both.
Take a stand before this year runs out and decide to exclude extended family members from your lives, and start building your own family unit.
Do a court/registry wedding and that's it.
Whoever changes their minds and agrees to get on with the program should do so, otherwise they can f off.

eyinjuege:


If you and the girl in question cannot develop some balls and marry irregardless of whatever the family says, then break the relationship and move on.
You don't have to waste each other's time, if you both cannot stand up against the world and do what is right for you both.
Take a stand before this year runs out and decide to exclude extended family members from your lives, and start building your own family unit.
Do a court/registry wedding and that's it.
Whoever changes their minds and agrees to get on with the program should do so, otherwise they can f off.

Apt. God bless you

Update

The ibo mother no longer talks to the girl or take her calls all because of say she wants to marry the man she wants to.

People get mind shaa o