It happened between this lovely young couple living in my street. Honestly, I always admiring them whenever I see them together, cant just believe they are fighting.

According to the eyes witness, the husband has been warning his wife against one particular married man living in the same compound who was always in the habit of knocking their door for unnecessary or petty thing( petty thing like woman to woman stuff that he could send his wife), but the woman wont listen. The husband claimed he has caught the said co- tenant starring at his wife bumbum or looking at her seductively several time, and he is not comfortable letting such a person get close to his wife for whatever reason.

According to him, despite warning his wife to ignore or keep straight face whenever he comes knocking, she was still welcoming him with smile. This morning again, the man came knocking for one useless excuse, but this time, the manner in which he did it surprised the husband who was at the living room. He said, he did not call his wife by her Child name as usual but knock silently and pressing door handle to force entry.

The fight broke out when the husband demanded his wife tell him the relationship between her and the married co-tenant or see his other side.

The husband is a very busy type, in which the married co-tenant know of, and his wife works from home.

What will you do if you find yourself in such situation.

yemmit90:
The fight broke out when the husband demanded his wife tell him the relationship between her and the married co-tenant or see his other side.

The husband is a very busy type, in which the married co-tenant know of, and his wife works from home.

What will you do if you find yourself in such situation.

And?

Finish the story... the man asked his wife and the wife did what?

People should understand boundaries if your neighbor say I don't like you talking to my wife dey your dey, is not about being insecure.
This is one of. the reason some country legalize guns, poking of nose in other people marriage is a sin.

yuping:
People should understand boundaries if your neighbor say I don't like you talking to my wife dey your dey, is not about being insecure.

Did the husband in question speak to his neighbor or instead take his frustrations out on his own wife - bullying her?

Also, If it isn't about being insecure, what else could it be?

The husband is afraid of having a heart to heart convo with this neighbour? Very awkward situation

But if the husband isn't comfortable, the wife should find a way to reduce the friendship and make it more formal.

Is the husband of the woman afraid to confront the other man and ask him why he’s seductively being attracted to his wife?
Is the neighbor heavily muscular?
What manner of fear fear is that?

Kobojunkie:
And?

Finish the story... the man asked his wife and the wife did what?

Already finished the story, the husband was fighting his wife for encouraging him by giving him a welcoming attitude after he has warned her he is not comfortable seeing them getting close.

yemmit90:
Already finished the story, the husband was fighting his wife for encouraging him by giving him a welcoming attitude after he has warned her he is not comfortable seeing them getting close.

ROFLMAO


The man is an eejit!

The husband has valid reasons to be angry, i know i would. Biologically speaking,men and women aren't supposed to be friends. So It's either they're smashing or they're about to smash.

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO


The man is an eejit!

Kobo , this is the first time I am seeing you with a happy emoji.

MoneyGoDrop:
The husband has valid reasons to be angry, i know i would. Biologically speaking,men and women aren't supposed to be friends. So It's either they're smashing or they're about to smash.

And you figure that by him bullying and fighting his wife, he can stop that from happening?

Beremx:
Is the husband of the woman afraid to confront the other man and ask him why he’s seductively being attracted to his wife?
Is the neighbor heavily muscular?
What manner of fear fear is that?

I think they claimed he has done that but not on serious confrontation manner, yet the man wont stop and the wife too dont follow his instruction of ignoring him or give straight face whenever he comes knocking.

The husband point is, maybe that is how he normally come to meet his wife when he is not at home.

Kobojunkie:
And you figure that by him bullying and fighting his wife, he can stop that from happening?

Baba, what will you do if you are the husband.

It's obvious the man isn't in control of his home... How dare his wife disobey simple instruction? Beside, how dare a neighbor trespass boundary? The man is not a man

So how will the woman know it's the male neighbor knocking.

The man is the one coming to knock at another person's door.

He is the one looking seductively at another person's wife.

The wife is being blamed for opening the door and smiling at the person by the door.

Instead of the husband to sternly warn the man to keep away from his flat and wife he is blaming the wife who opens the door to her own flat with a smile when she hears a knock.

The woman should stop opening the door when she hears a knock, let him do the opening.

Some people are even shameless and don't understand boundaries, what is that neighbor from hell looking for up and down sef.

Your friend knows what to do.

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#OP, pardon me for using your thread (hopefully you can understand how i feel right now)

Whether u like it or not, men will definitely stare at ur wife, especially if she is beautiful or has big bum bum. By the way the story goes, i don't think the story is real. Why? No sensible neighbour would keep knocking at ur door looking for ur wife, knowing fully well that u are married and that u are at home, except u as the man, u aren't at home or around b4 such could happen.

yemmit90:
Baba, what will you do if you are the husband.

Rather than bully the wife, i would explain to her that I am not comfortable with the neighbor and then leave it at that. A woman is also a capable adult quite able to manage her relationships on her own. Where she needs help from a third-party or even her husband, she knows to ask and only then can she should a husband step in to intercede on her behalf - never before.

What this man did here was disrespect his wife each time he took to bullying her regarding her relationship with the creepy neighbor, thinking his manhood bestows on him alone the right to respect in the relationship.

Kobojunkie:
Rather than bully the wife, i would explain to her that I am not comfortable with the neighbor and then leave it at that. A woman is also a capable adult quite able to manage her relationships on her own. Where she needs help from a third-party or even her husband, she knows to ask and only then can she should a husband step in to intercede on her behalf - never before.

What this man did here was disrespect his wife each time he took to bullying her regarding her relationship with the creepy neighbor, thinking his manhood bestows on him alone the right to respect in the relationship.

Again, another excuse and unnecessary pity for the female gender. Will you call it a bully if it were the wife confronting the husband regarding another woman?

The man here seems to be lilly livered. If I were him, I would confront the man and warn him sternly not to come to my apartment for any reason whatsoever.

And should he insist on coming, I will get him arrested for trespassing, constituting nuisance, intention to cause public unrest and a whole lot of others.

Dailyparrot:
1. Will you call it a bully if it were the wife confronting the husband regarding another woman?

The man scores here seems to be lilly livered. If I were him, I will confront the man and warn him sternly not to come to my apartment for any reason whatsoever.

And should he insist on coming, I will get him arrested.

Why wouldn't it be bullying if only genders were switched? I don't understand what you are insinuating here.

I don't see any real reason why the man should harass the creepy neighbor simply because he showed up at his door. If he had a legit reason, maybe, but the only reason the man abhors his neighbor is because he suspects, this without real evidence, the neighbor has ulterior motives. You can't arrest people on such grounds and certainly not for knocking at your door or being creepy.

Kobojunkie:
Rather than bully the wife, i would explain to her that I am not comfortable with the neighbor and then leave it at that. A woman is also a capable adult quite able to manage her relationships on her own. Where she needs help from a third-party or even her husband, she knows to ask and only then can she should a husband step in to intercede on her behalf - never before.

What this man did here was disrespect his wife each time he took to bullying her regarding her relationship with the creepy neighbor, thinking his manhood bestows on him alone the right to respect in the relationship.

Let me just assume you are still single or just trying to be unnecessarily civil.

As a married man, you must try as much as possible to protect your home and your wife. Women heart/mind are very flexible, and at the same time extremely subjected to change where you least expected. Let me tell you this, being persistently nice and caring is one of the best trick men use to have their way with married women especially those whose their husbands always busy with work.

Since he had once subtly warned him but refused to stop, I think it responsibility of his wife to follow his instruction by ignore or give him straight face whenever he come again. The husband grievance is quite right and understandable because she has more power to stop him since she is the one always at home.

Truvelisback:
Whether u like it or not, men will definitely stare at ur wife, especially if she is beautiful or has big bum bum. By the way the story goes, i don't the story is real. Why? No sensible neighbour would keep knocking at ur door looking for ur wife, knowing fully well that u are married and that u are at home, except u as the man, u aren't at home or around b4 such could happen.

It is real life story, the woman that came to tell my wife live in the same compound with them. The husband is always away from home due to the nature of his job, and sometime he stay at home to rest withiout letting anyone knows. I think the major problem is the time he used to come knocking. The hour her husband suppose to be at work.

yemmit90:


It is real life story, the woman that came to tell my wife live in the same compound with them. The husband is always away from home due to the nature of his job, and sometime he stay at home to rest withiout letting anyone knows. I think the major problem is the time he used to come knocking. The hour her husband suppose to be at work.

Whether u like it or not men would stare at ur wife especially if she is beautiful and has big ass or boobs. Most times, the kinds of dresses women wear are the cause. The man doesn't trust his wife, he is scared that the man would sex his wife.

Penaldo:
It's obvious the man isn't in control of his home... How dare his wife disobey simple instruction? Beside, how dare a neighbor trespass boundary? The man is not a man

the neighbor guy is looking for something to destroy, the lady is too naive to understand what is going on until she falls in

Kobojunkie:
Why wouldn't it be bullying if only genders were switched? I don't understand what you are insinuating here.

I don't see any real reason why the man should harass the creepy neighbor simply because he showed up at his door. If he had a legit reason, maybe, but the only reason the man abhors his neighbor is because he suspects, this without real evidence, the neighbor has ulterior motives. You can't arrest people on such grounds and certainly not for knocking at your door or being creepy.

Do you understand individual differences? If someone says that staring at him makes him uncomfortable, for the sake of peace, desist from staring at such a person.

What makes you uncomfortable is not what makes me uncomfortable and as far as I have told you that I am uncomfortable with your visits, you have to stop.

If it were the man going to check on a married woman's apartment and the wife is uncomfortable with it, I'm sure you will advise the husband to stop just so he doesn't scatter his marriage by himself.

It seems the man now has the sole responsibility of trying to keep the marriage. The woman is always right.

The other thread, a woman packed out of the house because the husband's sister came visiting and people were advising him to rent an apartment for the sister to save his marriage.

Should it have been the man sending the wife away simply because the sister visited, people would have called him petty.

THE WIFE IS T FAULT .. YOU DONT DO WHAT YOUR PARTNER DESPISED .SAME GOES FOR THE HUSBAND TOO .MARRAIGE IS AN INSTITUATION (learning world ). THEY SHOULD SETTLE IT AMMICABLY AND TAKE NOTE OF WHAT EACH OTHER DESPISED

yemmit90:
It happened between this lovely young couple living in my street. Honestly, I always admiring them whenever I see them together, cant just believe they are fighting.

According to the eyes witness, the husband has been warning his wife against one particular married man living in the same compound who was always in the habit of knocking their door for unnecessary or petty thing( petty thing like woman to woman stuff that he could send his wife), but the woman wont listen. The husband claimed he has caught the said co- tenant starring at his wife bumbum or looking at her seductively several time, and he is not comfortable letting such a person get close to his wife for whatever reason.

According to him, despite warning his wife to ignore or keep straight face whenever he comes knocking, she was still welcoming him with smile. This morning again, the man came knocking for one useless excuse, but this time, the manner in which he did it surprised the husband who was at the living room. He said, he did not call his wife by her Child name as usual but knock silently and pressing door handle to force entry.

The fight broke out when the husband demanded his wife tell him the relationship between her and the married co-tenant or see his other side.

The husband is a very busy type, in which the married co-tenant know of, and his wife works from home.

What will you do if you find yourself in such situation.

yemmit90:
Let me just assume you are still single or just trying to be unnecessarily civil.

1. As a married man, you must try as much as possible to protect your home and your wife.

2. Women heart/mind are very flexible, and at the same time extremely subjected to change where you least expected. Let me tell you this, being persistently nice and caring is one of the best trick men use to have their way with married women especially those whose their husbands always busy with work.

3. Since he had once subtly warned him but refused to stop, I think it responsibility of his wife to follow his instruction by ignore or give him straight face whenever he come again.

4. The husband grievance is quite right and understandable because she has more power to stop him since she is the one always at home.

1. Married women also try as much as possible to protect their homes and their husbands too.

2. I don't see the sense in what you claim here.

3. If the man had "subtly" warned the fellow, and assuming the wife was aware of this, only that that fellow refused, it doesn't automagically become his wife's duty to butt in on whatever may have been going on between the two of them.

4. The husband's grievance is wrong. A woman shouldn't automagically harbor a grudge against others simply on grounds that her husband does same. That is foolishness!

Dailyparrot:
1. Do you understand individual differences? If someone says that staring at him makes him uncomfortable, for the sake of peace, desist from staring at such a person.
What makes you uncomfortable is not what makes me uncomfortable and as far as I have told you that I am uncomfortable with your visits, you have to stop.

2. If it were the man going to check on a married woman's apartment and the wife is uncomfortable with it, I'm sure you will advise the husband to stop just so he doesn't scatter his marriage by himself.
It seems the man now has the sole responsibility of trying to keep the marriage. The woman is always right.

3. The other thread, a woman packed out of the house because the husband's sister came visiting and people were advising him to rent an apartment for the sister to save his marriage. Should it have been the man sending the wife away simply because the sister visited, people would have called him petty.

1. The world does not resolve around you and your discomforts. I don't need to do jack if you tell me you hate my stares. If you don't even understand that the problem isn't with me but with you to begin with, Why should I even oblige you?

2. Stop with the emotional ramblings abeg!

We are not here looking at the story from the point of view of the creep but instead the married man and his wife.

3. Excuse me? The other thread was a disagreement between two partners in a marriage.... if the agreement between partners is no outsiders allowed...that agreement is to be honored by both parties involved.

Abeg, learn to argue these things less emotionally so you can see these things more clearly abeg.

yemmit90:
It happened between this lovely young couple living in my street. Honestly, I always admiring them whenever I see them together, cant just believe they are fighting.

According to the eyes witness, the husband has been warning his wife against one particular married man living in the same compound who was always in the habit of knocking their door for unnecessary or petty thing( petty thing like woman to woman stuff that he could send his wife), but the woman wont listen. The husband claimed he has caught the said co- tenant starring at his wife bumbum or looking at her seductively several time, and he is not comfortable letting such a person get close to his wife for whatever reason.

According to him, despite warning his wife to ignore or keep straight face whenever he comes knocking, she was still welcoming him with smile. This morning again, the man came knocking for one useless excuse, but this time, the manner in which he did it surprised the husband who was at the living room. He said, he did not call his wife by her Child name as usual but knock silently and pressing door handle to force entry.

The fight broke out when the husband demanded his wife tell him the relationship between her and the married co-tenant or see his other side.

The husband is a very busy type, in which the married co-tenant know of, and his wife works from home.

What will you do if you find yourself in such situation.

She will have to move her belongings into the neighbor's apartment once and for all so that he won't have to keep knocking on my door for mumu reasons.

@yemmit90, put secret cameras in strategic places in your house, or you can hack her phone.

nuelyoyo:
@yemmit90, put secret cameras in strategic places in your house, or you can hack her phone.

ROFLMAO