caesymore:
Mehn...

A lot of Men don't know the meaning of being called Groom.

As a groom you tame your lady and enjoy your marriage but as a Groom you should have been properly groomed so as to groom.
Just as there are wild animals that can't be tamed so are some Brides too, if you jam those one and you are well groomed you will know they are to be let into the wild while you go for another and another till you get the one you can groom.
Though there are lots of jonsing Niggars out here.

Womenarespecial:
I appreciate your points and they are insightful..learnt a thing or two..
I think you need to look into the part you said "if she ain't challenging she is useless"..
Everyone loves a confident and intelligent woman but I don't think useless is the right word to use when they ain't up to your taste..
We all have a downplay in our lives but I don't think it makes us totally useless as a person..

Peebaby93:
You men don't like women that gives you peace and less trouble..you are always looking for the one who will give you unnecessary drama so that you can exhibit your manly character.......men like challenges....I think you haven't met the devil's daughter.pray you don't

Peebaby93:
You men don't like women that gives you peace and less trouble..you are always looking for the one who will give you unnecessary drama so that you can exhibit your manly character.......men like challenges....I think you haven't met the devil's daughter.pray you don't

AdeOri99:


Trust me, there is no peace in she being peaceful, if a woman is like that, she can't be trusted, she is 99.9% more likely to be a cheat, and a deceiver.

Moreover, the result of peace is war!, to avoid chaos, better settle your indifferences "continuosly".

caesymore:
Mehn...

A lot of Men don't know the meaning of being called Groom.

As a groom you tame your lady and enjoy your marriage but as a Groom you should have been properly groomed so as to groom.
Just as there are wild animals that can't be tamed so are some Brides too, if you jam those one and you are well groomed you will know they are to be let into the wild while you go for another and another till you get the one you can groom.
Though there are lots of jonsing Niggars out here.

bridegroom (n.) "man newly married or about to be," Old English brydguma "suitor," from bryd "bride" (see bride) + guma "man," from Proto-Germanic *gumon- (source also of Old Norse. by folk etymology after groom (n.) "groom, boy, lad" (q.v.).

Belafonte:
OP, I kind of appreciate where you're coming from, however, it would be wise to end any relationship where the man cannot bring a woman under his frame of authority(tame her).

Sometimes it happens naturally if both the man and woman have similar terms. This takes the woman without any or much effort from the man. Sometimes, all the man has to do is translate his worldview to the woman and if she understands and accepts it she can be tamed.

Most conflict arises from a clash in worldviews and ideologies. The problem is many men refuse to let go because if sèx or a sense of having a woman. If you need to talk too much before a woman listens or obeys, the relationship is not worth it, in no time you start sounding like a nag and resentment begins to creep in, before you know it the relationship go still end. It, therefore, goes without saying that you save time by accepting reality as quickly as possible.

A woman should not be a challenge to her man, she should be inspirational (she should energise her man to want to become a better version of himself for the sake of their relationship).

After facing the world's challenges and hustling to survive, you still an go meet challenge for house? You go just die for nothing. Your woman should be respite from the demands of the world, not another mountain you have to climb

she should be inspirational (she should energise her man to want to become a better version of himself for the sake of their relationship).

Belafonte:
Young men, a peaceful woman is the best woman you can ever hope to marry, unless you don't have much going for you in life and are looking for somewhere to expend your energies.

Women, by nature, are chaotic. That's why they love bad boys that can scratch their natural itch for chaos. Even the most peaceful woman has braintouch from time to time, how much more a confirmed werey, na you go taya

If you have a vision and you're doggedly pursuing your purpose, I promise you, the last thing you will looking for is a challenging woman. Don't let them finger your brain o

AdeOri99:


This is what I mean by challenge, I just realised that people are taking it to mean problems, and I am surprised too. lol.

Me, I often encounter challenge, not necessarily problems because I can solve them, and they make me mature quickly, that is what I mean, it becomes a problem when she proves unnecessarily difficult.

siofra:


Wrong. This is the etymology of the word groom. Stop lying

AdeOri99:


Trust me, there is no peace in she being peaceful, if a woman is like that, she can't be trusted, she is 99.9% more likely to be a cheat, and a deceiver.

Moreover, the result of peace is war!, to avoid chaos, better settle your indifferences "continuosly".

Belafonte:
Young men, a peaceful woman is the best woman you can ever hope to marry, unless you don't have much going for you in life and are looking for somewhere to expend your energies.

Women, by nature, are chaotic. That's why they love bad boys that can scratch their natural itch for chaos. Even the most peaceful woman has braintouch from time to time, how much more a confirmed werey, na you go taya

If you have a vision and you're doggedly pursuing your purpose, I promise you, the last thing you will looking for is a challenging woman. Don't let them finger your brain o

Opeyemiextra:

Toh

AdeOri99:
I believe women are meant to refine men that is why they so much have initial power over men.

So when she proves difficult, you act like a man and tame her, she will respect you more, if you can't tame her, believe me, you just sign a contract of sorrow.

But if you can tame your woman, and the both of you are satisfied in the relationship with no one feeling overpowered or undervalued, you just sign a life of bliss.

That is your challenge as a man

I believe men should stop complaining about how uncontrollable women are becoming, I think it's our fault, it's also our fault that the Nation at large Is this way, we can bring back our glory, we won't employ aliens, neither will you be treated like a human in another man's land.

So, we should stop running from challenges but choose what we can solve and solve it.

Challenges refine a man and bring out the beauty of a Nation, can't you see how Nigerian are famous for their versatility all over the world? if we are born into comforts, we won't be that versatile, or famous.

also, if your woman isn't challenging, she may just not be the best for you.

Opinion.

Modified: When I said Challenge, I mean a woman that isn't contented with mediocrity and will always motivate you to do more, not one that is unnecessarily problematic.

redstaarx:


A new SIMP

AdeOri99:


Yeah, I am actually their King!

The King of Simpletons

redstaarx:


Congrats

AdeOri99:


I see you are one of those wannabe red pillars, and your action was influenced by the fact that a girl dump you, probably she found someone that is not as dumb as you are, and to feel good, you are showing your frustration on naira land.

https://www.nairaland.com/6847738/how-deal-loneliness


The same thing that breaks your heart are the same things that open your eyes. I moved on so fast and life has been very good to me. I don wise and I feel better alone. I hope you see the light someday. Btw I don’t feel embarrassed anymore about it
How dumb