Im a 23 year old male. 100% straight. But when i have sex, i dont perform well. 23 should be my prime but i feel ive gotten worse since i lost my virginity as a teenager. Im only interested in one position (doggystyle). If my partner wants to switch positions or if she wants to go on top, i immediately lose my interest/lose my erection and we KNOW it goes downhill from there. Its really bad. It kind of makes me want to avoid dating altogether cause when/if we get sexual, it becomes an embarassing/awkward moment and i disappoint my partner every single time. Please dont crack jokes at me or recommend viagra or anything like that. This is a serious concern. I have a high drive for sex but when it comes to the positioning, i get turned off. What is wrong with me??

Bros go and seat down somewhere. 23 your prime for sex. Folks your age should only be thinking of getting a better carrier and how to get done with school, not how to get better at sex for God sake

Do people win trophies after engaging on this overrated thing called sex?

ReneDaniels:
Bros go and seat down somewhere. 23 your prime for sex. Folks your age should only be thinking of getting a better carrier and how to get done with school, not how to get better at sex for God sake

Lol this advice tho. "He should only be thinking of getting a better career and get out of school".
So he should wait till he's forty with a good career before he improves his sex life? . Life is a journey and self-improvement is an all round thing and shouldn't be restricted to some areas. The most important part is learning how to strike a balance.

princefrank76:
Do people win trophies after engaging on this overrated thing called sex?

Ask him bro. At 23 dude is concerned about sex instead of his career. I'm sure he hasn't even graduated yet

ReneDaniels:
Bros go and seat down somewhere. 23 your prime for sex. Folks your age should only be thinking of getting a better carrier and how to get done with school, not how to get better at sex for God sake

You people are fond of giving unsolicited advice to someone seeking a different kind of advice on this forum.. How do you even know all what you mentioned are not sorted out by him..

All we need to do is teach our children sex education and stop being hypocritical about everything.

As for op, too much Imbibing of doggy style porn over the years has messed up your brain.
It's psychological.

That's because you don't immerse yourself very well in the process.

You need to take somethings off your mind and focus on sex at that moment else you won't enjoy it as much as you will want to

SmellySperm:

Ask him bro. At 23 dude is concerned about sex instead of his career. I'm sure he hasn't even graduated yet

for ur information I'm in my final year

ReneDaniels:
Bros go and seat down somewhere. 23 your prime for sex. Folks your age should only be thinking of getting a better carrier and how to get done with school, not how to get better at sex for God sake

ReneDaniels:
Bros go and seat down somewhere. 23 your prime for sex. Folks your age should only be thinking of getting a better carrier and how to get done with school, not how to get better at sex for God sake

What anyone else does doesn't involve you. Just let people
live their lives.

nickyj19:

for ur information I'm in my final year

You don't need to answer to any of them.

Just ask them after all their hustle and focus how rich they're now..

Most people resort to those kind of speech when they can't have a girl to have sex with not for lack of trying though, but because they don't even know how to go about it..

nickyj19:
Im a 23 year old male. 100% straight. But when i have sex, i
dont perform well. 23 should be my prime but i feel ive
gotten worse since i lost my virginity as a teenager. Im only
interested in one position (doggystyle). If my partner wants to
switch positions or if she wants to go on top, i immediately
lose my interest/lose my erection and we KNOW it goes
downhill from there. Its really bad. It kind of makes me want
to avoid dating altogether cause when/if we get sexual, it
becomes an embarassing/awkward moment and i disappoint
my partner every single time.
Please dont crack jokes at me or recommend viagra or
anything like that. This is a serious concern. I have a high
drive for sex but when it comes to the positioning, i get
turned off. What is wrong with me??

I think you should talk to her about your problem..tell her how y'd prefer it to be most women are gonna understand you..

Anxiety and fear might be your problem tho..fear that you won't perform well in bed and satisfy her sexually..

Try to indulge in forepla* before thrusting in her..

@nickyj19 I am a woman not much older than you and from my perspective, I would just love honesty?

If you only find sex arousing in one way, then you should try to have that discussion with your partner before you get down to it. She might say no - and that won't be a bad thing, but if you draw your boundaries before getting your clothes off, she will really appreciate it. Typically, in my experience, women don't get a lot of pleasure from doggy style, so you might want to work on your pre-intimacy skills to make sure she is pleasured before (and/or) after but open and honest communication is the only way you're going to work through this. Good luck to you and your lucky ladies!

Womenarespecial:

I think you should talk to her about your problem..tell her how y'd prefer it to be most women are gonna understand you..

Anxiety and fear might be your problem tho..fear that you won't perform well in bed and satisfy her sexually..

Try to indulge in forepla* before thrusting in her..

na that fear be my problem

samiabigail:
@nickyj19 I am a woman not much older than you and from
my perspective, I would just love honesty?


If you only find sex arousing in one way, then you should try
to have that discussion with your partner before you get
down to it. She might say no - and that won't be a bad thing,
but if you draw your boundaries before getting your clothes
off, she will really appreciate it.
Typically, in my experience, women don't get a lot of
pleasure from doggy style, so you might want to work on your
pre-intimacy skills to make sure she is pleasured before (and/or)
after but open and honest communication is the only way
you're going to work through this. Good luck to you and your
lucky ladies!

thanks a lot

Maybe you’re gay
Go meet bobrisky

nickyj19:

na that fear be my problem

Stop self judging..stop being preoccupied with fear regardless of what you are planning on doing..

The human mind is problem solving.. It detects dangers..analyzes situation.. predicts outcomes and suggests action..go for what you want and conquer the fear..

Tik tok generation.

Oga go and invest in Cryptocurrency. Forget women and sex.

Chloraseptic:


You people are fond of giving unsolicited advice to someone seeking a different kind of advice on this forum.. How do you even know all what you mentioned are not sorted out by him..

All we need to do is teach our children sex education and stop being hypocritical about everything.

As for op, too much Imbibing of doggy style porn over the years has messed up your brain.
It's psychological.

Bros let’s call a spade a spade and stop being foolish. How can a 23year old be thinking of how to get better in bed. What has the world turned into. Y’all keep supporting trashy things. I’m not against any one tryna get better at there sex lives but he could simply read about it on google or watch videos on YouTube must you come out right with stupidity. We’re Africans never forget that. See and Average white boy of 23 done come out with one crazy invention our own na sex improvement. Argue with your keyboards….

ReneDaniels:
Bros go and seat down somewhere. 23 your prime for sex. Folks your age should only be thinking of getting a better carrier and how to get done with school, not how to get better at sex for God sake

23 should be married na nigeria dey cause 30year old still dey sch.

Buy agbo finish

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buy water melon and eat it with the seeds, the seeds make some people purge but just eat it with the seeds,

buy gorontula, english name SNOT APPLE, from hausa guys and eat it


buy tiger nut or aya and eat it

buy dates or dabinu and eat it with coconut, together, it will boost your libido or sexual power

reduce your alcohol intake, and drugs like viagra because they have side effects

do kegel exercise when you are urinating, that is stop the urine and then continue, it will make you last longer when fxvking your woman, withdrawing back the sperm before pouring it


EAT GOOD FOOD BEFORE FXCKING, REDUCE SMOKING,
#MAYGODSAVEUS!

#ITISWELL!

nickyj19:
Im a 23 year old male. 100% straight. But when i have sex, i
dont perform well. 23 should be my prime but i feel ive
gotten worse since i lost my virginity as a teenager. Im only
interested in one position (doggystyle). If my partner wants to
switch positions or if she wants to go on top, i immediately
lose my interest/lose my erection and we KNOW it goes
downhill from there. Its really bad. It kind of makes me want
to avoid dating altogether cause when/if we get sexual, it
becomes an embarassing/awkward moment and i disappoint
my partner every single time.
Please dont crack jokes at me or recommend viagra or
anything like that. This is a serious concern. I have a high
drive for sex but when it comes to the positioning, i get
turned off. What is wrong with me??

Use Half tablet of 100mg Vega100...Thank me later

ReneDaniels:


Bros let’s call a spade a spade and stop being foolish. How can a 23year old be thinking of how to get better in bed. What has the world turned into. Y’all keep supporting trashy things. I’m not against any one tryna get better at there sex lives but he could simply read about it on google or watch videos on YouTube must you come out right with stupidity. We’re Africans never forget that. See and Average white boy of 23 done come out with one crazy invention our own na sex improvement. Argue with your keyboards….

All these special advisers on Nairaland will never learn. Tell me say you no dey Bleep. What works on YouTube might not work for him. Abi, shey Dem dey recommend Agbo seller for YouTube?

I see nothing wrong with his question and him having sex at 23. It's better he deals with his problem now than looking for solution later.

All mofos above me advising about him concentrating on school like say una no dey Bleep when una dey school. Na una holy pass.


My contribution, try jelqing and stroking when it wants to go down after doggy. Take your mind off you worrying it will fall flaccid cos the mind works crazy during sex. If you think of cum, you'll cum so think of something else while you change to the other positions and you'll be fine.

Otherwise, watch missionary sex positions and other sex positions alone and see if you'll get an erection when you're alone. This I believe can put you in the right position to do any style.

Thank you

nickyj19:
Im a 23 year old male. 100% straight. But when i have sex, i
dont perform well. 23 should be my prime but i feel ive
gotten worse since i lost my virginity as a teenager. Im only
interested in one position (doggystyle). If my partner wants to
switch positions or if she wants to go on top, i immediately
lose my interest/lose my erection and we KNOW it goes
downhill from there. Its really bad. It kind of makes me want
to avoid dating altogether cause when/if we get sexual, it
becomes an embarassing/awkward moment and i disappoint
my partner every single time.
Please dont crack jokes at me or recommend viagra or
anything like that. This is a serious concern. I have a high
drive for sex but when it comes to the positioning, i get
turned off. What is wrong with me??

hi I perfectly understand your situation chat me up on whatssap let talk I have a solution for you check my signature for my number

ReneDaniels:


Bros let’s call a spade a spade and stop being foolish. How can a 23year old be thinking of how to get better in bed. What has the world turned into. Y’all keep supporting trashy things. I’m not against any one tryna get better at there sex lives but he could simply read about it on google or watch videos on YouTube must you come out right with stupidity. We’re Africans never forget that. See and Average white boy of 23 done come out with one crazy invention our own na sex improvement. Argue with your keyboards….

bruh shut up

nickyj19:
Im a 23 year old male. 100% straight. But when i have sex, i
dont perform well. 23 should be my prime but i feel ive
gotten worse since i lost my virginity as a teenager. Im only
interested in one position (doggystyle). If my partner wants to
switch positions or if she wants to go on top, i immediately
lose my interest/lose my erection and we KNOW it goes
downhill from there. Its really bad. It kind of makes me want
to avoid dating altogether cause when/if we get sexual, it
becomes an embarassing/awkward moment and i disappoint
my partner every single time.
Please dont crack jokes at me or recommend viagra or
anything like that. This is a serious concern. I have a high
drive for sex but when it comes to the positioning, i get
turned off. What is wrong with me??

Is it my eyes or did I just hear you right?
23 years ,a prime age for sex?

I wish you could channel this same energy into finishing school and getting a good life/career. As far as I know, you don't have a problem.

CeokRicchezza:


All these special advisers on Nairaland will never learn. Tell me say you no dey Bleep. What works on YouTube might not work for him. Abi, shey Dem dey recommend Agbo seller for YouTube?

I see nothing wrong with his question and him having sex at 23. It's better he deals with his problem now than looking for solution later.

All mofos above me advising about him concentrating on school like say una no dey Bleep when una dey school. Na una holy pass.


My contribution, try jelqing and stroking when it wants to go down after doggy. Take your mind off you worrying it will fall flaccid cos the mind works crazy during sex. If you think of cum, you'll cum so think of something else while you change to the other positions and you'll be fine.

Otherwise, watch missionary sex positions and other sex positions alone and see if you'll get an erection when you're alone. This I believe can put you in the right position to do any style.

Thank you

I'm please and great full bro thanks for ur contribution

ReneDaniels:
Bros go and seat down somewhere. 23 your prime for sex. Folks your age should only be thinking of getting a better carrier and how to get done with school, not how to get better at sex for God sake

What makes you think he hasn't graduated from University and working on his career? I had graduated and was already serving at 23 that's like 12 years ago. Now I'm married with a kid, I was also concerned about my sexual prowess. OP eat Bananas and watermelon, if you smoke kindly regulate or quit if you can.

Secondly, talk to your partner so she understands that doggy is your fetish and you easily lose interest when you engage in conventional styles like missionary.

Furthermore, ignore comments that reprimand you about your Inquisition to your sexuality, they are unilluminated. I hope you get reliable information to help you enjoy good sex. Always play it safe bro!