Why is this section so full of cave men. People are actually victim blaming here? Are we serious at all in this continent? This is disgraceful. No one has the right to rape anyone. I will be staying away from thiz section. I only see silly man children heart broken by ladies always disrespecting women here. Very toxic place this is. Grow up, sand monkeys.

Ajmoziz:
Well it depends really on what you mean by fault,if you are saying that by dressing this way,she asked for it then that's a capital NO,nobody asks for this thing,most likely she is looking for validation in the form of male attraction,rape is not validation by any form of the imagination,it is demeaning,crude and a sure fire way to psychological and mental anarchy.but if you are talking in terms of responsibility,yes everybody has a responsibility to protect themselves always from such social ill

Even if she wears pant and bra, nobody is meant to rape her.

SonOfEl:


This is a different case. In this, we know the man is actually sick and psychopathic.

You and heniford2 have responded miserably.

lavamaestro:


Says the gender that doesn't respect their body. A man can't control his urges so he tells the woman to control what he sees so he can control himself. Make it make sense.

Let me help it make sense to you, all men are not NORMAL, not all men can control their urges,even if majority are and can,it takes only one to rape,do whatever you want with the information

lavamaestro:

So children that are raped is caused by the children?
Let me ask you a question? If a man begins to flaunt his wealth and he is beaten and robbed? Would you say it was his fault? If a woman kills you because she was cheated on like the story that was on front page, will you say it is the man's fault for cheating?
Men would perpetuate the act and still blame women for what they perpetuated.

Is this sarcasm, haven't you seen even on news people saying when he is flaunting his wealth,why won't they Rob him or people will blaming the man ,why would you cheat when he is killed,or have you forgotten the usifo ataga saga.in fact I don't think you are in this Nigeria if you think that it's men mostly that balme women who are raped

HellVictorinho3:




Even if she wears pant and bra, nobody is meant to rape her.

Like I always say, statements like this comes from a place of People wanting to live a life of no consequence,but honey,while I agree,nobody is meant to rape anybody for any reason,to be honest ,not every is normal and that one person does not care about your belief.know this and act accordingly

HellVictorinho3:




How would she know who has no self-control?


She can't assume everyone lacks it.



Rapists have no defense.

You better ohhhh,you better assume no body has self control.while rapist have no defense,the issue is not the rapist,the important thing is how do prevent it and assuming every person around you is not normal.just as they say in driving school,drive like you are the only person on the road so is sane,the detrimental effects of being raped is too much to be doing smeh smeh

ekusigo:


Please, can we clarify this 'Justification matter'.

If I say to and armed robbery victim: 'you should not have let you gates and doors wide open when going to sleep at night, how does it mean I am justifying the armed robbery act?

Our clothes are like gates to our body, let's try as much as possible to shut perverts out, male or female.

y most one be an arm rubber? Is there any justification to rob world wide?

The justification is not on you but one the act and reason behind it,
That a lady is ill dressed should not be a reason to rape her,we as men should have a level of self control and ethics

ekusigo:


Please, can we clarify this 'Justification matter'.

If I say to and armed robbery victim: 'you should not have let you gates and doors wide open when going to sleep at night, how does it mean I am justifying the armed robbery act?

Our clothes are like gates to our body, let's try as much as possible to shut perverts out, male or female.

HellVictorinho3:



You and heniford2 have responded miserably.

HellVictorinho3:



You and heniford2 have responded miserably.

Mr. Woman Hero just keep to yourself. Or is it your type that use women nudity to masturbate as you like?

Nobody is justifying rape for any reason. What we are saying is - prevention is better than cure. Dress decently so as not to attract unnecessary attention.

SonOfEl:


Mr. Woman Hero just keep to yourself. Or is it your type that use women nudity to masturbate as you like?

Nobody is justifying rape for any reason. What we are saying is - prevention is better than cure. Dress decently so as not to attract unnecessary attention.

Last year was so terrible for me
This year has been so terrible as well


Even Nairaland is not helping matters



Offline and online..... issues upon issues.

Coly2012:
y most one be an arm rubber? Is there any justification to rob world wide?

So you'll completely absorb a man of negligence for leaving the door to his house full of gold wide open at night, in Ikorodu?
Would you advise banks to do the same?

Coly2012:
The justification is not on you but one the act and reason behind it,
That a lady is ill dressed should not be a reason to rape her,we as men should have a level of self control and ethics

Sure. Control and ethics are for the same, alone

Unfortunately, the mentally absurd, drug users and unethical are in the majority.

ekusigo:


So you'll completely absorb a man of negligence for leaving the door to his house full of gold wide open at night, in Ikorodu?
Would you advise banks to do the same?

by your comment you are going out of context on the issue, a man who opens his door wide open when there are valuable therein lacks common sense, There is what we call RACTIONALITY and ORDER.

ekusigo:


Sure. Control and ethics are for the same, alone

Unfortunately, the mentally absurd, drug users and unethical are in the majority.

You have said it all

SonOfEl:


Mr. Woman Hero just keep to yourself. Or is it your type that use women nudity to masturbate as you like?

Nobody is justifying rape for any reason. What we are saying is - prevention is better than cure. Dress decently so as not to attract unnecessary attention.

Can you lend me money??



It's terribly urgent..... I am worried.

heniford2:
why would a grown up lady dress a seductively and move to slum area what's in her mind doing so what do you expect to happen men are moved by what the see not hear. Rape is bad but ladies causes it 70% of it

I understand alot of women deliberately act n dress seductively n provoke men however a man should have control of himself n his actions n feelings

Razgas:
smh you are just looking for an argument. Read my post again

An English adage says discretion is the better part of Valor.

You can blame the man alone all you want but a raped girl is a raped girl

Dnt matter. A man should have self control no matter how easy a stupid woman acts or dresses. Have a gud day

Mrscarter:


I understand alot of women deliberately act n dress seductively n provoke men however a man should have control of himself n his actions n feelings

so if men fail to control themselves we will be having massive Rape cases the thing is we black want to copycat the white not minding how bad it is we just want to copy, and ladies loving attention will kill to get men's attention even if it means going naked which in end leads to Rape cases

heniford2:
so if men fail to control themselves we will be having massive Rape cases the thing is we black want to copycat the white not minding how bad it is we just want to copy, and ladies loving attention will kill to get men's attention even if it means going naked which in end leads to Rape cases

Yes its true sum women are provacative but is upto a man to control his urges. No be by force he puts his dikk in anyone

heniford2:
so if men fail to control themselves we will be having massive Rape cases the thing is we black want to copycat the white not minding how bad it is we just want to copy, and ladies loving attention will kill to get men's attention even if it means going naked which in end leads to Rape cases

My brother I'm with you. Sometimes i dont blame muslim communities for enforcing strict dress codes on their women.

Women are avatars of blackmail. They set you up and then blame you for it. Tell me, whats the difference between them and the devil? Aren't they accuser of brethren?

heniford2:
you can wear pants and bra and move to slum areas alone too and say its men fault, Rape is bad but i have come to understand that 70% of Rape cases are caused by female

I am shocked to see some unfortunate people like yourself liking this