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I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by confirmedniggae: 2:20am On Jan 18, 2022
Good morning nairalanders.

Please ,I need a job .I lost my job on the 29th of December ,2021 and things are beginning to get bad .

I was a manager/accountant of a company .The CEO have a sister also acting in the role of a manager .So,on the 28th of December,we had 2 clients .I was attending to one while her sister was attending to the other client .

A client been attended to my boss sister made a transfer and immediately ,her she called to confirm but my boss said the money haven't drop into the account .The client who was putting on nosemask and a facecap claimed he was in a hurry then showed the debit alert to my boss sister and my boss sister asked the client to leave .

Later in the night when I was on my bed around 11pm,my boss called me to tell me she didn't get the money(#385,000) and I told her I wasn't involved in the transaction that her sister did .She started yelling at me and calling me all sort of name .I told her that wasn't the first time her sister is handling transfer issue because she was only reacting because she didn't get the money(Don't even know if she have gotten the money now because I do believe some transfers do come in the next day).

The following day at work around 11am,she asked me to remove the password on the system which I did .She then told me to hand over the company phone to her but I begged to remove my sim cards and held on to the phone to remove the cards but the next thing I heard on my face was a slap .I was angry and told her she wanted to cheat me cos she is rich and i told her I will make sure I deal with her .Her husband who was in the toilet just came out and started hitting me on my nose with the ring on his fingers and items while my boss also kept giving me slaps .

Infact ,they locked the door on me and inflicted severe injuries on my head ,nose and neck .In the process ,I lose lot of blood.I couldn't even run outside cos they locked the door threatening that policemen and soldiers were on the way to arrest me because they suspected I sent someone to dupe them.

Seriously when when they were beating me ,I was cursing both of them cos I was helpless. The other staff and a client who were present that morning tried to stop them but they cared less .The staff were telling me to clean the blood but i refused .

When my boss and her husband realised I didn't care about their threat and I couldn't stop calling God to judge them,they opened the door and immediately, I went to police station to arrest them .

The IPO gave me medical paper to general hospital to treat myself but I was not attended to early .They have both been released before I returned to the police station(We all wrote statements before I went to hospital ).

Last two weeks,the IPO called the three of us and my December salary was paid .They also paid all the expenses i incurred in the course of my medical treatment.

She was sorry though and told the police men she acted bad for hitting me first.

Please ,I need job .I need to start doing something legal to cater for my family.I don't mind how odd the job might be.I just need any job to pay my rent ,my son school fee and feeding because I am sure I will get a better offer soon.I can work do all manner of work.

I only have #28,000 left from the salary .I am scared it will finish before Monday .

*I have proofs of my post pls .I only need job to sustain my family pls
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by FreeIgboho: 2:46am On Jan 18, 2022
I really feel for you my brother, though there are 3 sides to every story. What rich people get away with in Nigeria eh! What poor people see eh! No union, no police or court system to protect u. All are according to how much in you pocket!
Nigeria is simply the wrong place to be poor.
If you want to be poor and be poor in peace, leave Nigeria!

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Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by heniford2: 4:00am On Jan 18, 2022
confirmedniggae:
Good morning nairalanders.

Please ,I need a job .I lost my job on the 29th of December ,2021 and things are beginning to get bad .

I was a manager/accountant of a company .The CEO have a sister also acting in the role of a manager .So,on the 28th of December,we had 2 clients .I was attending to one while her sister was attending to the other client .

A client been attended to my boss sister made a transfer and immediately ,her she called to confirm but my boss said the money haven't drop into the account .The client who was putting on nosemask and a facecap claimed he was in a hurry then showed the debit alert to my boss sister and my boss sister asked the client to leave .

Later in the night when I was on my bed around 11pm,my boss called me to tell me she didn't get the money(#385,000) and I told her I wasn't involved in the transaction that her sister did .She started yelling at me and calling me all sort of name .I told her that wasn't the first time her sister is handling transfer issue because she was only reacting because she didn't get the money(Don't even know if she have gotten the money now because I do believe some transfers do come in the next day).

The following day at work around 11am,she asked me to remove the password on the system which I did .She then told me to hand over the company phone to her but I begged to remove my sim cards and held on to the phone to remove the cards but the next thing I heard on my face was a slap .I was angry and told her she wanted to cheat me cos she is rich and i told her I will make sure I deal with her .Her husband who was in the toilet just came out and started hitting me on my nose with the ring on his fingers and items while my boss also kept giving me slaps .

Infact ,they locked the door on me and inflicted severe injuries on my head ,nose and neck .In the process ,I lose lot of blood.I couldn't even run outside cos they locked the door threatening that policemen and soldiers were on the way to arrest me because they suspected I sent someone to dupe them.

Seriously when when they were beating me ,I was cursing both of them cos I was helpless. The other staff and a client who were present that morning tried to stop them but they cared less .The staff were telling me to clean the blood but i refused .

When my boss and her husband realised I didn't care about their threat and I couldn't stop calling God to judge them,they opened the door and immediately, I went to police station to arrest them .

The IPO gave me medical paper to general hospital to treat myself but I was not attended to early .They have both been released before I returned to the police station(We all wrote statements before I went to hospital ).

Last two weeks,the IPO called the three of us and my December salary was paid .They also paid all the expenses i incurred in the course of my medical treatment.

She was sorry though and told the police men she acted bad for hitting me first.

Please ,I need job .I need to start doing something legal to cater for my family.I don't mind how odd the job might be.I just need any job to pay my rent ,my son school fee and feeding because I am sure I will get a better offer soon.I can work do all manner of work.

I only have #28,000 left from the salary .I am scared it will finish before Monday .

*I have proofs of my post pls .I only need job to sustain my family pls

you would not have lost your job if you had good manners ur boss asked you a simple question even if your not the one that did the transaction your approach matters your the main manager as you said early on what stop you from been matured knowing this is where you feed, your boss may have lost his temper but you gave room to it undecided know your broke you have a kid to feed what next know who will Employ you Reading this your story undecided

Please delete this mentality, your boss was wrong hitting you but you gave them the room to it been smart you should have quietly explained yourself and also avoid issues because her sister did a transaction you as the manager should have handle it as a manager which you where employed to do undecided

you allowed emotion to be cloud your reasoning, forget the Rich and the poor mentality we have in Africa if was that guy too i will hit you for raising your voice against my wife like that you need to work on yourself and ur emotion okey

To make example of her you should have taking her to court claiming damage recap,your boss is stupid and crazy people like her are abusers you should have took the stuff to court or get a lawyer is never late make arrangement it will take few months but you will benefit from it when the pay you off since you have the evidence still on you it will show to others never to try this with others wish ur in Berlin would have offered you a job in my Restaurant. More grace stay safe.

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Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by philcz(m): 5:35am On Jan 18, 2022
heniford2:
you would not have lost your job if you had good manners ur boss asked you a simple question even if your not the one that did the transaction your approach matters your the main manager as you said early on what stop you from been matured knowing this is where you feed, your boss may have lost his temper but you gave room to it undecided know your broke you have a kid to feed what next know who will Employ you Reading this your story undecided

Please delete this mentality, your boss was wrong hitting you but you gave them the room to it been smart you should have quietly explained yourself and also avoid issues because her sister did a transaction you as the manager should have handle it as a manager which you where employed to do undecided

you allowed emotion to be cloud your reasoning, forget the Rich and the poor mentality we have in Africa if was that guy too i will hit you for raising your voice against my wife like that you need to work on yourself and ur emotion okey

To make example of her you should have taking her to court claiming damage recap,your boss is stupid and crazy people like her are abusers you should have took the stuff to court or get a lawyer is never late make arrangement it will take few months but you will benefit from it when the pay you off since you have the evidence still on you it will show to others never to try this with others wish ur in Berlin would have offered you a job in my Restaurant. More grace stay safe.
Did you read the post at all?

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Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by Kingpin1000: 5:45am On Jan 18, 2022
Bro, sometimes you think before you act.
My GF ones told me " always keep calm in the face adversary and know where your strength ends".
You acted like a woman. Why will you tell your bosses wife you will deal with her when you know you cannot deal with her.
If you still have pictures of injuries you incurred during the fracas, you can seek help and redress from a good NGO.
If you had applied wisdom, you would still be on your Job today.

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Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by Nobody: 6:15am On Jan 18, 2022
heniford2:
you would not have lost your job if you had good manners ur boss asked you a simple question even if your not the one that did the transaction your approach matters your the main manager as you said early on what stop you from been matured knowing this is where you feed, your boss may have lost his temper but you gave room to it undecided know your broke you have a kid to feed what next know who will Employ you Reading this your story undecided

Please delete this mentality, your boss was wrong hitting you but you gave them the room to it been smart you should have quietly explained yourself and also avoid issues because her sister did a transaction you as the manager should have handle it as a manager which you where employed to do undecided

you allowed emotion to be cloud your reasoning, forget the Rich and the poor mentality we have in Africa if was that guy too i will hit you for raising your voice against my wife like that you need to work on yourself and ur emotion okey

To make example of her you should have taking her to court claiming damage recap,your boss is stupid and crazy people like her are abusers you should have took the stuff to court or get a lawyer is never late make arrangement it will take few months but you will benefit from it when the pay you off since you have the evidence still on you it will show to others never to try this with others wish ur in Berlin would have offered you a job in my Restaurant. More grace stay safe.
So you wanted him to accept that the failed transaction was done by him so that he would be asked to pay for the failed debit alert?

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Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by backnbeta(f): 6:41am On Jan 18, 2022
It's funny how some people are blaming the OP, but I ask myself if beating up a 'bad' employee is right in any way! Even if he authorized the transaction, what happened to calling the police and giving him the grace to defend himself? @OP, your boss cheated you by assaulting you and if you take the case to human right activists, you'll be able to deal with your boss and her macho husband for free
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by confirmedniggae: 7:35am On Jan 18, 2022
Kingpin1000:
Bro, sometimes you think before you act.
My GF ones told me " always keep calm in the face adversary and know where your strength ends".
You acted like a woman. Why will you tell your bosses wife you will deal with her when you know you cannot deal with her.
If you still have pictures of injuries you incurred during the fracas, you can seek help and redress from a good NGO.
If you had applied wisdom, you would still be on your Job today.
Brother ,I was calm God bears me witness .I politely told her I needed to remove my sim.

I was not rude .The CCTV footage is still there to show how brutal they were on me .

Only God will help me
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by confirmedniggae: 7:38am On Jan 18, 2022
backnbeta:
It's funny how some people are blaming the OP, but I ask myself if beating up a 'bad' employee is right in any way! Even if he authorized the transaction, what happened to calling the police and giving him the grace to defend himself? @OP, your boss cheated you by assaulting you and if you take the case to human right activists, you'll be able to deal with your boss and her macho husband for free

All I need for now is job even if I still want to press on with the case .The police men told me to withdraw the case and hand over the exhibits but I said NO .

I need work for now and I am still looking at revisiting the case in court but for now,I have bills to pay.
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by confirmedniggae: 7:39am On Jan 18, 2022
heniford2:
you would not have lost your job if you had good manners ur boss asked you a simple question even if your not the one that did the transaction your approach matters your the main manager as you said early on what stop you from been matured knowing this is where you feed, your boss may have lost his temper but you gave room to it undecided know your broke you have a kid to feed what next know who will Employ you Reading this your story undecided

Please delete this mentality, your boss was wrong hitting you but you gave them the room to it been smart you should have quietly explained yourself and also avoid issues because her sister did a transaction you as the manager should have handle it as a manager which you where employed to do undecided

you allowed emotion to be cloud your reasoning, forget the Rich and the poor mentality we have in Africa if was that guy too i will hit you for raising your voice against my wife like that you need to work on yourself and ur emotion okey

To make example of her you should have taking her to court claiming damage recap,your boss is stupid and crazy people like her are abusers you should have took the stuff to court or get a lawyer is never late make arrangement it will take few months but you will benefit from it when the pay you off since you have the evidence still on you it will show to others never to try this with others wish ur in Berlin would have offered you a job in my Restaurant. More grace stay safe.

Where did I display bad manner in my post bro ?

Nairalanders I need job .
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by FreeIgboho: 1:19pm On Jan 18, 2022
confirmedniggae:


Where did I display bad manner in my post bro ?

Nairalanders I need job .

Confirmed Nigger, actually you need money -
and this as good a forum as any to ask for it. But If all you need is a job, I have things you can be doing just to keep busy and not get depressed - as long as pay is not involved
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by confirmedniggae: 3:23pm On Jan 18, 2022
FreeIgboho:


Confirmed Nigger, actually you need money -
and this as good a forum as any to ask for it. But If all you need is a job, I have things you can be doing just to keep busy and not get depressed - as long as pay is not involved

Yes I need something to be doing .

Do you want to help sir ?
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by FreeIgboho: 8:56am On Jan 22, 2022
confirmedniggae:


Yes I need something to be doing .

Do you want to help sir ?

I wouldn’t mind helping out. Easy job too. I need a gateman.
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by confirmedniggae: 10:07pm On Jan 22, 2022
FreeIgboho:


I wouldn’t mind helping out. Easy job too. I need a gateman.

At where sir?

My no is 0

Thats my WhatsApp .

You can drop your no sir
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by FreeIgboho: 4:21pm On Jan 23, 2022
confirmedniggae:


At where sir?

My no is 0810/6957/838

Thats my WhatsApp .

You can drop your no sir

Thanks. Let me just reiterate, no pay o. I’m just helping you stave off depression
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by tunize(m): 2:58pm On Jan 25, 2022
FreeIgboho:


Thanks. Let me just reiterate, no pay o. I’m just helping you stave off depression
What kind of help is this? Can you work without pay oga food when you nor go eat nor serve anoda person
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by TheSameGuy(m): 4:33pm On Jan 25, 2022
angry
FreeIgboho:


Thanks. Let me just reiterate, no pay o. I’m just helping you stave off depression

Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by TheSameGuy(m): 4:33pm On Jan 25, 2022
Lalasticlala mynd44

Please help a brother in need by moving it to fp
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by maybet081: 3:27am On Jan 26, 2022
Revolution2022:
So you wanted him to accept that the failed transaction was done by him so that he would be asked to pay for the failed debit alert?
being the G M he is involved in that transaction ,so totally exonerating himself do not show loyalty to the organization.
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by FreeIgboho: 6:44am On Jan 26, 2022
tunize:

What kind of help is this? Can you work without pay oga food when you nor go eat nor serve anoda person

Didn’t you read (b4 he now amended it), said he needed a job, said nothing about money
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by tunize(m): 9:10am On Jan 26, 2022
FreeIgboho:


Didn’t you read (b4 he now amended it), said he needed a job, said nothing about money
He needed a job desperately that can help him pay his bills any kind of job he didn't mention working for free....now you can your work for free when you have bills to pay?
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by Nobody: 9:15am On Jan 26, 2022
maybet081:
being the G M he is involved in that transaction ,so totally exonerating himself do not show loyalty to the organization.
Was he the one that carryout the transaction?
Re: I Need Help/job .My boss And her husband humiliated me by FreeIgboho: 4:56pm On Jan 26, 2022
tunize:

He needed a job desperately that can help him pay his bills any kind of job he didn't mention working for free....now you can your work for free when you have bills to pay?

To avoid depression from being idle I guess. Point is, he asked for a JOB. Said nothing about money or getting paid

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