HERITAGEFASHION:
Your story made me remember something that happened 4years ago.
There's this lady that's so down to Earth. She doesn't believe in God and religion. She was trying to be "friends with me" because she sees me as a very beautiful soul.

One-day,a guy who has make advances on her in the past went and was telling fellow men in a beer parlour that i have been screwing her siince and that's why she's always all over me all the time. All the Guys believed him.

The only savior i had was when the girl heard the rumors before me and knowing fully well it was all lies, she confronted the people involved and simply told them that " She Wished That I Liked Her That Much To The Extent Of Having Sex With Her".

The story long shaaa

Please what's her location, I want an irreligious woman in my life.

I just hope you didn't give the bitch the money. We are in the Era of weak men, they rather be a knight for the female gender. It's a total shame.

Thanks OP for this revelation and eyeopening issue that has dragged men to mud in our society and such issues shouldnt be taken lightly cos in western nations, it has sent many men to prisons. I almost slapped a lady who accused me of such sometime ago.

Nonexisting:
This is why I dissociate myself from anything involving the evil gender except sex. Even the sex sef, I always try as much as I can to make it transactional. Everybody around me knows I don't do favors to women and don't expect any from them. The moment you do favors for them, you unintentionally create room for their evil manipulations. Vaginarians in my neighborhood know better not to ask for ordinary lift from me. I don't stop to talk or discuss anything with them and hardly accept greetings from them. He who is endangered should be wise enough not to put himself in tight situations. If you had been minding your business in that your compound, the daughter of Jezebel couldn't have had the guts to say shit about you.

Hahahahaha...
They will tag one a Misogynist for avoiding women and being mean towards them. But it's the way to go as a man if you want to avoid serious trouble from that gender. They themselves know how problematic their gender is. They hate/jealous each other. Their manipulation is top-notch; they call it wisdom. But in all these, I see that they are just mischievous by nature and do not naturally possess the same strenght-sense as men. They are not the same as men and cannot operate as men. Their sense na pikin sense.

out number us Unfortunately. Either way Aluta continua comrade [/quote]
you fooooools......[/b]

CHoccolaTE:
Another thread for males to whine and nag as usual.

I can also create a thread about how I have been scammed by males or disrespected by males for no reason other than because I am female and conclude that men are scammers and rude/mannerless people.
I can decide that all men are thieves and armed robbers and kidnappers and just because 90% of these crimes are committed by males.

Na men dey cause problem for this world pass women but they are the ones endlessly complaining of women.

Na guilty conscience dey worry you. You are free to narrate your story too if you want to make it a troll competition. Any woman that feels she is ill-treated by a man is free to come out and tell her story. This man comes out to post an issue that is hurting his mind and you are there feeling bitter senselessly because your fellow woman is the culprit, my dear sister, that is witchcraft if you dont know. (Trying to manipulate us to take the issue with a pinch of salt).

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

@OP, your story reminds me of another story I know of. A certain widow frequently visited a divorced male relative of mine. When she comes, she packs food items from his house. Her children attended schools where school fees were like 150k per term. She wasn't working. It was suspicious, but we didn't talk. Then one day, she came to complain to a relative that she can't sell her body for money. She had asked him for school fees for one of her kids and apparently, he asked for sex in return.

I didn't buy her story one bit. My response was, Madam, why are you always coming here? Did he force you to come? Is he responsible for your children now? You know he is in a relationship, so why do you come when his girlfriend is not around? If he asked for sex, you can say no, afterall, he didn't force you. And why leave your kids in schools you can't afford, only to turn around to blame others for your inability to pay school fees?

Seriously, I was pissed. Some men dey suffer, sha

Women and their manipulative nature

Thebig4:
Shameless idiot

Your mother.

Your father , she goat.

QueenAgbo:


Your mother.

You're a man, which means you're meant to defend yourself.

There's nothing like men coming together because that'll just be another gathering of weaklings like most feminists are.


That said. Stand up, get up, fight for your right.


You can't sit around waiting for other men to come to your aid.


In fact, if a woman provokes you sexually report her to police.

Thebig4:
Your father , she goat.

He goat

MNDY:


The way I handle them is that: They are wired to think like a child. Their brain does not possess the same strength as a man's own.

They will argue all they want about this but it is the natural truth. God did not create a man and a woman with the same sense-strenght.

Women behave like children: Mischievous, petty, loquacious, bitter, jealous and need to be disciplined from time to time.

You will have a very big problem if you go through life thinking women will operate like men and approach issues like men.

I agree with u a hundred percent.... unfortunately, kids hv their opinion shut down cos they are kids but women are being promoted and accepted , its like a movement... its quite unfortunate.... u hv said it all ...they are no different from kids....I usually say women hv their brains stop developing in their teen yrs , unlike men

bummyla:
So sad Bros! One of the problems I am having in my marriage is because I am a very tall and huge guy, marrying an average tall, very slim lady, who has a baby face. Everybody believes everything she says about, because of the huge gap in strength! But thank God she is not a good liar, the few times, I had to defend myself, people were screaming, and once she starts crying! Case close, she wins again.


Men are endangered species!

And you’re still condoning that marriage??
Oya clap for yaself.

Evolutionlove:


Na those "Useless Oloriburuku Men" full shiiiithole these days. That's why I celebrated that bastard killed at hotel by that young girl Chioma. Most men hate, kill, and oppress their fellow men so much these days and then turn to the Vaginas to worship and spend on them. I have always said It, A lot of men are useless and oloriburuku people. Internally I hardly respect men these days because I have seen them finish. If I'm using sir for you, Just know I'm faking It and whining you fooooools......

I swear my brother.. the bastard is a senior manager in an oil drilling company o. He put all his prostitutes into jobs that pays them over 1 million naira A month.. bought flats for some pays alot of them monthly salary ... yet I have never ever seen him help a man.. do you know how many young men from his same Delta state have come to drop their cv? He will always tell them there isn't any vacancy now.

But I know whóres this bastard has changed their life. There is one whóre who a baby girl for this bastard..he bought her a house in London oh after employing her for years and paying her millions

See men are our own worst enemy in Nigeria. But abroad it's the reverse . Men help their fellow men there but in Nigeria ..men only help women. Bastards

syntekelite:


Thank you for saying it all.. hence the wisdom of the strength of woman... Strong men dont even know she is in charge.. thats the point..do you know how many wars have been won cos the single woman looked her man in the eyes and said go and be victorious.. its something that cant be grasped,it doesnt make the man weak instead it makes him stronger.. the issue we having today with most relationships is the lack of wisdom of the woman hence they want to forcefully control the man and the lack of wisdom of the man who feels the woman is beneath him.. there must be a balance after all it takes two to tango..
My point is those men you mentioned yes dem be confirm weree.. but at home they might be the most gentle man not cos they are weak but cos their better half holds the keys to the other part of them they cant control..

That's how smart women should operate...but they wanna use force to get what they want ...being submissive will make any man do ur biddings, but when u try to disrespect him to get what u want by force, then he will also apply force ....I agree with u

O boy, if you’re an individual on Nairaland and you come everyday on this platform without gain more insight/knowledge on issues that matter in life, then you are the most embarrassing dunce ever liveth.
Even, a fool at 40 is better than you.

MNDY:


The way I handle them is that: They are wired to think like a child. Their brain does not possess the same strength as a man's own.

They will argue all they want about this but it is the natural truth. God did not create a man and a woman with the same sense-strenght.

Women behave like children: Mischievous, petty, loquacious, bitter, jealous and need to be disciplined from time to time.

You will have a very big problem if you go through life thinking women will operate like men and approach issues like men.

True. That's what I stated in my thread. The mistake most men make is thinking woman is on the same level as them.
https://www.nairaland.com/6940959/women-essentially-children-waec

QueenAgbo:


That is how I have many of them messaging me here on nairaland for sex.

eyah! maybe the only thing they felt u can offer is sex amidst any value in life. they see nothing tangible in you, just to knack and move

post you pix, lets see if you fine reach myfantasies

Semaj77:



So what is not adding up

Ok, somebody you want to help from the bottom of your heart suddenly walk up to you accusing you indirectly of trying to sleep with her before you will her, then you went around trying to know why everyone is not greeting you. I mean check the story. Except you mean to tell me the woman is a lunatic. God knows I will scream to high heavens and you will tell me where that is coming from.
Oh, I will now go and be meeting my neighbors to know why or what's happening, when the said woman has initially approached me with her grievances.
If truly, I want to her unconditionally and she walk up to my house, standing outside and shouting her lines and even when I came out she then ask me if I am among such men? I will quickly connect the dots. In fact, by now she will be the one running from me.
If the woman has made such accusations she must have heard or seen something, you just never can tell. If she is giving the benefit of telling her side of the story you will be so surprise at what you will find.
Personally, I believe the may be right in all standard but I am just one person who doesn't see a coin from one side, there is even a third side and not until the other sides are heard, the story remain incomplete. Can I focus on my job now?

Semaj77:



So what is not adding up

Ok, somebody you want to help from the bottom of your heart suddenly walk up to you accusing you indirectly of trying to sleep with her before you will help her, then you went around trying to know why everyone is not greeting you. I mean check the story. Except you mean to tell me the woman is a lunatic. God knows I will scream to high heavens and she will tell me where that is coming from.
Oh, I will now go and be meeting my neighbors to know why or what's happening, when the said woman has initially approached me with her grievances.
If truly, I want to help her unconditionally and she walk up to my house, standing outside and shouting her lines and even when I came out she then ask me if I am among such men? I will quickly connect the dots. In fact, by now she will be the one running from me.
If the woman has made such accusations she must have heard or seen something, you just never can tell. If she is giving the benefit of telling her side of the story you will be so surprise at what you will find.
Personally, I believe the op may be right in all standard but I am just one person who doesn't see a coin from one side, there is even a third side and not until the other sides are heard, the story remain incomplete. Can I focus on my job now?

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QueenAgbo:


That is how I have many of them messaging me here on nairaland for sex.

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Don't conclude it's for sex. Some may have a buyer for your kidneys since they are of now use to you .

Not every message fir a man is asking you out ,or some may have a job for you as a sales girl, or as an office cleaner

Smh

nenyewrites:


I laughed when he was happy he bought bed for 95000 naira. He is definitely living among low lives. That's why they reason in such low way. I'm sure they're lots of illiterates amongst them.

Oradell you just put the icing on the cake . Typical slum dwellers drama of simps and Whóres

Truthup:


Your experience is so unfortunate. The society is skewed against men on such issues. I have helped several young women and men without asked for anything. God wants us to show agape love to mankind. Two needy ladies I have only seen physically once that I gave N50,000 each in December 2021 for their business, I requested that the should block me after and if they do not, I will block them so that subsequent communications does not lead to sentimental attachment or them trying to show me gratitude by becoming too friendly. I have blocked both beautiful ladies, aged 25 & 28 years since end of December 2021 and will not re-contact them. One has assisted up to three young ladies in such manner with some given over N100,000, without sex involved. If you REALIZE it is by God's grace that you have whatever you have on earth, feel free to give out without demanding touching body or sex or online sexual gratification. This is the attitude men should adopt to avoid he widespread belief that all men want sex from women. Our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

How many Men have you helped ?

walkingshadow911:


eyah! maybe the only thing they felt u can offer is sex amidst any value in life. they see nothing tangible in you, just to knack and move

post you pix, lets see if you fine reach myfantasies
me i just want to be high wif myfantasies

Ashawo

KingOfTheDamned:
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Don't conclude it's for sex. Some may have a buyer for your kidneys since they are of now use to you .

Not every message fir a man is asking you out ,or some may have a job for you as a sales girl, or as an office cleaner

Smh

Syh ashawo

QueenAgbo:


Shameless man.I can't even allow to see my pant.You are below my standard.

You sound like an illiterate. That man said he wants nothing to do with you that you disgust him yet you are disturbing him. Will you get out from here !!

Thebig4:
Go get a life girl , i could have bring you into my circle so u see girls wen i mean girls i mean girls with class , brain and money but no u go fall my hand abeg shift.

Comrade that road side dog can't fathom these cereal comments you are making.

Her grammar scope is very limited and her thinking never evolved beyond using her body to earn a living so move along .

Remember if you lay down with dogs you will come up with fleas

Nonexisting:
This is why I dissociate myself from anything involving the evil gender except sex. Even the sex sef, I always try as much as I can to make it transactional. Everybody around me knows I don't do favors to women and don't expect any from them. The moment you do favors for them, you unintentionally create room for their evil manipulations. Vaginarians in my neighborhood know better not to ask for ordinary lift from me. I don't stop to talk or discuss anything with them and hardly accept greetings from them. He who is endangered should be wise enough not to put himself in tight situations. If you had been minding your business in that your compound, the daughter of Jezebel couldn't have had the guts to say shit about you.

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I agree with u second paragraph if he has mind his biz non of this would av happen ..a woman approach u for help u told her next two week ,then anoda day u told her if u av u will give her..why not tell her u dnt av period n fudge ahead with ur life..no u wanna play MR nice guy when u dnt even have it at d moment to give her..I Dey suspect u d woman Dey enter ur eye

Ishilove:
Nairaland and woman bashing. Even the jobless ones living in 2 by 4 cubicles in Makoko are making mouth about how they are dealing with 'vaginarians' and earning their respect.

Keep shut madam if you have nothing to say

jditimiya:
True talk, i have a story about this rape thing, if not for God and our blessed virgin Mary i may have be having a small room in jail oversea because of my roommate girlfriend. Thank God after much investigation the cops said i was innocent, it all started with hate. Women not all men like to rape and not all men do things for you because of sex.

Comrade looking forward to you sharing this tale with us

FanOfMyself:
I will find time to narrate what transpired between me and a girl whom I saved her life and who happens to be a flatmate. I am convinced that an average girl (maybe it's only Nigerian girls) feels entitled. Everything I will write will be nothing but the truth. It's going to be a long read tho.

Comrade pls share this tale for other comrades to learn from.