So there's this girl I've been friends with for years now. We're all cool and both course mates but are both done now. Now here's the thing. She has a boyfriend (fiancé) in which she wants to get married to plus she introduced me to him. We all became good and he was good with it too. Along the line we became so close that people actually thought we were dating which I only laugh off. No doubts she's fine and a spec but since she has a boyfriend I kept my distance. She cooks for me and we both visit each other and sometimes go outing which we both pay for each other. So sometime last year, my phone got spoilt and had to borrow 20k from her ( I guess that was my mistake). I said I'd pay at the end of the said month. But couldn't pay due to delay from being paid at work. I wasn't paid for two months and in those months I told her to be patient and all. I even sent her voicenotes and screenshot of what my boss said. Last year ending I had a girlfriend and dropped attention towards her to focus on my new girl. Then my friend started saying that "I met her before I met my new girl" and I was like I can't put you above my girl just as you can't put me above your guy too. Then she became hostile and was demanding for her money and all when she saw I uploaded the picture of my girl. She began abusing and cursing which I was shocked and also laughed off. This same girl I helped in school and did her work and even helped during exams without collecting a dime as friends should do. Same girl got birthday gifts in cash (400k) from different well wishers mostly guys. Now She called my other male friends telling them I'm owing her and don't want to pay. Luckily for me my boss paid me and I was able to pay and off and told her we're done as friends which I appreciated her lending me the cash. Which I reported her to her fiancé. He told me she called him already saying I want to destroy their relationship that I shouldn't listen to whatever I want to say which he confimed I'm saying the truth. After some months she's back with her apologizing for all what she said and wants us to be friends again.she didn't know I know what she told her fiancé. I've been ignoring her calls and chats for weeks now. She said she'll be coming to visit this Saturday.

I'd like your opinion on this guys. Thanks.

Damnnn niggar

Girl way you for don bang since

Na im you dey follow do bestie rubbish shit

Me personally I don't keep female friends.....not to talk of say we go come dey do bestie

What are we going to be friends for....if we are not banging then goodbye

You sound like a SIMP!

OP, E sure me die say you're already emotionally attached to this your said female friend. that's exactly how simps behave

That girl wants to manipulate and keep you as a second or third option, should in case anything goes wrong with her current relationship.

You had the chance to bang her before, but you were there behaving like a weakling.
Oga, You better Bang that girl and stop simp-ing around!

Holly Gram my G



ABI u COME new 4 dis CUNTREE..



U SUPPOSE don knw as BANIS Dem de behave..




U SELF NEVER see BETTER RUBBERZ pay PESIN wey u owe but u don go look 4 girlfriend Sharp Sharp...



which RUBBERZ or MONEY u one take SPEND on top d New BANI



My G



next MONTH na VALENTINE'S DAY oooo



better use ur O.T and FOCUS on HUSTLE..



I LITE UP my WEED in peace..



WTF MAN

The truth is she likes you hence she exhibiting those behaviors, she doesn't know how to control it.

Forgive her but set boundaries if not you both will definitely have s.. Onday

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Girl way for don bang since

Na im you dey follow do bestie rubbish shit

Sometimes, try and and be commenting maturely.. Stop taking everything as a joke

PrinceOfLagos

Mr, why not allow the girl to be .. She has a bf and you have your gf..

Stop complicating things for yourself

PrinceOfLagos

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Girl way for don bang since

Na im you dey follow do bestie rubbish shit

How old are you ? You should grow up, have a plan for your life and get serious with it

helinues
KingOfTheDamned comment are the only mature comment I've seen here the rest are little kids trying to be hard boys online...

It's easy pay her the money and face your relationship..she can remain your friend but don't let it get to an extent where you are gonna be intimate with yaselves..

Let her be and stop complaining online about your personal issues..

DarkandHandsome:
So there's this girl I've been friends with for years now. We're all cool and both course mates but are both done now. Now here's the thing. She has a boyfriend (fiancé) in which she wants to get married to plus she introduced me to him. We all became good and he was good with it too. Along the line we became so close that people actually thought we were dating which I only laugh off. No doubts she's fine and a spec but since she has a boyfriend I kept my distance. She cooks for me and we both visit each other and sometimes go outing which we both pay for each other. So sometime last year, my phone got spoilt and had to borrow 20k from her ( I guess that was my mistake). I said I'd pay at the end of the said month. But couldn't pay due to delay from being paid at work. I wasn't paid for two months and in those months I told her to be patient and all. I even sent her voicenotes and screenshot of what my boss said. Last year ending I had a girlfriend and dropped attention towards her to focus on my new girl. Then my friend started saying that "I met her before I met my new girl" and I was like I can't put you above my girl just as you can't put me above your guy too. Then she became hostile and was demanding for her money and all when she saw I uploaded the picture of my girl. She began abusing and cursing which I was shocked and also laughed off. This same girl I helped in school and did her work and even helped during exams without collecting a dime as friends should do. Same girl got birthday gifts in cash (400k) from different well wishers mostly guys. Now She called my other male friends telling them I'm owing her and don't want to pay. Luckily for me my boss paid me and I was able to pay and off and told her we're done as friends which I appreciated her lending me the cash. Which I reported her to her fiancé. He told me she called him already saying I want to destroy their relationship that I shouldn't listen to whatever I want to say which he confimed I'm saying the truth. After some months she's back with her apologizing for all what she said and wants us to be friends again.she didn't know I know what she told her fiancé. I've been ignoring her calls and chats for weeks now. She said she'll be coming to visit this Saturday.

I'd like your opinion on this guys. Thanks.

All i will say iis that this is 2022. So, know what you are doing. Thank you

All powers belongs to you comrade at this stage...

Notice! Notice!! Notice!!!
Red pillers are all over this thread don't be emotional just call the guy a simp and move on.

Fuvk her when she comes. Thanks

I'd prefer if u cut ties with her.
Tell her you won't be around on that day.
Be ghosting her little by little, she'll get the message and leave

DarkandHandsome:
So there's this girl I've been friends with for years now. We're all cool and both course mates but are both done now. Now here's the thing. She has a boyfriend (fiancé) in which she wants to get married to plus she introduced me to him. We all became good and he was good with it too. Along the line we became so close that people actually thought we were dating which I only laugh off. No doubts she's fine and a spec but since she has a boyfriend I kept my distance. She cooks for me and we both visit each other and sometimes go outing which we both pay for each other. So sometime last year, my phone got spoilt and had to borrow 20k from her ( I guess that was my mistake). I said I'd pay at the end of the said month. But couldn't pay due to delay from being paid at work. I wasn't paid for two months and in those months I told her to be patient and all. I even sent her voicenotes and screenshot of what my boss said. Last year ending I had a girlfriend and dropped attention towards her to focus on my new girl. Then my friend started saying that "I met her before I met my new girl" and I was like I can't put you above my girl just as you can't put me above your guy too. Then she became hostile and was demanding for her money and all when she saw I uploaded the picture of my girl. She began abusing and cursing which I was shocked and also laughed off. This same girl I helped in school and did her work and even helped during exams without collecting a dime as friends should do. Same girl got birthday gifts in cash (400k) from different well wishers mostly guys. Now She called my other male friends telling them I'm owing her and don't want to pay. Luckily for me my boss paid me and I was able to pay and off and told her we're done as friends which I appreciated her lending me the cash. Which I reported her to her fiancé. He told me she called him already saying I want to destroy their relationship that I shouldn't listen to whatever I want to say which he confimed I'm saying the truth. After some months she's back with her apologizing for all what she said and wants us to be friends again.she didn't know I know what she told her fiancé. I've been ignoring her calls and chats for weeks now. She said she'll be coming to visit this Saturday.

I'd like your opinion on this guys. Thanks.

Accept Her Back Now, but at the detriment of your girlfriend and relationship.

Don't come ₦land in few months time, that she made you leave your girlfriend and she now left you now and you are alone and rotten in jail

Don't make enemy out from the friendship. Accept her back. I learnt a lesson yesterday, when i went to LASPOTECH to do my clearance and to take my Result. I met a lousy lady there, very rude and was acting as if she was a Billionaire's daughter. We had a bitter exchange of words and insulted ourselves. It almost led to exchange of blows. People had to hold us to prevent us from fighting. Do u know the amazing part? It was this same lady i had a fight with that helped me talk to the school management for them to answer me on time. So, don't make permanent enemy in any quarrel or fight.

You are quite matured.

I think it's a good thing you paid her back and also didn't get sexually involved with her.

Women are very emotional, she lost control of her emotions and acted wrong, but the truth is that, not just women but everyone can quickly forget all the good you have done in the past for them the moment you hurt them.

She felt hurt and jealous that you prioritized your girl over her, she enjoyed the attention she got from you.

Maybe you should give her another chance, maybe you shouldn't, that is entirely up to you.

One of the worst thing that can ever happen to any man is to be a simp. Pls, snap out of simphood.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

Op your Just a simple man

Try and fūck her.

Na only man wey no fit do woman dey do bestie with opposite gender.

Op the way some of una take Mumu eeh..

If you no be friends with girls you go die.. all this indomie generation kids sef.. you even report her to the Boyfriend.. lol..

Make Devil no allow me born Son like you.. this one is seeking for attention and validation like a little school girl..

Bestie this and that.. between opposite Sex.. Kai.. useless generation of imps..
Spits..

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Girl way you for don bang since

Na im you dey follow do bestie rubbish shit

Me personally I don't keep female friends.....not to talk of say we go come dey do bestie

What are we going to be friends for....if we are not banging then goodbye

Serious banging oo
Come here Dey speak English
Oya OP wetin you wan make we do?

.

Those saying that you should bang her, don't listen them. You should have done that before now. If you try and do it now she will manipulate you and you will have problem with your current girlfriend. You can accept her back as friend but set your boundary.

Elianawalker:
You are quite matured.

I think it's a good thing you paid her back and also didn't get sexually involved with her.

Women are very emotional, she lost control of her emotions and acted wrong, but the truth is that, not just women but everyone can quickly forget all the good you have done in the past for them the moment you hurt them.

She felt hurt and jealous that you prioritized your girl over her, she enjoyed the attention she got from you.

Maybe you should give her another chance, maybe you shouldn't, that is entirely up to you.

She wants to eat her cake and have it. Dating two men at same time, nonsense emotions

InTheCloudySky:
This is why you don't keep in touch with exes but Nigerians have turned everything upside down. It's the fiance I feel sorry for, because it's obvious you two aren't ready to let go of each other and will sleep with each other in no time.

She's not his ex, rubbish bestie actually

Even if you forgive her maintain a long distance, it will be good for your health.

My brother man op, please for the sake of your sanity, only accept her friendship back based on only one condition--"DON'T GIVE HER THE SAME ATTENTION YOU USED TO HOVE HER BEFORE NOW"

E go even better say make you kukuma dey ignore her calls self