I was taken aback when I was woke up to a call at 1:00am coming from my bestie. I was even more shocked to find out he was wide awake and I probed him as to why. He opened up to me in confidence that he has been sleeping with a younger second cousin to him. I scolded him and did a little cyber research just to find out it's okay in some countries which I told him. However, he is currently experiencing serious insomnia co's he can't get it out of his head. Nairalanders what's the Nigerian opinion on this in accordance with our traditions??

Tell us the truth
You f*ck her right ?

Yes

Yes.....Why do most of u lie on imaginary friends like this??

Take responsibility for once

It`s still incest since they are family member.

Must you sleep with a family member?

It's subjective..

You or your friend?

No need for advise because the did has already been done.

Holly Gram



I SWEAR DOWN



CONJI na real NIGGA..



waiting STOP u from going to ASHAWOO house..



ASHAWOO na d BEST tin my G...


No de 4all HANDS...



FIND 1 or 4 ASHAWOO house wey u go de JAZZ in..


U go SEE small small FINE BANIS der...



u FIT de LUCKY to JAM d ONE wey just START ASHAWOO BUSINESS NEWLY...


Does ONCE de sweet to NACK too..


LITE UP my WEED in peace..



WTF MAN

Torosk1:
Tell us the truth
You f*ck her right ?

This is why are I don't like nairalanders o.....
I scolded the dude who's my padi.. My personal person...
Una no understand English again??

A lot of right and wrong is based on where we live and not that it is actually right or wrong in the real sense.

Think of this, if you are sleeping with a girl that's less than 18 years old in Nigeria, people will condemn you and call you a pedophile.

But there are many (I mean many) countries where the age of consent is much more lower than 18 (with some even as low as 14 years).

Now is it right or wrong to sleep with a person lower than 18 years? Your answer will be correct either way depending on where you are from and where you currently are staying.

There's no natural law that tells you the answer to this question. There's no natural law that says you can not sleep with a person less than 18.

In fact, before the British came to Nigeria, marriage was never by age but by 'maturity'.

Once a person looks 'matured' enough, they will be married off.

Hence the issue of sex with under age is not a law by nature but social construct.

The same social construct is what restrict incest. Around the 15th century or there about, the great Britain royals marry within the family to ensure pure bloods ascend the throne.

This includes marrying their cousins whether first, second or third.

This easily led to them getting some deformed children (marrying within families is bad for the physiology in the long run) but aside that there was no known consequences or fiery judgment for this "perceived" wrong.

In China people marry their cousin and I think Brazil does the same thing. This is their belief and the way they have chosen to live their lives.

They chose that way. And so by their social construction it is right.

Your friend has done nothing right or wrong. He simply chose a way to live.

What will now make it right or wrong is his perception and the way of life of the people he stays with.

Does he feel it is wrong? Does the people he stays with feel it is wrong?

If yes, then he is wrong. Again not because what he did is wrong in any way but because he feels it is wrong and that feeling will weigh him down. As it is already doing now.

But if he feels nothing about it and doesn't feel guilty, then he has nothing to worry about because what he did is not wrong.

I hope this made some sense to you

If you are a northerner, then it’s no problem

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram



I SWEAR DOWN



CONJI na real NIGGA..



waiting STOP u from going to ASHAWOO house..



ASHAWOO na d BEST tin my G...


No de 4all HANDS...



FIND 1 or 4 ASHAWOO house wey u go de JAZZ in..


U go SEE small small FINE BANIS der...



u FIT de LUCKY to JAM d ONE wey just START ASHAWOO BUSINESS NEWLY...


Does ONCE de sweet to NACK too..


LITE UP my WEED in peace..



WTF MAN

na pus*y go kill u.

See your mouth like ashawo na good thing.

The Pope must hear this

Nairalanders are cursed.

temmyejo:
I was taken aback when I was woke up to a call at 1:00am coming from my bestie. I was even more shocked to find out he was wide awake and I probed him as to why. He opened up to me in confidence that he has been sleeping with a younger second cousin to him. I scolded him and did a little cyber research just to find out it's okay in some countries which I told him. However, he is currently experiencing serious insomnia co's he can't get it out of his head. Nairalanders what's the Nigerian opinion on this in accordance with our traditions??

Hmm, u nor fit sleep? Just continue like that cause ancestral visit is imminent and na from sleep e day start, nor sleep o, I repeat nor try am sleep cos you just might not wake up.

Premiumwriter:
A lot of right and wrong is based on where we live and not that it is actually right or wrong in the real sense.

Think of this, if you are sleeping with a girl that's less than 18 years old in Nigeria, people will condemn you and call you a pedophile.

But there are many (I mean many) countries where the age of consent is much more lower than 18 (with some even as low as 14 years).

Now is it right or wrong to sleep with a person lower than 18 years? Your answer will be correct either way depending on where you are from and where you currently are staying.

There's no natural law that tells you the answer to this question. There's no natural law that says you can not sleep with a person less than 18.

In fact, before the British came to Nigeria, marriage was never by age but by 'maturity'.

Once a person looks 'matured' enough, they will be married off.

Hence the issue of sex with under age is not a law by nature but social construct.

The same social construct is what restrict incest. Around the 15th century or there about, the great Britain royals marry within the family to ensure pure bloods ascend the throne.

This includes marrying their cousins whether first, second or third.

This easily led to them getting some deformed children (marrying within families is bad for the physiology in the long run) but aside that there was no known consequences or fiery judgment for this "perceived" wrong.

In China people marry their cousin and I think Brazil does the same thing. This is their belief and the way they have chosen to live their lives.

They chose that way. And so by their social construction it is right.

Your friend has done nothing right or wrong. He simply chose a way to live.

What will now make it right or wrong is his perception and the way of life of the people he stays with.

Does he feel it is wrong? Does the people he stays with feel it is wrong?

If yes, then he is wrong. Again not because what he did is wrong in any way but because he feels it is wrong and that feeling will weigh him down. As it is already doing now.

But if he feels nothing about it and doesn't feel guilty, then he has nothing to worry about because what he did is not wrong.

I hope this made some sense to you

Arabs do it also.

Ayobiggie59:
Yes.....Why do most of u lie on imaginary friends like this??

Take responsibility for once

Premiumwriter:
A lot of right and wrong is based on where we live and not that it is actually right or wrong in the real sense.

Think of this, if you are sleeping with a girl that's less than 18 years old in Nigeria, people will condemn you and call you a pedophile.

But there are many (I mean many) countries where the age of consent is much more lower than 18 (with some even as low as 14 years).

Now is it right or wrong to sleep with a person lower than 18 years? Your answer will be correct either way depending on where you are from and where you currently are staying.

There's no natural law that tells you the answer to this question. There's no natural law that says you can not sleep with a person less than 18.

In fact, before the British came to Nigeria, marriage was never by age but by 'maturity'.

Once a person looks 'matured' enough, they will be married off.

Hence the issue of sex with under age is not a law by nature but social construct.

The same social construct is what restrict incest. Around the 15th century or there about, the great Britain royals marry within the family to ensure pure bloods ascend the throne.

This includes marrying their cousins whether first, second or third.

This easily led to them getting some deformed children (marrying within families is bad for the physiology in the long run) but aside that there was no known consequences or fiery judgment for this "perceived" wrong.

In China people marry their cousin and I think Brazil does the same thing. This is their belief and the way they have chosen to live their lives.

They chose that way. And so by their social construction it is right.

Your friend has done nothing right or wrong. He simply chose a way to live.

What will now make it right or wrong is his perception and the way of life of the people he stays with.

Does he feel it is wrong? Does the people he stays with feel it is wrong?

If yes, then he is wrong. Again not because what he did is wrong in any way but because he feels it is wrong and that feeling will weigh him down. As it is already doing now.

But if he feels nothing about it and doesn't feel guilty, then he has nothing to worry about because what he did is not wrong.

I hope this made some sense to you

If it doesn't make sense to the OP, it makes sense to me.

Me that is struggling to control my urge to bang my pretty cousins, so now I need control for second cousins too? Bullshit!!

I am a Slytherin and we Slytherins value blood purity above everything else.

You even add graph abi na picture join

Premiumwriter:
A lot of right and wrong is based on where we live and not that it is actually right or wrong in the real sense.

Think of this, if you are sleeping with a girl that's less than 18 years old in Nigeria, people will condemn you and call you a pedophile.

But there are many (I mean many) countries where the age of consent is much more lower than 18 (with some even as low as 14 years).

Now is it right or wrong to sleep with a person lower than 18 years? Your answer will be correct either way depending on where you are from and where you currently are staying.

There's no natural law that tells you the answer to this question. There's no natural law that says you can not sleep with a person less than 18.

In fact, before the British came to Nigeria, marriage was never by age but by 'maturity'.

Once a person looks 'matured' enough, they will be married off.

Hence the issue of sex with under age is not a law by nature but social construct.

The same social construct is what restrict incest. Around the 15th century or there about, the great Britain royals marry within the family to ensure pure bloods ascend the throne.

This includes marrying their cousins whether first, second or third.

This easily led to them getting some deformed children (marrying within families is bad for the physiology in the long run) but aside that there was no known consequences or fiery judgment for this "perceived" wrong.

In China people marry their cousin and I think Brazil does the same thing. This is their belief and the way they have chosen to live their lives.

They chose that way. And so by their social construction it is right.

Your friend has done nothing right or wrong. He simply chose a way to live.

What will now make it right or wrong is his perception and the way of life of the people he stays with.

Does he feel it is wrong? Does the people he stays with feel it is wrong?

If yes, then he is wrong. Again not because what he did is wrong in any way but because he feels it is wrong and that feeling will weigh him down. As it is already doing now.

But if he feels nothing about it and doesn't feel guilty, then he has nothing to worry about because what he did is not wrong.

I hope this made some sense to you

Makes a lot of sense...
I have to invite him to this thread....
Thanks!

oilmane:


Hmm, u nor fit sleep? Just continue like that cause ancestral visit is imminent and na from sleep e day start, nor sleep o, I repeat nor try am sleep cos you just might not wake up.

Go to school, you will be forming school two goons! I only asked for a good friend and what he did doesn't make him a bad person. I still cherish our friendship, but remember that it took the lady's consent to happen o...

Ayobiggie59:
Yes.....Why do most of u lie on imaginary friends like this??

Take responsibility for once

Do you always seek opinion this way?
Check my posts, I don't lie.
I even admitted eating burnt jollof rice on new year, I hate fake life okay??
Na watin monkey chop e dey give him mate, mtchew!!!