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Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by TheGenius001: 10:57am On Jan 28, 2022
Straight to the point!

So I returned home just the other day. There is this girl in my street, Preety as she could be. I liked her and I sense she felt the same way and was already fond of me. How I confirmed this?? Due to my work schedule I am mostly at home in the evening so we met on one evening. The next time we met again was in the evening after some days, so she started telling me about my hair style the last time we met and the new one, physic and all that . I quickly chipped in that how could she have seen all of that in the dark?? She looked at me like a fool. Lols. Because obviously it was dark when we met. We could only recognized each other because we both stay in that Area for some years now.


Ok after everything, she was so eager about going out with me and knowing me more since I am barely available and so I told her about going for a date and we agreed on the day (Mostly on chat). Jokingly I told her the money will be split by half but she was like "No, as a gentlman, I have to pay for both" I said no wahala. We were still chatting like normal until at a point she takes time to reply me and this was just 2days b4 the date. I read people faster than they think, so I just stopped sending her message except for the last one to see if this is how a girl I want to go on a date with will feel too important even on my own money. After that night with no reply until the next morning, I simply replied her message that the date is cancelled and I that I am going to be busy with work on that day.

Honestly why should you feel important when I am the one spending my hard earned money? Since that day, I lost interest in her completely even as she pretty as she is.

If you're a girl, if you like be as beautiful as mermaid, immediately you start forming whatever it is to me, you have killed that feelings already. And I am sure I am not the only one on this one. I have a good sense of importance especially when dealing with a lady because I know too well that my money is at stake and you have absolutely nothing to add to my life than fun. So why make see you as important to me? You can be important to yourself but not me.

Anyways, my people what do you think about my action?

Modified: She instigated this date of thing and it's one of the reasons I felt she was fond of me already. I was in already but you see that hard to get mentality and feeling too important, it's just a turn off for me.

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Nobody: 11:02am On Jan 28, 2022
We re the same bro. wink

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by mystery22: 11:03am On Jan 28, 2022
You couldn't have asked her out on the date and you obviously gave her too much attention...
You get these kind of girls indirectly

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by TheGenius001: 11:05am On Jan 28, 2022
mystery22:
You couldn't have asked her out on the date and you obviously gave her too much attention...
You get these kind of girls indirectly


Mind you, I didn't Instigate the date myself neither did I give her much attention as I am always a very busy fellow who hates to chat. It's just a thing they consider normal to act important or is it hard to get. They need to stop that shit. It's childish.

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by superCleanworks(m): 11:05am On Jan 28, 2022
come back in 4 years to read this thing you wrote and you will see how immature it is.
for now, there is nothing anyone will tell you that you will understand.

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Jeon(f): 11:06am On Jan 28, 2022
teddybarz:
We re the same bro. wink

like the girl demanding for .......... then you come run go call aunty. cool

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Jeon(f): 11:07am On Jan 28, 2022
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TheGenius001:
Straight to the point!

So I returned home just the other day. There is this girl in my street, Preety as she could be. I liked her and I sense she felt the same way and was already fond of me. How I confirmed this?? Due to my work schedule I am mostly at home in the evening so we met on one evening. The next time we met again was in the evening after some days, so she started telling me about my hair style the last time we met and the new one, physic and all that . I quickly chipped in that how could she have seen all of that in the dark?? She looked at me like a fool. Lols. Because obviously it was dark when we met. We could only recognized each other because we both stay in that Area for some years now.


Ok after everything, I told about going for a date and we agreed on the day (Mostly on chat). Jokingly I told her the money will be split by half but she was like "No, as a gentlman, I have to pay for both" I said no wahala. We were still chatting like normal until at a point she takes time to reply me and this was just 2days b4 the date. I read people faster than they think, so I just stopped sending her message except for the last one to see if this is how a girl I want to go on a date with will feel too important even on my own money. After that night with no reply until the next morning, I simply replied her message that the date is cancelled and I that I am going to be busy with work on that day.

Honestly why should you feel important when I am the one spending my hard earned money? Since that day, I lost interest in her completely even as she pretty as she is.

If you're a girl, if you like be as beautiful as mermaid, immediately you start forming whatever it is to me, you have killed that feelings already. And I am sure I am not the only one on this one. I have a good sense of importance especially when dealing with a lady because I know too well that my money is at stake and you have absolutely nothing to add to my life than fun. So why make see you as important to me? You can be important to yourself but not me.

Anyways, my people what do you think about my action?
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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by TheGenius001: 11:10am On Jan 28, 2022
superCleanworks:
come back in 4 years to read this thing you wrote and you will see how immature it is.
for now, there is nothing anyone will tell you that you will understand.

Mr. Maturity, this is not a matter of Maturity or Immaturity. Thank you

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 28, 2022
Jeon:


like the girl demanding for .......... then you come run go call aunty. cool


angry

hanty said she is old enuf to be my gf. grin. .


I Don forget her bside.


is my life, my choice. Mind over matter

i dnt mind. So it doesn't matter. cry

have learn a lesson
Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Jeon(f): 11:17am On Jan 28, 2022
teddybarz:


angry
hanty said she is old enuf to be my gf. grin. .

I Don forget her bside.

is my life, my choice. Mind over matter
i dnt mind. So it doesn't matter. cry
have learn a lesson
aunty don't have right to tell what a 25 years old can do..
what about you getting jealous because of the girl money..

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Nobody: 11:26am On Jan 28, 2022
Jeon:
aunty don't have right to tell what a 25 years old can do..
what about you getting jealous because of the girl money..

am nt jealous of her money. . It jux that. . . .

damn. . U win. . . Am outta here cry
Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Jeon(f): 11:29am On Jan 28, 2022
teddybarz:


am nt jealous of her money. . It jux that. . . .

damn. . U win. . . Am outta here cry
YOU SAID YOU WERE JEALOUS BECAUSE OF HER MONEY..
cheesycheesy

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by FERNANDEZISBACK: 11:29am On Jan 28, 2022
.
What if I told you you was quite wrong?
Did you by any means ask her why she was taking so long to reply instead of jumping into conclusion?

You were just too forward if you ask me..you jokingly told her that the money that's gonna be spent should be split
Really who does that..you made an offer to take her out on a date and you say it should be split..

Apart from that what's the motive of taking a woman out on a date..?get to know her better right?

You weren't patient at all to be sincere..next time understand what you are doing..

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Justice4Toto: 11:30am On Jan 28, 2022
TheGenius001:
Straight to the point!

So I returned home just the other day. There is this girl in my street, Preety as she could be. I liked her and I sense she felt the same way and was already fond of me. How I confirmed this?? Due to my work schedule I am mostly at home in the evening so we met on one evening. The next time we met again was in the evening after some days, so she started telling me about my hair style the last time we met and the new one, physic and all that . I quickly chipped in that how could she have seen all of that in the dark?? She looked at me like a fool. Lols. Because obviously it was dark when we met. We could only recognized each other because we both stay in that Area for some years now.


Ok after everything, I told about going for a date and we agreed on the day (Mostly on chat). Jokingly I told her the money will be split by half but she was like "No, as a gentlman, I have to pay for both" I said no wahala. We were still chatting like normal until at a point she takes time to reply me and this was just 2days b4 the date. I read people faster than they think, so I just stopped sending her message except for the last one to see if this is how a girl I want to go on a date with will feel too important even on my own money. After that night with no reply until the next morning, I simply replied her message that the date is cancelled and I that I am going to be busy with work on that day.

Honestly why should you feel important when I am the one spending my hard earned money? Since that day, I lost interest in her completely even as she pretty as she is.

If you're a girl, if you like be as beautiful as mermaid, immediately you start forming whatever it is to me, you have killed that feelings already. And I am sure I am not the only one on this one. I have a good sense of importance especially when dealing with a lady because I know too well that my money is at stake and you have absolutely nothing to add to my life than fun. So why make see you as important to me? You can be important to yourself but not me.

Anyways, my people what do you think about my action?

Modified: She instigated this date of thing and it's one of the reasons I felt she was fond of me already. I was in already but you see that hard to get mentality and feeling too important, it's just a turn off for me.


Nigeria girl don't do date
Na wa for.u
Date is western Europe /American thing


Here na how far
I dey
Hook up
St or Tdb
I don't suck oooo
Abeg na
Hmm
Are u clean and saved
Yes
You will add 5k for sucking
I hear
Okay
House or hotel
Hotel
Better
I no dey collect transfer ooo
I get cash
Better
Time
8pm

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Nobody: 11:33am On Jan 28, 2022
Jeon:

YOU SAID YOU WERE JEALOUS BECAUSE OF HER MONEY..
cheesycheesy


watever
Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by superCleanworks(m): 11:34am On Jan 28, 2022
TheGenius001:


Mr. Maturity, this is not a matter of Maturity or Immaturity. Thank you

like i said before... you will come back in a few years to read this and see for yourself.

if babe no do shakara for you then who will she do it for? she is a woman. that is what they do but you got angry and ran away because you lack this simple knowledge.
you feel the babe should fly to heaven just because you mention DATE.
so she should GLUE her phone to her hand and always reply you because you are what?
you are here mentioning ON TOP MY MONEY as if you want to take her to Radisson or Oriental.
your type will take a girl out and be counting what she eats and yet want to become master and commander of her soul because you spent kobo and cowries then she must send you a good morning text and pound yam for you daily.
she commented about your hairstyle and you are catching feelings, how old are you?

you jokingly told here you will split the bill? that was not a joke brother you are broke and stingy and you have no level if not you should never say that to a babe.
better face your work and ask how to play this game so you will not keep messing things up and frustrate the innocent babe with your ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY.

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by FERNANDEZISBACK: 11:36am On Jan 28, 2022
superCleanworks:


like i said before... you will come back in a few years to read this and see for yourself.

if babe no do shakara for you then who will she do it for? she is a woman. that is what they do but you got angry and ran away because you lack this simple knowledge.
you feel the babe should fly to heaven just because you mention DATE.
so she should GLUE her phone to her hand and always reply you because you are what?
you are here mentioning ON TOP MY MONEY as if you want to take her to Radisson or Oriental.
your type will take a girl out and be counting what she eats and yet want to become master and commander of her soul because you spent kobo and cowries then she must send you a good morning text and pound yam for you daily.
she commented about your hairstyle and you are catching feelings, how old are you?

you jokingly told here you will split the bill? that was not a joke brother you are broke and stingy and you have no level if not you should never say that to a babe.
better face your work and ask how to play this game so you will not keep messing things up and frustrate the innocent babe with your ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY.
Blessings to you for this..most boys don't understand what it means to take a woman out on a date..

They think it's something you just dish like that..

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Jeon(f): 11:37am On Jan 28, 2022
teddybarz:




watever

coolcoolcool

you read my previous topic, you will see where i made a post how my enugu girlfriend visited me all the way from jos to anambra..
she landed on tuesday niqht, mehn this was the girl i was dying for, i have even plan of marrying her in the future buh damn, her face was full of black spot and pimples, Very irritatin.. Dnt blame me sha. She was pretty in her pixs.. I knack her the first niqht she stayed. On the second day/niqht, We kiss eachother, on the third day. . Boom, my sister saw this girl and told me that she doesn't like her that she is too old for me. Am 25, she's 27. Damn!, love got us that way
. . Afta i told her what my sister said. She was angry and said she wouldn't have wasted her transport jux to visit me, and now see what am tellin her. . Omo afta i told her. . She said she will be leaving early morning.. As of that niqht she said i will be qivin her transport money for her to travel back to her brother's place. To cut the story, i no qive her shishi.. and that was how she left..


https://www.nairaland.com/6930815/she-prettier-when-saw-pix/3#109218808

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by superCleanworks(m): 11:40am On Jan 28, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
.
What if I told you you was quite wrong?
Did you by any means ask her why she was taking so long to reply instead of jumping into conclusion?

You were just too forward if you ask me..you jokingly asked told her that the money that's gonna be spent should be split
Really who does that..you made an offer to take her out on a date and you say it should be split..

Apart from that what's the motive of taking a woman out on a date..?get to know her better right?

You weren't patient at all to be sincere..next time understand what you are doing..

please leave that boy alone. he will learn later. let him keep falling his hand in public.
thank God the babe did not go on that date her life would automatically become his property because of HE HAS SPENT MONEY.

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Jeon(f): 11:42am On Jan 28, 2022
superCleanworks:


like i said before... you will come back in a few years to read this and see for yourself.

if babe no do shakara for you then who will she do it for? she is a woman. that is what they do but you got angry and ran away because you lack this simple knowledge.
you feel the babe should fly to heaven just because you mention DATE.
so she should GLUE her phone to her hand and always reply you because you are what?
you are here mentioning ON TOP MY MONEY as if you want to take her to Radisson or Oriental.
your type will take a girl out and be counting what she eats and yet want to become master and commander of her soul because you spent kobo and cowries then she must send you a good morning text and pound yam for you daily.
she commented about your hairstyle and you are catching feelings, how old are you?

you jokingly told here you will split the bill? that was not a joke brother you are broke and stingy and you have no level if not you should never say that to a babe.
better face your work and ask how to play this game so you will not keep messing things up and frustrate the innocent babe with your ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY.

lolz... you better leave them like that oooh.
some of our NIGERIAN Men knowsss it all.

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by FERNANDEZISBACK: 11:43am On Jan 28, 2022
superCleanworks:


please leave that boy alone. he will learn later. let him keep falling his hand in public.
thank God the babe did not go on that date her life would automatically become his property because of HE HAS SPENT MONEY.
These boys are really not intelligent..they complain all day saying women are this and that...

Look now just to win a woman's heart becomes a problem for him..at least win her heart first he can't..

Looks like he only wanted a one night stand after that he comes here to say nonsense about women being a h*e..

Op grow up..

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Nobody: 11:47am On Jan 28, 2022
Jeon:


coolcoolcool




https://www.nairaland.com/6930815/she-prettier-when-saw-pix/3#109218808


cry cry. . So why did u pop up the link?


ar u the one to judge me? Do u knw what problems i have pass? Do u knw hw it started. ?



anyway. U jux did wat u suppose to do. . And mind u. . U re arqumentative. cry
Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Jeon(f): 11:52am On Jan 28, 2022
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teddybarz:



cry cry. . So why did u pop up the link?
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To let you know that you are so perfect..


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arr u the one to judge me? Do u knw what problems i have pass? Do u knw hw it started. ?
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same goes to all humans... SO DON'T JUDGE THEM... IF YOU AIN'T PLEASE YOU CAN QUIETLY WALK AWAY.



[s]
anyway. U jux did wat u suppose to do. . And mind u. . U re arqumentative. cry
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THANKS TO MY MC cool

MIDHEAVEN

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Nobody: 11:58am On Jan 28, 2022
Jeon:
[s][/s]
To let you know that you are so perfect..


[s][/s]

same goes to all humans... SO DON'T JUDGE THEM... IF YOU AIN'T PLEASE YOU CAN QUIETLY WALK AWAY.



[s][/s]

THANKS TO MY MC cool


that book u are always reading u betta stop it cuz it making u to go nut. . .


no offense. . Kinda dnt knw y u tellin me all dix. ? U re downplaying my journey. .angry
Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Jeon(f): 12:01pm On Jan 28, 2022
teddybarz:



that book u are always reading u betta stop it cuz it making u to go nut. . .


no offense. . Kinda dnt knw y u tellin me all dix. ? U re downplaying my journey. .angry


BECAUSE YOU ARE PERFECT MORE THAN THE CREATOR HIMSELF.

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jan 28, 2022
Jeon:



BECAUSE YOU ARE PERFECT MORE THAN THE CREATOR HIMSELF.


seems u re hating on me. . Well nobody is above hate. . U re free to exercise ur hatred cry

Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by fattprince(m): 12:05pm On Jan 28, 2022
superCleanworks:


like i said before... you will come back in a few years to read this and see for yourself.

if babe no do shakara for you then who will she do it for? she is a woman. that is what they do but you got angry and ran away because you lack this simple knowledge.
you feel the babe should fly to heaven just because you mention DATE.
so she should GLUE her phone to her hand and always reply you because you are what?
you are here mentioning ON TOP MY MONEY as if you want to take her to Radisson or Oriental.
your type will take a girl out and be counting what she eats and yet want to become master and commander of her soul because you spent kobo and cowries then she must send you a good morning text and pound yam for you daily.
she commented about your hairstyle and you are catching feelings, how old are you?

you jokingly told here you will split the bill? that was not a joke brother you are broke and stingy and you have no level if not you should never say that to a babe.
better face your work and ask how to play this game so you will not keep messing things up and frustrate the innocent babe with your ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY.
In this game you talking about, you are a loser bro.

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Jeon(f): 12:06pm On Jan 28, 2022
teddybarz:



seems u re hating on me. . Well nobody is above hate. . U re free to exercise ur hatred cry

WHICH HATRED?

U ARE SO FUNNY.

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Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Boogyman557: 12:09pm On Jan 28, 2022
Holly Gram cool WTF MAN
Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jan 28, 2022
Jeon:


WHICH HATRED?

U ARE SO FUNNY.



forget all the pretence. . Lets tell our self the truth,. Aren't u hating on me?
Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by superCleanworks(m): 12:13pm On Jan 28, 2022
fattprince:

In this game you talking about, you are a loser bro.

haaaaaaahahahahahaha! i have noticed you.
Re: Why I Cancelled A Date Because She Felt Very Important by Jeon(f): 12:14pm On Jan 28, 2022
teddybarz:




forget all the pretence. . Lets tell our self the truth,. Aren't u hating on me?

THAT WAS WHY I SAID YOU ARE SO FUNNY FOR ME TO HATE ON SOMEONE THAT IS OLDER THAN I, NOT ONLY THAT.......

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