As guys we are told to focus on becoming a man of value or a man of success because accomplishing that automatically gives us the golden ticket to sleep with more women.

But that's a wrong mindset.

Back then, I used to know quite a number of guys that you might possibly tag as irresponsible/thugs/bad guys - some of these guys are dropouts with no job, some are living off their parents, some smoke weed/cigarettes all day then go clubbing all night, some are pushing plenty of hard drugs; some are into all sort of illegal activity--they pretty much get scared anytime they sight the police van. Most of them have no real plans for their life; they just live life in the moment. In a nutshell, they say and do whatever they feel like.

These are the guys you won't probably want your sister or daughter to date.

But the shocking and annoying thing about these so called "irresponsible" guys is that they sleep with at least 1 or 2 new girls per week...

...while the other nerdy, chuchy, techy, responsible, serious, nice and respectful guys who you'd prefer to date your sister or daughter are always told, "let's just be friends" by your same sisters and daughters. Now, isn't that hilarious.


These irresponsible/thugs/bad guys aren't really men of value or greatness but that didn't necessarily stop them from getting buckets of wet pussy.

These so called irresponsible/thugs/bad guys are the kind of guys that can look straight in the eyes of a sexy beautiful girl and tell her to get lost or Bleep off...

... while this is the same sexy beautiful lady the chuchy/responsible/nice/respectful guys is dreaming and fantasizing about.



Ok, please don't get me wrong, the moral of the story here isn't to be irresponsible or be a thug or be a bad guy or be a jobless loser...

But rather the moral of the story is -

You don't have to become a man of great success that a stadium full of people are dying to touch- before you can at least get a girl that actually likes you.


When you assume that you can only get girls when become a great man of value or when you become the next great musk/mark/gate/Mandela, then you always feel less confident in your self, and your low self-confident will naturally affect how you interact with ladies and how ladies view you.

In case you don't know, most of these irresponsible/thugs/bad guys hold themselves in high regard; they have very high-self confidence. These guys don't give a shit about what you or that random beautiful girl thinks about them.

Their high-self confidence and their I-don't-give-a-shit attitude is why they get girls despite the fact that they are not great men of value.

Again, don't get me wrong: I encourage you to be the best you can as a man, Improve your life and become the best version your self. In fact that's your sole purpose as a man.

But if you want actually get girls or get a girlfriend in few weeks. All you need to do is look presentable and boldly talk to more ladies --and eventually one will be interested in getting to know you more.

Or let me rephrase:

If you want a girlfriend in one week or 2 but you are naturally shy OR you don't feel confident about yourself OR you don't know how to boldly communicate with ladies, then go and read all my articles on nairaland---hopefully you'll find an answer.

Stay blessed.

Oga make the links to ur articles available

Nice piece, very true

Baba… just have money… the babes will come.

Highman56:
Oga make the links to ur articles available

https://www.nairaland.com/6933245/how-ruined-first-date-crush



https://www.nairaland.com/6817409/how-stole-girl-guy-birthday



https://www.nairaland.com/6866264/look-what-lady-told-me



https://www.nairaland.com/6827622/must-read-simp-money-easily



https://www.nairaland.com/6831505/guy-heres-why-should-simp


And many more....

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