He is 38, he has lots fine girlfriends frolicking arround him hoping for marriage, he wants to marry but he is broke, he made an older lady who is some year's older than him and she is doing well has an 3 bedrm apartment where she stays alone, willing to link him up with connections in his business only after marriage, and ready to support there wedding, she gets angry easily but can be controlled, what should he do, please advice him

Lionnation:
He is 38, he has lots fine girlfriends frolicking arround him hoping for marriage, he wants to marry but he is broke, he made an older lady who is some year's older than him and she is doing well has an 3 bedrm apartment where she stays alone, willing to link him up with connections in his business only after marriage, and ready to support there wedding, she gets angry easily but can be controlled, what should he do, please advice him

The older woman that can only give him connections after marriage is a big scam. She just wants to use him for marriage, next is probably posting and more anger if he talks. Women could be highly manipulative.

I am not saying he can't marry her but he must be careful cos that woman is playing chess while he is playing checkers.

Money is good, but I'll advice you marry for love not money. You are broke today doesn't mean you will be broke forever. Where there is genuine love and honesty, ur woman can joins hands with u to make things work.

No matter what you do, do NOT make decisions that will silence ur rights as man.

Make i balance here......

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Loewe:


The older woman that can only give him connections after marriage is a big scam. She just wants to use him for marriage, next is probably posting and more anger if he talks. Women could be highly manipulative.

I am not saying he can't marry her but he must be careful cos that woman is playing chess while he is playing checkers.

can you marry an older Lady if she already connected you, with business links and you are 38 while she is 45

I've never knew a broke dude could be fine

"Man up or be a man"

Will become a morning,afternoon and night devotion in such marriage.
Dude should look for his shoe size,to avoid dragging legs on the ground.

I nor even read the thread,But I have to say is that my toto dey scratch me,I need a man to Bleep me.

Mention me in a dead thread if you are interested.I am Hot.

Lionnation:
can you marry an older Lady if she already connected you, with business links and you are 38 while she is 45

Personally I'm not the type motivated by money. I have met younger ladies (in their 20s), some foreign based, who have tried to get into relationships with me. So I don't fit into that category as I do well for myself and I am satisfied with what the Lord blesses me with per time.

The main issue here is whether it would be worth it at the end of the day, not so much of the age. 7 years isn't so much if the woman is submissive and ready to be a good wife.

Albeit things like child birth, etc must be ironed out before going into the marriage.

Lionnation:
He is 38, he has lots fine girlfriends frolicking arround him hoping for marriage, he wants to marry but he is broke, he made an older lady who is some year's older than him and she is doing well has an 3 bedrm apartment where she stays alone, willing to link him up with connections in his business only after marriage, and ready to support there wedding, she gets angry easily but can be controlled, what should he do, please advice him

The dude will be thrown out of the house in a hurry. By the way, a broke ass should not have the thought of marriage across his broke ass mind.

Hmmmm

Idiko1:


The dude will be thrown out of the house in a hurry. By the way, a broke ass should not have the thought of marriage across his broke ass mind.

so he shouldn't marry again

No. OP, you should have a job and make money first, before thinking about marriage.

InTheCloudySky:
No. OP, you should have a job and make money first, before thinking about marriage.

This is why a lot of Southern women are entering 40s without a spouse, the men are busy running after money, and come back to marry women in their 20s.
What will happen to all the older women that are unable to find a husband cos all the men are running after money ?
A man can always marry a woman in her 20s but a woman does not have that priviledge so think twice with that advise.

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Lionnation:
He is 38, he has lots fine girlfriends frolicking arround him hoping for marriage, he wants to marry but he is broke, he made an older lady who is some year's older than him and she is doing well has an 3 bedrm apartment where she stays alone, willing to link him up with connections in his business only after marriage, and ready to support there wedding, she gets angry easily but can be controlled, what should he do, please advice him

Hmm @bold

InTheCloudySky:
I'm not in Nigeria and have no idea what's going on with the women there. Anyways, deportee, from your previous thread, we already know you're looking to marry a pre-teen in Nigeria, so you're comment is no surprise. Just make sure you don't wind up in jail while you're at it.

I am disappointed with your response, this is the type of response you'd get from somewhere without the level of exposure that you claim.
You did not provide any form of rebuttal or fact just sentiments and name calling.
This is common with people with a single digit IQ, instead of providing an intelligent fact based response, you resort to name calling.

Again, I am disappointed that someone who claims to be living in a developed society will resort to this under arm tactic rather than address issues.

The OPs story clearly lets you know that this is what is happening in Nigeria, women are unable to find husbands cos the men are busy running after money.
It is a ticking time bomb.

oldienavie:

I am disappointed with your response, this is the type of response you'd get from somewhere without the level of exposure that you claim.
You did not provide any form of rebuttal or fact just sentiments and name calling.
This is common with people with a single digit IQ, instead of providing an intelligent fact based response, you resort to name calling.

Again, I am disappointed that someone who claims to be living in a developed society will resort to this under arm tactic rather than address issues.

The OPs story clearly lets you know that this is what is happening in Nigeria, women are unable to find husbands cos the men are busy running after money.
It is a ticking time bomb.

Lol, bro calm down.

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SIMP!

InTheCloudySky:
If you're disappointed and pained that I called you a deportee, if the shoe fits, wear it and cry me a river while you're at it.

Yawn and unmoved.

As for these women in Nigeria in their 40s who can't find husbands, the advice I would give them is to leave Nigeria if they can, because most men in the western world and who have something to offer themselves aren't fixated on superficial qualities, but you bum-ass men in Nigeria are a different case. Prince Harry, Dwyane Wade, Nick Jonas, etc, are men who are married to older women. Are you richer than them? Yet, despite their wealth, they married women older than they are. What does that tell you?

I am not pained, I am disappointed in you and your level of reasoning, considering the environment you claim to be.
If you said you were in Nigeria, I wouldnt be disappointed.

And by the way, I am in Nigeria of my my own free will.
I am actually a citizen of a western nation... You gerrit ? If you dont gerrit forget abourrit...

And the examples you gave are the exceptions, and these people are Americans, is OP an American ?
The OP is Nigerian and African, and in African, men marry younger women.

38 years old and is looking for a woman that will enslave him.

It is only in marriage u will know that fine and beautiful couple no dey put food for table.

Na hard work dey maintain the beauty in marriage.

I can only pity him in advance,because what he is about getting himself into could make him regret the day he was born.

Any choice he makes is choice but be careful and good luck.

Yawn. Keep dreaming, deportee.

oldienavie:

[s]I am not pained, I am disappointed in you and your level of reasoning, considering the environment you claim to be.
If you said you were in Nigeria, I wouldnt be disappointed.

And by the way, I am in Nigeria of my my own free will.
I am actually a citizen of a western nation... You gerrit ? If you dont gerrit forget abourrit...

And the examples you gave are the exceptions, and these people are Americans, is OP an American ?
The OP is Nigerian and African, and in African, men marry younger women[/s].

Lionnation:
He is 38, he has lots fine girlfriends frolicking arround him hoping for marriage, he wants to marry but he is broke, he made an older lady who is some year's older than him and she is doing well has an 3 bedrm apartment where she stays alone, willing to link him up with connections in his business only after marriage, and ready to support there wedding, she gets angry easily but can be controlled, what should he do, please advice him

Since he is broke and jobless he is already handicapped

Let him settle down with the one that have something doing to sustain both of them

But he must humble himself else, if he gives her problems she may turn him to house help and still pays him salary