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My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by PrinceFashion: 11:48am On Feb 08, 2022
Hello guys ,I just park into new apartment not quite long with my family and the rest of the 3 apartment in the compound is also occupied by married couples too but there’s a particular guy who his wife is around 8months pregnant , they did there wedding late last year and not up to a week after the marriage I witness the guy beating the lady outside , but presently the lady is around 8months pregnant and the guy still beat her over little argument and have called the husband like man and talk to him but he won’t stop beating her ,last two week she beat the lady to the stage that they need to to take her to the hospital and I later saw the lady family that came here to talk to the guy and he said he won’t beat her again but the devil has done it again she beats the lady that all her face and lips are so big ....the lady was just crying around the compound and I feel bad for her but the painful part is that the guy always feels he owns the lady because he paid her dowry..........please don’t mind my typing error ,is there anyway my family can help her
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by dawnomike(m): 11:59am On Feb 08, 2022
PrinceFashion:
Hello guys ,I just park into new apartment not quite long with my family and the rest of the 3 apartment in the compound is also occupied by married couples too but there’s a particular guy who his wife is around 8months pregnant , they did there wedding late last year and not up to a week after the marriage I witness the guy beating the lady outside , but presently the lady is around 8months pregnant and the guy still beat her over little argument and have called the husband like man and talk to him but he won’t stop beating her ,last two week she beat the lady to the stage that they need to to take her to the hospital and I later saw the lady family that came here to talk to the guy and he said he won’t beat her again but the devil has done it again she beats the lady that all her face and lips are so big ....the lady was just crying around the compound and I feel bad for her but the painful part is that the guy always feels he owns the lady because he paid her dowry..........please don’t mind my typing error ,is there anyway my family can help her
There is nothing you can do about it except you choose to involve the police... The wife might not want that.
I just hope he does not get her killed!!!
The wife's family members should come and take their daughter before he kills her

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by tayo60(f): 12:01pm On Feb 08, 2022
U can call d attention of other co tenants to the situation and all of you should come with what you can do to help d lady.

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Nobody: 12:08pm On Feb 08, 2022
E seems like say the woman dey enjoy the beating. undecided

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Haakeem(m): 12:08pm On Feb 08, 2022
Haba.

I am sure the lady knows the kind of man he is before agreeing to marry him.

She should blame her self.
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by bigcee(m): 12:16pm On Feb 08, 2022
He is a weak man and will never stop beating the lady. Those kind of f00lish men have zero self control. Little thing triggers them and they go berserk. I pray he doesn't kill her.

The only way to handle such men is to stand up for yourself.

I once had a friend like that. It started like a joke but I noticed the way he speaks to me arrogantly and he's very disrespectful. He likes using passive aggressive remarks. I had to tell him "hey man, this is the last time I am ever gonna take that shit from you again"... Na so friendship take end. I am a very easy going person so the N*gga thinks he can bully me grin

I hate weak men!

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by donbachi(m): 12:26pm On Feb 08, 2022
GOD knows i will turn my sis to a widow.than have him kill her,marry another woman and live a better life while i wont have her anymore.

Stupid man.him no see hin mate go fight.make dem for break dat him filty hands.
He must be a redpiller

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Harrykn: 12:28pm On Feb 08, 2022
A wise man once said: Mind your Business

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Nobody: 12:31pm On Feb 08, 2022
Me personally oo, Once I have tried talking to the man and he doesn't yield, I mind my business.

Nobody knows the full story. That lady is not a kid, prior to their union and up till this stage, I believe she's wise enough to know what she should do about his situation.

And she's the one who knows why she didn't do anything. So wetin concern me?

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Acidosis(m): 12:46pm On Feb 08, 2022
Involve her family. If the lady fails to act and her family also fails to do something, then gently mind your business.

She married a ma.d man and her family collected bride price from the ma.d man. Both entities should find a solution to their problems.

However, you can decide on your own terms to involve the police since their actions are a form of nuisance to the neighborhood.

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Sijo01(f): 1:30pm On Feb 08, 2022
Arrange with your neighbours and some street men; you guys should tie him to a pole and give him a little of what he's been dishing to his wife..... Yeye man like am.

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Mindlog: 1:59pm On Feb 08, 2022
The man is mentally not okay while the woman wants to continue to bear Mrs. despite the abuse and her family is waiting to hear that she has been killed, how much did he pay for bride price that they are reluctant to refund?
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Kobojunkie: 2:39pm On Feb 08, 2022
PrinceFashion:
,last two week she beat the lady to the stage that they need to to take her to the hospital and I later saw the lady family that came here to talk to the guy and he said he won’t beat her again but the devil has done it again she beats the lady that all her face and lips are so big ....the lady was just crying around the compound and I feel bad for her but the painful part is that the guy always feels he owns the lady because he paid her dowry..........please don’t mind my typing error ,is there anyway my family can help her
Na the victim you suppose talk to, no be the man. She needs to be the one to decide if this is all her life is worth. There is nothing anyone can do without the consent of the victim. undecided

Also remind her that the blood of that child in her womb will also be on her hand as well if anything where to happen to it as a result of her remaining in that violent environment. undecided

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Mariangeles(f): 2:43pm On Feb 08, 2022
Call the lady aside and advise her tenderly like a sister to go back to her family, at least, until she gives birth.
Whether she stays or leaves, it is up to her.
You would’ve done your part, and your conscience will be clear.

Her family too is irresponsible, leaving her with an abusive man and not doing anything about it.

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by pps1759(m): 3:15pm On Feb 08, 2022
[quote author=Harrykn post=110060313]A wise man once said: Mind your Business.So if the lady is your daughter,mother or sister,you shall look-away.Are you a Nigerian ?,i want to confirm one thing
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Kobojunkie: 3:22pm On Feb 08, 2022
pps1759:
So if the lady is your daughter,mother or sister,you shall look-away.Are you a Nigerian ?,i want to confirm one thing
He gave you the typical Nigerian excuse for everything, you still dey ask if he is a Nigerian. undecided

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by ogawisdom(m): 3:54pm On Feb 08, 2022
PrinceFashion:
Hello guys ,I just park into new apartment not quite long with my family and the rest of the 3 apartment in the compound is also occupied by married couples too but there’s a particular guy who his wife is around 8months pregnant , they did there wedding late last year and not up to a week after the marriage I witness the guy beating the lady outside , but presently the lady is around 8months pregnant and the guy still beat her over little argument and have called the husband like man and talk to him but he won’t stop beating her ,last two week she beat the lady to the stage that they need to to take her to the hospital and I later saw the lady family that came here to talk to the guy and he said he won’t beat her again but the devil has done it again she beats the lady that all her face and lips are so big ....the lady was just crying around the compound and I feel bad for her but the painful part is that the guy always feels he owns the lady because he paid her dowry..........please don’t mind my typing error ,is there anyway my family can help her


The family is aware and does nothing to stop him? The best thing is to take their daughter home until the man repents. The wife may be unwilling to go self bc of hunger n joblessness.

There is nothing you can do except talking to the man n hoping he changes. U can't help the woman except she is ready to help herself.

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by MufasaLion: 6:01pm On Feb 08, 2022
Send anonymous tip to Domestic Violence Agency.
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by wunmi590(m): 6:08pm On Feb 08, 2022


God whatever will make me raise my hand up to beat my wife, please take it away from me not to even talk of beating my pregnant wife, I reject it IJN...


To even raise hand to beat my junior sister nah war...


God will help the family

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by eyinjuege: 6:58pm On Feb 08, 2022
Pls ask her family members to come and carry her, till she at least gives birth.
She is heavily pregnant and I just see a disaster waiting to happen. She can bleed and lose the baby or even bleed to death from the beating
If that woman dies in your compound, you will also be asked to write statement o.
The man sef fit run far far away leaving the dead body for his co tenants to sort out.
Take this seriously.
Perhaps you all should do a meeting in uour compound and ask him not to put you people in trouble. If possible involve the police in this matter sef, just to inform them that if the woman dies o, you guys are innocent

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Richy4(m): 8:39pm On Feb 08, 2022
This is just sad...Considering the "mind your business" world we are into nowadays...Is Nigeria not old or matured enough for a domestic Violence hotline?....
At least if one can't intervene physically, shouldn't there be a well-planned and effective hotline to call?..Like 911 or 888 something that is easy to dial in a situation like this...

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by TinaG(f): 8:54pm On Feb 08, 2022
PrinceFashion:
Hello guys ,I just park into new apartment not quite long with my family and the rest of the 3 apartment in the compound is also occupied by married couples too but there’s a particular guy who his wife is around 8months pregnant , they did there wedding late last year and not up to a week after the marriage I witness the guy beating the lady outside , but presently the lady is around 8months pregnant and the guy still beat her over little argument and have called the husband like man and talk to him but he won’t stop beating her ,last two week she beat the lady to the stage that they need to to take her to the hospital and I later saw the lady family that came here to talk to the guy and he said he won’t beat her again but the devil has done it again she beats the lady that all her face and lips are so big ....the lady was just crying around the compound and I feel bad for her but the painful part is that the guy always feels he owns the lady because he paid her dowry..........please don’t mind my typing error ,is there anyway my family can help her


Call street vigilantes on him or else one day na kill him kill d woman.
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by PrinceFashion: 12:42am On Feb 09, 2022
ogawisdom:


The family is aware and does nothing to stop him? The best thing is to take their daughter home until the man repents. The wife may be unwilling to go self bc of hunger n joblessness.

There is nothing you can do except talking to the man n hoping he changes. U can't help the woman except she is ready to help herself.
......the lady has her own business
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by PrinceFashion: 12:46am On Feb 09, 2022
Richy4:
This is just sad...Considering the "mind your business" world we are into nowadays...Is Nigeria not old or matured enough for a domestic Violence hotline?....
At least if one can't intervene physically, shouldn't there be a well-planned and effective hotline to call?..Like 911 or 888 something that is easy to dial in a situation like this...
may God bless you because this issue is getting out of hand
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by PrinceFashion: 12:50am On Feb 09, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Na the victim you suppose talk to, no be the man. She needs to be the one to decide if this is all her life is worth. There is nothing anyone can do without the consent of the victim. undecided

Also remind her that the blood of that child in her womb will also be on her hand as well if anything where to happen to it as a result of her remaining in that violent environment. undecided
at times women are stupid when it comes to love and I don’t want the situation where I will be the bad person , I spoke to her I when they got into fight after some days of there wedding and I told her avoid men to be beating you and also minimize arguing with this beast , he will beat you and damage your health but love won’t let them see truth
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by PrinceFashion: 12:55am On Feb 09, 2022
tayo60:
U can call d attention of other co tenants to the situation and all of you should come with what you can do to help d lady.
the whole tenants knows what’s going on
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by GboyegaD(m): 1:47am On Feb 09, 2022
Arrange area boys to give the guy panel beating when next he beat him wife na. I never still understand how people dey vex to the point of raising hand against another person irrespective of age and gender.
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Richy4(m): 4:30am On Feb 09, 2022
GboyegaD:
Arrange area boys to give the guy panel beating when next he beat him wife na. I never still understand how people dey vex to the point of raising hand against another person irrespective of age and gender.

smileyMy brother, u know that some people are walking corpse that are looking for whom them go hang their death on...This one might be among.....As they said, all lizard are lying with their stomach on the ground, no one knows the one with stomach ache ..
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by GboyegaD(m): 5:00am On Feb 09, 2022
Richy4:


smileyMy brother, u know that some people are walking corpse that are looking for whom go hang their death on...This one might be among.....As they said, all lizard are lying with their stomach on the ground, no one knows the one with stomach ache ..

Dat one sef dey sha...
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Richy4(m): 5:07am On Feb 09, 2022
GboyegaD:


Dat one sef dey sha...

yah person wey u think say well... lai lai...Just touch am, Na express fainting.... and the woman wey u think say u dey help, might turn against the helper again... begin ask question like I send you message cheesy

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Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by GboyegaD(m): 5:19am On Feb 09, 2022
Richy4:


yah person wey u think say well... lai lai...Just touch am, Na express fainting.... and the woman wey u think say u dey help, might turn against the helper again... begin ask question like I send you message cheesy

I have a friend who was threatened with that and that was how he stopped beating the wife.
Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by emmanuelbrown26: 6:18am On Feb 09, 2022
For the lady to still be in that kind of marriage, factors are involved.
Poor home: U see, poverty is d cause of most issues in marriage. Let me break it down, I think d lady is from a very poor home and going back to her family won't be an easy task. Right now, she is heavily pregnant and d idiotic guy is beating her in her condition shows that "is better to cry in ferrari than be happy in volkswagen beatles
2. She might be a marriage councilor/motivator: She might be one of those that boosted to their fellow ladies that when she gets married she would know how to handle or bring a man down to his knels.
So she is afraid of going back bcs of d shame and stigma. That's women for u

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