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Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Nobody: 10:22pm On Feb 13, 2022
The very same girl you're supporting with your last cent today will one day tell her new boyfriend how she survived a man like you without a car, a better job and a house.

SIMPS Build yourself first before you get excited and spend your money in a relationship. You don't even have a drivers licenses, but you're buying your girlfriend a bone straight hair, Valentine gifts, shoes, phone etc. When was the last time you bought a gift for your mother? angry abi is your mother allergic to receiving gifts? Sense fall on you there!!

Enrol yourself at any registered colleges and advanced yourself as a man. Start a small side business and make money. STOP investing in relationships more than your future. Or else, girls will date you, use you, survive you and get a better guy (Red pillers like us). You'll be a cleaner of girls cleaning them for better guys (Red pillers). Your duty will be to clean girls for potential husbands (red pillers). WAKE UP MAN and stop simp-ing around!! angry

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Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Nobody: 10:23pm On Feb 13, 2022
Nice piece bro
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Nobody: 10:41pm On Feb 13, 2022
SIMP advising SIMPS cheesy grin grin
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Jennyclay(f): 11:04pm On Feb 13, 2022
GoodHardDick:
[s]The very same girl you're supporting with your last cent today will one day tell her new boyfriend how she survived a man like you without a car, a better job and a house.

SIMPS Build yourself first before you get excited and spend your money in a relationship. You don't even have a drivers licenses, but you're buying your girlfriend a bone straight hair, Valentine gifts, shoes, phone etc. When was the last time you bought a gift for your mother? angry abi is your mother allergic to receiving gifts? Sense fall on you there!!

Enrol yourself at any registered colleges and advanced yourself as a man. Start a small side business and make money. STOP investing in relationships more than your future. Or else, girls will date you, use you, survive you and get a better guy (Red pillers like us). You'll be a cleaner of girls cleaning them for better guys (Red pillers). Your duty will be to clean girls for potential husbands (red pillers). WAKE UP MAN and stop simp-ing around!! angry[/s]
You're already running mad oo, Don't you think you need urgent help??

Zukwanuike.

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Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Nobody: 11:06pm On Feb 13, 2022
Beebah2000:
SIMP advising SIMPS cheesy grin grin
grin grin

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Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by kepstone: 11:24pm On Feb 13, 2022
Words on marble. Op.
If all guyz can take heed to this advice I think we will put many ladies were they belong. I have had this personnal experience 2 times I made up my mind my mind never to spend on a girl. My last relationship ended Because the so-called girl was entitled. Many girls don't have plans to marry you, but to chop you and use you. When someone better comes, they dump you and move on.
If she wants s not investing in you don't invest in her. If she is not committed you too don't commit. Never allow your emotions to run ahead of your head.
Value your future, embrace your future. I have lost all forms of attraction to the female gender, they don't freak me anymore... Front and back.
Many ladies will become Shiloh candidate this year, more traffic to Shiloh. Imagine my friend a lady of 34yrs still been choosy and picky.
A guy came from Germany for her only for the guy to discover that is only yansh she can offer to him and he left and never contacted her again. Guyz value your future don't allow any girl to take rubbish and rubbish you.
#building my future

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Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Nyascobar1414: 11:58pm On Feb 13, 2022
Jennyclay:
You're already running mad oo, Don't you think you need urgent help??

Zukwanuike.

Old HAG... You everywhere...

Wadup Bast*rd...

You,gaped fishy smelly p*ssy feminist..
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by dontrulee: 4:38am On Feb 14, 2022
What baffles me is some ladies and their entitlement mentality.
How a girl with a very bad past wish to get married to a clean guy with a "nice" future is very absurd to me. Most damaged ladies have no other dreams than to get married to a good husband and have a wonderful marriage as if that's all what their lives is about. Shioor

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Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Sammy101111(m): 5:23am On Feb 14, 2022
Bro if some ladies tell you how many time she abort you no go even one go there but how man one know when we are blinded by love.if we man notice woman do the most nasty dirty shit pass because of money .
Because of money you will see a pretty lady dancing naked on the pole for hours entertaining people SO BAD.
dontrulee:
What baffles me is some ladies and their entitlement mentality.
How a girl with a very bad past wish to get married to a clean guy with a "nice" future is very absurd to me. Most damaged ladies have no other dreams than to get married to a good husband and have a wonderful marriage as if that's all what their lives is about. Shioor

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Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Nobody: 7:07am On Feb 14, 2022
kepstone:
Words on marble. Op.
If all guyz can take heed to this advice I think we will put many ladies were they belong. I have had this personnal experience 2 times I made up my mind my mind never to spend on a girl. My last relationship ended Because the so-called girl was entitled. Many girls don't have plans to marry you, but to chop you and use you. When someone better comes, they dump you and move on.
If she wants s not investing in you don't invest in her. If she is not committed you too don't commit. Never allow your emotions to run ahead of your head.
Value your future, embrace your future. I have lost all forms of attraction to the female gender, they don't freak me anymore... Front and back.
Many ladies will become Shiloh candidate this year, more traffic to Shiloh. Imagine my friend a lady of 34yrs still been choosy and picky.
A guy came from Germany for her only for the guy to discover that is only yansh she can offer to him and he left and never contacted her again. Guyz value your future don't allow any girl to take rubbish and rubbish you.
#building my future

this is a timely warning for SIMPS to stop simping around.

Of course, Nigeria girls have absolutely nothing else to offer a man in a relationship apart from their over used pussies. This is why the only thing real niggas like us do, is to bang their pussies, dump them and move on.

Dating a Nigerian girl is a complete waste of time, energy and resources.
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Nobody: 7:12am On Feb 14, 2022
dontrulee:
What baffles me is some ladies and their entitlement mentality.
How a girl with a very bad past wish to get married to a clean guy with a "nice" future is very absurd to me. Most damaged ladies have no other dreams than to get married to a good husband and have a wonderful marriage as if that's all what their lives is about. Shioor

this is nothing but very true bro. you'll see a girl with a very bad past, wishing to get married to a clean guy with a bright future ahead. What an irony!

Unfortunately, SIMPS falls easily for their manipulations and eventually hookup with them for marriage!! This is why Simpson is highly dangerous than cancer!! They always make these girls feel entitled to everything!
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Nobody: 7:16am On Feb 14, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
Good job Op...

Never spend on a nai*a female...

Spend on them= future in trash..
Don't spend On them= future is bright and achievable...


Dailysun newspapers, sorry... Daily evening newspapers will be mounting shiloh ènmass...

If she ain't a virgin, fvck the B!tch and dump her, dont Invest shii....

H0es were meant to be bleeped.oops not only to be fvck but also to be dump....

My real nigga, that's what I'm talking about.

As an OG, the only thing we do is to bang their pussies, dump them and move on.
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by FirmTR(m): 7:25am On Feb 14, 2022
Nice one.
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Sonnobax15(m): 7:43am On Feb 14, 2022
lipsrsealed
Right
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by IbrahimSkiba(f): 7:51am On Feb 14, 2022
CRY CRY BABY grin
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by RealistRedpiler: 8:20am On Feb 14, 2022
Dear women, making money is unisex.
You want a man to take care of you, buy you gift, take you out, what happens to you making the money and spoiling your self??
99% of Nigerian girls are HUNGRY, LAZY AND UN PRODUCTIVE.

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Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by RealistRedpiler: 8:20am On Feb 14, 2022
IbrahimSkiba:
CRY CRY BABY grin


Dear women, making money is unisex.
You want a man to take care of you, buy you gift, take you out, what happens to you making the money and spoiling your self??
99% of Nigerian girls are HUNGRY, LAZY AND UN PRODUCTIVE.
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by IbrahimSkiba(f): 8:22am On Feb 14, 2022
RealistRedpiler:



Dear women, making money is unisex.
You want a man to take care of you, buy you gift, take you out, what happens to you making the money and spoiling your self??
99% of Nigerian girls are HUNGRY, LAZY AND UN PRODUCTIVE.


Are you done? tongue
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by franklingud(m): 8:29am On Feb 14, 2022
Nice piece though
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Torosk1(m): 8:29am On Feb 14, 2022
Who send
Mind your business
What work for you might not work for me

Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by McGg: 8:38am On Feb 14, 2022
Jennyclay:
You're already running mad oo, Don't you think you need urgent help??

Zukwanuike.




Entitled daughter of jezebel spotted
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by RealistRedpiler: 9:05am On Feb 14, 2022
IbrahimSkiba:



Are you done? tongue

If you are a Muslim, don't reply me. Hypocrite
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Tonymegabush1(m): 9:35am On Feb 14, 2022
This is 2022, if men neva get sense by now I wonder when undecided undecided undecided
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Nobody: 9:46am On Feb 14, 2022
Tonymegabush1:
This is 2022, if men neva get sense by now I wonder when undecided undecided undecided

unfortunately, in 20 years time to come, most simps will never have sense at all.
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Aguilar(m): 10:20am On Feb 14, 2022
Seriously girls have nothing to offer in a relationship. Relationship favors them because of the benefits they receive. Ladies that feel entitled in a relationship are not ready to settle down.
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by goshikid: 10:29am On Feb 14, 2022
Jennyclay:
You're already running mad oo, Don't you think you need urgent help??

Zukwanuike.

The day you ever have sense you gonna take the world by storm
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by kepstone: 12:36pm On Feb 14, 2022
I will keep drumming this. As a responsible guy never waste your precious time trying to please a girl who is not your wife in the name of relationship or dating. This is 2021 allow her to be invested in you more as you are invested in her. The keyword her is "RECIPROCITY" if she can't reciprocate your love and gesture, please dump her and move on. Don't be carried away by boobs and yansh, if you are too freak about this you will be so scammed that it will take 12 bottles of anointing oil to deliver you.
Most Ladies in this generation are greedy, stingy, materialistic and incapable of love, note my words of choice most not all, with the exception of the rare gems. Most just think that yansh and boobs is there password to a man's heart and account. Majority lack character, lack ability to keep a man, lacks emotional intelligence and are manipulators in their acts. Guyz shine your eyes, your head and your sense. Never allow anyone come into your zone to make you part away with your money. If you must do show her you care with Money let it be 1% of your worth, it's not by force to spend.
We have so many senseless girls and ladies with unrealistic expectations parading as girlfriend's with nothing meaningful to contribute to a man's life aside entitled mentality.
I have said it if you are not investing I am not investing, if you say I am stingy I delete you sharply. If money was that easy to make let them go and make the money.
If you are looking for a wife as a guy, here are key points to look out for in a lady
� Does she love me truly, there is a difference between I like you and I love you. I like you is under radar of feelings and can be swept under the carpet if the feelings are not longer their.
But I love you means, I will choose to be with you regardless of the situation, I am willing to make sacrifices, compromise, value you and add value to your life. Love is encompassing if your girl can not prove to you she loves you in this regard you have not found a wife.
� Does she respect you.
To a man a responsible man, love means 2things Purpose and respect. Love is not sex to a man but purpose and respect means love to any man. Let me break it down. A woman generally stops loving you when she stops respecting you, she stops loving you when she is not supporting your purpose.
If a girl never respects you she does not love you and if she stops respecting you, she has stopped loving you.
� Is she invested and committed
Don't be decieved a girl calling you and showing some fake care doesn't me she is invested and committed to you.
Even the Bible says we're the treasure of a man is there his heart will be. She can not be committed if she is not invested in you.
Get her to be invested in you, if she treasures you she will be invested in you. Let the investment in you not be based in what she can get from you. There are fake girls who show fake commitment.
Example, I date one girl I felt was in love with me and I never knew I was a bridge to the other side of life for her, I invested my money, was committed and did everything, yet this lady never for one day invested even 500 naira in my life within space of 18 months I had spent 650k on this girl and nothing for me. Never even saw her pants, yet she was sleeping with other guyz. My pastor has to call me to order, telling can't you see that this person doesn't love. We were already in premarital counseling when I cut off the wedding plans and we discovered she got pregnant for another guy. Despite my love and sacrifice when the highest bidder came I was dumped. Life goes on I moved on.
Look at the things she does for you and around you, it is a key indicator to were her heart is.
Example 2
I once dated my Ex who was good to me until genotype stopped us from moving forward with the relationship.
She was lovely everything I wanted and she did love me from her heart. She will call me to know how I am doing, cook for me and bring to my house, she will come to my house and clean up, I will go to house and she still treats me with uttermost respect, despite we been in the same age bracket she still calls me sir and calls me baby. She was 247 super supportive of me and also invested her time, resources, I did d same for her as well.
As we progressed in the relationship we got to discovered we are both AS and yet she wanted us to have intimate relationship, when I knew I was not going marry her because if the Genotype stuff I told her, I love her enough not to sleep with her, so we parted ways without us having intimate relationship.
She is married now, she told my pastor I am one of the best guy who came into her life and never took advantage of her. The day we decided to end the Relationship, she came to my house with food and we talked and she cried and I told her it's okay babe life happens.
This is love. I had to cut off from her to face her marriage and totally love her husband.
� Character
What's this girls character towards you, towards people. It's very important. A woman who loves you and values you, her character towards you will be that if love constantly. Even if there are issues she will still wants to be with you and resolve the matter.
Character defines the beauty of a woman.
Is she appreciative, does she forgives, does she give to you, us she empathetic about people and you, is she concerned about your feelings, your fights in life. Truly it's not easy been ba man, I mean a real man, alot of ladies don't know what we men go through that's why they really don't understand it not easy out there so they want to get things easy. But that's not how life operates, you must be sure that this person is so empathetic and understand your situation at every point in time. There girls who have lost good guyz because of there nonchalant attitude.
Value character above anything else.
Look out for the character flaws like, excessive anger and rage, pride, u forgiveness, malice, unfaithfulness, selfishness, greed. I know no one is perfect but please character flaws needs to be checked.
� Does this person supports you.
If the lady you want to marry never supports you, financially, spiritually, emotionally and mentally you may have to have a rethink. Please never down play the importance of her ability to support you. Look out for it. A lady who is supportive you will see the signs by her selflessness towards you she is majorly looking out for you.
�Is she faithful
This one can't be compromised, she has to be for you and you alone.
� She has to be submissive and God-fearing
The lady you want to wife must be submissive to you, I mean she can literally listen to you and adhear to your voice and suggestion. She has to also be God fearing
I know there are good ladies out there as well as good guyz. Please never treat a good lady bad. Never never, if you find one keep her.
Re: Stop Investing In Relationships More Than Your Future: A Bitter Experience! by Nobody: 12:52pm On Feb 14, 2022
kepstone:
I will keep drumming this. As a responsible guy never waste your precious time trying to please a girl who is not your wife in the name of relationship or dating. This is 2021 allow her to be invested in you more as you are invested in her. The keyword her is "RECIPROCITY" if she can't reciprocate your love and gesture, please dump her and move on. Don't be carried away by boobs and yansh, if you are too freak about this you will be so scammed that it will take 12 bottles of anointing oil to deliver you.
Most Ladies in this generation are greedy, stingy, materialistic and incapable of love, note my words of choice most not all, with the exception of the rare gems. Most just think that yansh and boobs is there password to a man's heart and account. Majority lack character, lack ability to keep a man, lacks emotional intelligence and are manipulators in their acts. Guyz shine your eyes, your head and your sense. Never allow anyone come into your zone to make you part away with your money. If you must do show her you care with Money let it be 1% of your worth, it's not by force to spend.
We have so many senseless girls and ladies with unrealistic expectations parading as girlfriend's with nothing meaningful to contribute to a man's life aside entitled mentality.
I have said it if you are not investing I am not investing, if you say I am stingy I delete you sharply. If money was that easy to make let them go and make the money.
If you are looking for a wife as a guy, here are key points to look out for in a lady
� Does she love me truly, there is a difference between I like you and I love you. I like you is under radar of feelings and can be swept under the carpet if the feelings are not longer their.
But I love you means, I will choose to be with you regardless of the situation, I am willing to make sacrifices, compromise, value you and add value to your life. Love is encompassing if your girl can not prove to you she loves you in this regard you have not found a wife.
� Does she respect you.
To a man a responsible man, love means 2things Purpose and respect. Love is not sex to a man but purpose and respect means love to any man. Let me break it down. A woman generally stops loving you when she stops respecting you, she stops loving you when she is not supporting your purpose.
If a girl never respects you she does not love you and if she stops respecting you, she has stopped loving you.
� Is she invested and committed
Don't be decieved a girl calling you and showing some fake care doesn't me she is invested and committed to you.
Even the Bible says we're the treasure of a man is there his heart will be. She can not be committed if she is not invested in you.
Get her to be invested in you, if she treasures you she will be invested in you. Let the investment in you not be based in what she can get from you. There are fake girls who show fake commitment.
Example, I date one girl I felt was in love with me and I never knew I was a bridge to the other side of life for her, I invested my money, was committed and did everything, yet this lady never for one day invested even 500 naira in my life within space of 18 months I had spent 650k on this girl and nothing for me. Never even saw her pants, yet she was sleeping with other guyz. My pastor has to call me to order, telling can't you see that this person doesn't love. We were already in premarital counseling when I cut off the wedding plans and we discovered she got pregnant for another guy. Despite my love and sacrifice when the highest bidder came I was dumped. Life goes on I moved on.
Look at the things she does for you and around you, it is a key indicator to were her heart is.
Example 2
I once dated my Ex who was good to me until genotype stopped us from moving forward with the relationship.
She was lovely everything I wanted and she did love me from her heart. She will call me to know how I am doing, cook for me and bring to my house, she will come to my house and clean up, I will go to house and she still treats me with uttermost respect, despite we been in the same age bracket she still calls me sir and calls me baby. She was 247 super supportive of me and also invested her time, resources, I did d same for her as well.
As we progressed in the relationship we got to discovered we are both AS and yet she wanted us to have intimate relationship, when I knew I was not going marry her because if the Genotype stuff I told her, I love her enough not to sleep with her, so we parted ways without us having intimate relationship.
She is married now, she told my pastor I am one of the best guy who came into her life and never took advantage of her. The day we decided to end the Relationship, she came to my house with food and we talked and she cried and I told her it's okay babe life happens.
This is love. I had to cut off from her to face her marriage and totally love her husband.
� Character
What's this girls character towards you, towards people. It's very important. A woman who loves you and values you, her character towards you will be that if love constantly. Even if there are issues she will still wants to be with you and resolve the matter.
Character defines the beauty of a woman.
Is she appreciative, does she forgives, does she give to you, us she empathetic about people and you, is she concerned about your feelings, your fights in life. Truly it's not easy been ba man, I mean a real man, alot of ladies don't know what we men go through that's why they really don't understand it not easy out there so they want to get things easy. But that's not how life operates, you must be sure that this person is so empathetic and understand your situation at every point in time. There girls who have lost good guyz because of there nonchalant attitude.
Value character above anything else.
Look out for the character flaws like, excessive anger and rage, pride, u forgiveness, malice, unfaithfulness, selfishness, greed. I know no one is perfect but please character flaws needs to be checked.
� Does this person supports you.
If the lady you want to marry never supports you, financially, spiritually, emotionally and mentally you may have to have a rethink. Please never down play the importance of her ability to support you. Look out for it. A lady who is supportive you will see the signs by her selflessness towards you she is majorly looking out for you.
�Is she faithful
This one can't be compromised, she has to be for you and you alone.
� She has to be submissive and God-fearing
The lady you want to wife must be submissive to you, I mean she can literally listen to you and adhear to your voice and suggestion. She has to also be God fearing
I know there are good ladies out there as well as good guyz. Please never treat a good lady bad. Never never, if you find one keep her.


Well said bro. 100% true!!!

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