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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Awoo88: 9:31am On Feb 16, 2022 |
persin dey tink of house rent, school fees, family matters etc. sex no go solve all those problem 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by esanmantruth: 9:31am On Feb 16, 2022 |
Thanks for this observation, at first I thought it was a bad signal or sickness or even weakness in me. Even when they are in front of me naked noting moves me and if at all just once and I don’t think of anything about it again. But with your observation, I feel good a little. lecturer50: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by AgentMiah: 9:31am On Feb 16, 2022 |
They have passed the bloom of youth or youthful age. I kinda like the expression "Normal person" or so. |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by candidladyTemp(f): 9:32am On Feb 16, 2022 |
Dawn91: So you noticed... You could also join the long queue of haters... Again shuuuu fly |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Osanoghodua1: 9:32am On Feb 16, 2022 |
I parted ways with my gf in 2009 and told her, I wanted to serve God and leave foolishness. She thought I was joking, I resisted all her attempt to get me unzip her, I stay focus on God for 9 consistence years before walking someone's daughter the aisle. Pre marital sex is a quick killer of destiny. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Dawn91(m): 9:35am On Feb 16, 2022 |
candidladyTemp: I don't hate only love. You are not worth my time to direct such negative emotions toward. Go and be good, depression should be tackled so you can live a fulfiled life Enjoy the rest of your morning. Bye 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by drealbenard(m): 9:35am On Feb 16, 2022 |
The sex drive of men in that age range tend to reduce while that of women in the same age range increases exponentially. |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by b5ive(m): 9:35am On Feb 16, 2022 |
At that age, maturity sets in. @20ies your sex hormones are still very much proactive as u would want to explore every sexual fantasy. @late30ies you must have experienced a lot especially with females, your sex drive at these age is mostly minimal because now you are focused on career/business/growth and development etc. Sex would most definitely be the least of your worries at this age because you can have it at your beck n call. There is a saying that "men dont crave what they already own", @early 40ies u must have achieved a lot in life so therefore its ok to say u can afford whatever u crave including women; in the case of an unmarried man. Responsibilities, aspirations etc abounds, sex will most definitely be the least of your worries. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by chidyke77(m): 9:36am On Feb 16, 2022 |
They have a family or business they are more focused on. Secondly, their libido has started dropping. Thirdly, the are married and no more looking for sex. |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Michaelbjune(m): 9:37am On Feb 16, 2022 |
Double0h7:continue |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by candidladyTemp(f): 9:39am On Feb 16, 2022 |
Dawn91: Saigobe Do have a lovely day... |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Nobody: 9:39am On Feb 16, 2022 |
It's Testosterone decrease. Erection reduces and lasting longer no longer appeals. Then why waste your precious silver and gold on a sex venture except it comes with an extra moet. |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by FishySmell: 9:41am On Feb 16, 2022 |
FishySmell things 1 Like
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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by gidado14(m): 9:41am On Feb 16, 2022 |
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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by iezeiyida(m): 9:44am On Feb 16, 2022 |
I'm in my twenties but unlike many others in their twenties I'm very responsible when it comes to sex. I'm friendly to young female friends but if I have no real feelings for you, if I really don't like you, I swear you and I can sleep on same bed for days, but forget it because I will shock you by not coming to you for sex. Not for fear of rejection but because I feel nothing for you 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by naija4life247: 9:44am On Feb 16, 2022 |
After having sex from age 15 to age 40, that's good 25 years, shouldn't you have had enough to now avoid adultery and concentrate on your wife? Or do you want to die in action? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Olayetan(m): 9:44am On Feb 16, 2022 |
It’s pure responsibility that reduces that sex libido 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Dmacqh(m): 9:47am On Feb 16, 2022 |
This should be thread for people within the range of (35-40) years . But as I’m still in my very early 20s , I don’t think my opinion will reflect the truth . Fact of life is , when you grow older both man and woman , you tend to make wiser decisions. Everything about you changes , dressing , cliques , bills etc . During those years ,you mostly belong to professional bodies , village and town unions . And you are expected to have a family and maybe you are done with child birthing . This things may likely hinder your movements, ( clubbing is once in a while , you don’t indiscriminate smoke and you curtail your youthful exuberance) . Your flexibility is curtailed So it’s not out of place if you curtail your sexual involvement . For the hormones due to age to decrease I’m not sure . Bills aren’t for a particular age . There are younger guys in their 20s having bills higher than men in 40s and 50s . Older men lust more than younger men. The difference is that you view sex as a pleasure not treasure . You don’t kill yourself to impress . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by 752hub: 9:48am On Feb 16, 2022 |
performance don drop |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by SweetDipBenny(m): 9:49am On Feb 16, 2022 |
We got bills to pay Sèx no d pay bill 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by coolhumble(m): 9:51am On Feb 16, 2022 |
I think I'm one of those normal males... sex isn't that important rather than making sure the future is secured and you can be rest assured that even if your children do not give you have more than enough to do whatever you want when you get to the old boring age. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by israelnedion(m): 9:51am On Feb 16, 2022 |
You are on point. Very intelligent comment 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Broveens42(m): 9:53am On Feb 16, 2022 |
candidladyTemp: The truth is ... The meal of an average Nigerian man is nothing to write home about. Rice in the morning and yam in the afternoon. When you are in an environment where you can afford varieties of food including fruits and vegetables, you will be kicking all the time. Infact your boo will think you use Viagra 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Proffessorr: 9:55am On Feb 16, 2022 |
lecturer50: From experience, that’s a period where a man is thinking of creating legacy and achieving important things. For instance, owning “real” landed property, establishing/nurturing a viable business outfit, grooming the kids, working to achieve a balanced marital life and consolidating gains from earlier years to build a career. In fact, that’s a period one gets positioned for major strides career-wise. A lot of CFOs, Group Heads, Executives etc fall within this age range or are identified/“anointed” around that age range. For those who are unable to achieve major achievements at that age range, they’re busy trying to make amends before it gets too late. As such, many of them would rather dissipate energy on achievements, rather than s*x.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Yxxx: 9:56am On Feb 16, 2022 |
All of you saying sex drive declines with age, why do we have so many sugar daddies? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by SmartyPants(m): 9:57am On Feb 16, 2022 |
pansophist: You are saying the same thing |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Bernardinho992: 9:58am On Feb 16, 2022 |
Anytime Nairaland tire me, I go just vex enter Ghana. nice forum .Up Ghana. com. Atoucasa5: I joined the forum because I want to date a Ghana girl 1 Like
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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Betboss(m): 9:58am On Feb 16, 2022 |
Kenmatt: I don't know when personal assumptions became public opinion. Anyways, Nigerians are hypocritical in nature generally. |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Pholadime(m): 9:59am On Feb 16, 2022 |
Maturity and more responsibilities sets in at that time . |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by NairaMaster1(m): 9:59am On Feb 16, 2022 |
lecturer50: They have seen all. |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by winner37(m): 10:01am On Feb 16, 2022 |
Am on my early twenties i see nothing so precious in having sex,everything boils down on the earlier you started thinking deeply about yourself and your future that will be when maturity,self control and seriousness will show up. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Remman(m): 10:03am On Feb 16, 2022 |
I'm in my late 20s and I'm a proud NO TO SEX... 2 Likes |
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