DamnnNiggarr:
My experience with her wasn't my first experience with the police officers but what interests me the most is because I knew this lady too well, I've encountered many wicked officers in the past and keep on hearing the oppression by the police officers from the civilians. I can't stop being surprised each time I remember what happened at the police station. I'm even planning to go back to the station to meet her one-on-one after everything subside.

what is the rationale behind the sudden change in attitude immediately anyone joins the Nigerian police?
Is there any explanation to it? I want to know.

DamnnNiggarr:
why the sudden change in attitude immediately anyone joins the Nigerian police?
please, this might be a little lengthy,
Have you ever noticed nor experienced a drastic change in the attitude of someone you used to know that joined the Nigerian police? (please, this is not in any way an attempt to discredit the Nigerian Police Force),

I asked the above question based on what happened at a police station on Friday and ever since the incidence occured, I haven't been myself and I keep on wondering why the system has to be programmed to function that way.

So what happened? why was I at the police station on Friday?
Let me put it this way,
Towards the end of last month (January), a young man of about 23/24 years old, which I shared the same compound/house but different flats with his parents, had a serious altercation with his father which lead to a serious exchange of blows when his father compared him with a notorious yahoo boy in the area, a week later, the angry father arrested and dumped his son in the police cell with a warning never to let anyone get him out of the cell, not even his mom nor his uncles, the boy has been in the cell since 8 of February. According to the mother, the father is not showing any change in his decision, he keeps hardening his heart which made the poor woman to plead with me to have a discussion with her husband to see if I can convince him to have a change of decision.

I met the man and we discussed at length, I was able to convince him to have a change of decision by making him see numerous reasons why he shouldn't abandon his child in the police cell but pride couldn't let him go to the station, he was like "I can't go back to what I vomited" he then asked me to go to the station with his wife.

on getting to the station, the IPO in charge of the boy's case was an old time girl friend of my course mate then at Unizik.
during those days, while I was still a bachelor, she visits and makes a total cleanup of the room, she wash, cook and does all manner of house chores. She was very humble, obedient, caring and down to Earth, I liked her dearly for all these features but bro code kept me away from her, she's beautiful as well.

Immediately I saw her, I was smart enough to recognize her and called her by her name, she wash shocked and she was as well smart enough to recognize me ( you could imagine the kind of joy that engulfed my heart, for my mind, the case has been closed and forgotten) and we greeted ourselves as old time friends we used to be.

I quickly told her what brought us to the station but her response changed my mood instantly, she was like "that criminal that fought his father?" I responded "Yes" but his father sent us to the station to initiate the bailout processes with you. She scolded at me like a wounded lion, she threatened to command one of her male colleague to shoot at me if I don't get away from her, I pleaded with her, reminding her of all the good times we spent together but all my pleas felled on deaf ears and she threatened me one more time that she would be left with no other option than to put me and the woman in the cell if we didn't move away from the police premises.
I had no other option than to take to my heels, we went back to the man and told him what transpired at the station. He went by himself yesterday and initiated the bailout processes and the boy was bailed out.

My experience with her wasn't my first experience with the police officers but what interests me the most is because I knew this lady too well, I've encountered many wicked officers in the past and keep on hearing the oppression by the police officers from the civilians. I can't stop being surprised each time I remember what happened at the police station. I'm even planning to go back to the station to meet her one-on-one after everything subside.

what is the rationale behind the sudden change in attitude immediately anyone joins the Nigerian police?
Is there any explanation to it? I want to know.

lalasticlala
Seun
Mynd44
dominique

Kobojunkie:
What sudden change?

So you used to know her a certain way from her past.... why associate the change to her current profession when you don't know this for sure. For all we know her experience with your college flatmate may have been the beginning of the change for her.

Kosoco:
a very fat lie..... So your old time friend that shouted and laughed when she saw you also scolded you and ordered to shoot you... bro nobody be kid for Nairaland. Lies does not make front page.... .. get another story let's review it

Loewe:
@DamnNiggarr

You don't need to go back to the station to meet her. It is what it is. Also, it doesn't apply to the police force alone. People generally tend to change when you haven't been in contact for long, some change for good, some for worse. I have my own examples too...

You also need to realize that a lot of Nigerians get easily power drunken, especially women in positions. That's why a lot of people hate female bosses. A male officer would have been more respectful in his manners, even if he wouldn't grant your request.

DamnnNiggarr:
why the sudden change in attitude immediately anyone joins the Nigerian police?
please, this might be a little lengthy,
Have you ever noticed nor experienced a drastic change in the attitude of someone you used to know that joined the Nigerian police? (please, this is not in any way an attempt to discredit the Nigerian Police Force),

I asked the above question based on what happened at a police station on Friday and ever since the incidence occured, I haven't been myself and I keep on wondering why the system has to be programmed to function that way.

So what happened? why was I at the police station on Friday?
Let me put it this way,
Towards the end of last month (January), a young man of about 23/24 years old, which I shared the same compound/house but different flats with his parents, had a serious altercation with his father which lead to a serious exchange of blows when his father compared him with a notorious yahoo boy in the area, a week later, the angry father arrested and dumped his son in the police cell with a warning never to let anyone get him out of the cell, not even his mom nor his uncles, the boy has been in the cell since 8 of February. According to the mother, the father is not showing any change in his decision, he keeps hardening his heart which made the poor woman to plead with me to have a discussion with her husband to see if I can convince him to have a change of decision.

I met the man and we discussed at length, I was able to convince him to have a change of decision by making him see numerous reasons why he shouldn't abandon his child in the police cell but pride couldn't let him go to the station, he was like "I can't go back to what I vomited" he then asked me to go to the station with his wife.

on getting to the station, the IPO in charge of the boy's case was an old time girl friend of my course mate then at Unizik.
during those days, while I was still a bachelor, she visits and makes a total cleanup of the room, she wash, cook and does all manner of house chores. She was very humble, obedient, caring and down to Earth, I liked her dearly for all these features but bro code kept me away from her, she's beautiful as well.

Immediately I saw her, I was smart enough to recognize her and called her by her name, she wash shocked and she was as well smart enough to recognize me ( you could imagine the kind of joy that engulfed my heart, for my mind, the case has been closed and forgotten) and we greeted ourselves as old time friends we used to be.

I quickly told her what brought us to the station but her response changed my mood instantly, she was like "that criminal that fought his father?" I responded "Yes" but his father sent us to the station to initiate the bailout processes with you. She scolded at me like a wounded lion, she threatened to command one of her male colleague to shoot at me if I don't get away from her, I pleaded with her, reminding her of all the good times we spent together but all my pleas felled on deaf ears and she threatened me one more time that she would be left with no other option than to put me and the woman in the cell if we didn't move away from the police premises.
I had no other option than to take to my heels, we went back to the man and told him what transpired at the station. He went by himself yesterday and initiated the bailout processes and the boy was bailed out.

My experience with her wasn't my first experience with the police officers but what interests me the most is because I knew this lady too well, I've encountered many wicked officers in the past and keep on hearing the oppression by the police officers from the civilians. I can't stop being surprised each time I remember what happened at the police station. I'm even planning to go back to the station to meet her one-on-one after everything subside.

what is the rationale behind the sudden change in attitude immediately anyone joins the Nigerian police?
Is there any explanation to it? I want to know.

lalasticlala
Seun
Mynd44
dominique

Kosoco:
a very fat lie..... So your old time friend that shouted and laughed when she saw you also scolded you and ordered to shoot you... bro nobody be kid for Nairaland. Lies does not make front page.... .. get another story let's review it

I didn't understand that part too... I read that paragraph twice thinking that I skipped some part ..

The dramatic change of character was over fast ... But we don't have to dismiss his experience.

Though I understand his write up.. I will never be friends with a police officer.. God forbid... Not even abroad officers... I don't just like the profession..

fineboynl:
She might thought you people are lying. She can't grant that without the father. Also they will bill the man for all the days they kept the son in prison.

Tallesty1:
This can be communicated without threats.


@Something similar happened to me a few years ago. I was in the village for something and emblem people seized the Japan Mate that I use in the village.


How much? The guy said N1500. They sell the emblem at N100 but because I was caught without it, the price skyrocketed to N1500. I said ok, take 1k and keep the emblem. I don't need it.

The reason is that I don't visit the village twice in a year(unless something serious comes up) so by the time I will be there again, the emblem would have become useless.

Dude refused. Said N1500 or they take me to their office and chain the Mate. Dude became violent and threatened to break my head, Omoh nah so I joined in the madness. You can threaten me anywhere but not where I grew up.

Small boy fah.

Las las I ended up in their office and the Mate was chained as he promised but I noticed that the person in charge was my deputy in secondary school. I walked up to her with a smile on my face but she shunned me like I have a communicable disease.

The thing vex me so I made a call and the person on the other end told me to give the phone to whoever is there but nobody agreed to take the phone.

He told me to wait that he was coming. Fear gripped all of them when he showed up and I am sure they wondered how a guy like me can get a man like him to leave what he was doing and come to their office.

Long story short, the man ordered them to unchain not just my mate but all the other chained motorcycles and their owners went home with them. Everyone present collected free rate and emblem.

There are jobs that change people from good to bad.

Richy4:


I didn't understand that part too... I read that paragraph twice thinking that I skipped some part ..

The dramatic change of character was over fast ... But we don't have to dismiss his experience.

Though I understand his write up.. I will never be friends with a police officer.. God forbid... Not even abroad officers... I don't just like the profession..

DamnnNiggarr:
why the sudden change in attitude immediately anyone joins the Nigerian police?
please, this might be a little lengthy,
Have you ever noticed nor experienced a drastic change in the attitude of someone you used to know that joined the Nigerian police? (please, this is not in any way an attempt to discredit the Nigerian Police Force),

I asked the above question based on what happened at a police station on Friday and ever since the incidence occured, I haven't been myself and I keep on wondering why the system has to be programmed to function that way.

So what happened? why was I at the police station on Friday?
Let me put it this way,
Towards the end of last month (January), a young man of about 23/24 years old, which I shared the same compound/house but different flats with his parents, had a serious altercation with his father which lead to a serious exchange of blows when his father compared him with a notorious yahoo boy in the area, a week later, the angry father arrested and dumped his son in the police cell with a warning never to let anyone get him out of the cell, not even his mom nor his uncles, the boy has been in the cell since 8 of February. According to the mother, the father is not showing any change in his decision, he keeps hardening his heart which made the poor woman to plead with me to have a discussion with her husband to see if I can convince him to have a change of decision.

I met the man and we discussed at length, I was able to convince him to have a change of decision by making him see numerous reasons why he shouldn't abandon his child in the police cell but pride couldn't let him go to the station, he was like "I can't go back to what I vomited" he then asked me to go to the station with his wife.

on getting to the station, the IPO in charge of the boy's case was an old time girl friend of my course mate then at Unizik.
during those days, while I was still a bachelor, she visits and makes a total cleanup of the room, she wash, cook and does all manner of house chores. She was very humble, obedient, caring and down to Earth, I liked her dearly for all these features but bro code kept me away from her, she's beautiful as well.

Immediately I saw her, I was smart enough to recognize her and called her by her name, she wash shocked and she was as well smart enough to recognize me ( you could imagine the kind of joy that engulfed my heart, for my mind, the case has been closed and forgotten) and we greeted ourselves as old time friends we used to be.

I quickly told her what brought us to the station but her response changed my mood instantly, she was like "that criminal that fought his father?" I responded "Yes" but his father sent us to the station to initiate the bailout processes with you. She scolded at me like a wounded lion, she threatened to command one of her male colleague to shoot at me if I don't get away from her, I pleaded with her, reminding her of all the good times we spent together but all my pleas felled on deaf ears and she threatened me one more time that she would be left with no other option than to put me and the woman in the cell if we didn't move away from the police premises.
I had no other option than to take to my heels, we went back to the man and told him what transpired at the station. He went by himself yesterday and initiated the bailout processes and the boy was bailed out.

My experience with her wasn't my first experience with the police officers but what interests me the most is because I knew this lady too well, I've encountered many wicked officers in the past and keep on hearing the oppression by the police officers from the civilians. I can't stop being surprised each time I remember what happened at the police station. I'm even planning to go back to the station to meet her one-on-one after everything subside. I don't know the reasons for her action but I believe it was because of the instructions given to them by the Man. But she over did it, she overreacted.

what is the rationale behind the sudden change in attitude immediately anyone joins the Nigerian police?
Is there any explanation to it? I want to know.

lalasticlala
Seun
Mynd44
dominique

Tallesty1:
This can be communicated without threats.


@Something similar happened to me a few years ago. I was in the village for something and emblem people seized the Japan Mate that I use in the village.


How much? The guy said N1500. They sell the emblem at N100 but because I was caught without it, the price skyrocketed to N1500. I said ok, take 1k and keep the emblem. I don't need it.

The reason is that I don't visit the village twice in a year(unless something serious comes up) so by the time I will be there again, the emblem would have become useless.

Dude refused. Said N1500 or they take me to their office and chain the Mate. Dude became violent and threatened to break my head, Omoh nah so I joined in the madness. You can threaten me anywhere but not where I grew up.

Small boy fah.

Las las I ended up in their office and the Mate was chained as he promised but I noticed that the person in charge was my deputy in secondary school. I walked up to her with a smile on my face but she shunned me like I have a communicable disease.

The thing vex me so I made a call and the person on the other end told me to give the phone to whoever is there but nobody agreed to take the phone.

He told me to wait that he was coming. Fear gripped all of them when he showed up and I am sure they wondered how a guy like me can get a man like him to leave what he was doing and come to their office.

Long story short, the man ordered them to unchain not just my mate but all the other chained motorcycles and their owners went home with them. Everyone present collected free rate and emblem.

There are jobs that change people from good to bad.

Foodqueen:
I won't doubt your believe but let me help you Abit..

Don't hype a lady that isn't married as nice, they can pretend to be anything, trust me, it's in our DNA.

Do u know why she didn't marry your friend How are u sure, u weren't part of the reason your friend broke up with her, according to your friend's story.remember the way guys lie to cover up their mess.