adebayo987:
lol... She's a cheat! And that's a fact. Bankers always knows account details and they do the unthinkable with rich guys. She didn't tell the guy that she was fine or even care to ease his mind from worries. It's always normal for girls not to be in love with someone who loves them geniunely but has no much money. A girl who is in a relationship and switched off her phone for days and unexplained whereabout is confirmed by friends and neighbors is a cheat. I don't know what you're defending in this scenario.

Ok

justli:


I tire for the guy matter. He's even calling a fellow man he just sighted in his car ugly and slow. And the op obviously lacks confidence thinking good look is all he needs.

Aptly put..

nkemchineke:
All ur coments are just DUMB. Pls who are u? how did u get to be soooooooooo dumb.

Ok

Goodvibes8:
I haven't seen any Uber driver using SUV Lexus LX with an elderly man on starch native before.

Why would she off her phone for 2 days without telling me her boyfriend her whereabout??

There is light in her area to always charge her phone. Infact the nature of her job requires more light to operate. So why did she off her phone??

I'm her boyfriend for crying out loud. At least I'm suppose to know her whereabout.

I don't believe she could cheat on me. I'm loosing my mind.

De Puna hav been bleeped 4 longtime,
It cant be Unbleeped, imagine u havin long distance relationship, so u no see better gal in Ogun way u go fit reason wit??
Bank ladies bleep de big men 2 get promotions in de bank, hav it in ur brain
But de way u approached her is bad, comot from car approach am lik say na ur wife, de brag,,,,

Na her deposit mobilizer be that. Most bank female marketers have sugar daddies that give them deposits to keep their job. I worked in bank so I know what obtains there.

I will never advise my younger ones to marry bank marketing staff. Never!

YinkaOlusesi16:
i ve been noticing u on diz forum, u like defending women when they are wrong, dem nova show u shege, that`s why u like defending them when they are wrong.

because she is actually also a bend down piss gender.

Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

because of one runs girl this one they write epistle? Oga abeg get out.

Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

Is Good to trust people until they prove you wrong

You have tried coming to Lagos at such deadly hour just to be sure she is fine, only for her to come out of a vehicle with another man

Now e don happen, she has chosen her part and you have to let her go

She will still come back to ask for apology, accept the apology, yes accept it so that you will be free from the heart, then block her for life

No time to be wasting time on a time that is meant for another man

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Did you discuss with her?
A car dropped her and you quickly concluded that she's cheating..
Well-done..keep concluding and bringing your issues here..

Is that what you are supposed to do? instead of sitting her down and tell her how you feel you are seeking advice from a section that reeks of MISOGYNY?

You are right! Jumping into conclusions most times ain't good actually but the way ladies cheat nowadays eeh...I even fear for them, with all these rugged niggas and monsters everywhere.

The truth is, if you are dating a cheat, you would definitely know, one way or the other...be it male or female.

God will help us all!!

Sorry man but don't worry las las you go dey alright

As the girl take enter your eyes naso e dey enter other people's eyes stop simping. Girls whether banker or reverend sister will sleep with any man they like whether ugly or poor.

Ojukwu007:
You are right! Jumping into conclusions most times ain't good actually but the way ladies cheat nowadays eeh...I even fear for them, with all these rugged niggas and monsters everywhere.

The truth is, if you are dating a cheat, you would definitely know, one way or the other...be it male or female.

God will help us all!!

Thanks for your comment o really appreciate..

Damn!
This hoes ain't loyal, always know this kings

As in it is very annoying oh. I wonder what the admin is doing about it

nkemchineke:
He never makes sense truly. Fernandez the senseless/

Guy! I can see you are not doing bad as man, pls, go to ur village or Facebook hook up to start convo with a decent educated lady n get urself ready to wife her in a short while to avoid this kind of heartbreak.

Sorry man, this type of heartbreak pain alot, you will be shivering n expecting to meet ur girl at home but in d end is not.

While doing d hook up things, avoid any ladies below 25yrs of age abeg.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Na who fine boy epp?

Oga go and make money so that you can bang any woman you want wether marriedor single

Married kuma ? You can do all kind of sin but don’t follow someone’s wife.

If you lose your mind, that old man will still be fucking her. If you commit suicide, the orgasm that old Baba will give her would make you shake in your grave. So, you better have senses, and start talking to other women. In time, you will find someone you like, and life goes on. And who says you must be in a relationship to be happy? Using myself as an example, I've not been able to bring myself to love or trust a woman, consequently, I've not been in a relationship since 2018, but then, I do have sex from time to time. Finding love is the least of my problems. I don't even think I'm capable of loving deeply anymore, but I'm still happy and comfortable not being in a relationship with anyone.
If you must be in a relationship, you must first be comfortable to be by yourself.

Goodvibes8:
I haven't seen any Uber driver using SUV Lexus LX with an elderly man on starch native before.

Why would she off her phone for 2 days without telling me her boyfriend her whereabout??

There is light in her area to always charge her phone. Infact the nature of her job requires more light to operate. So why did she off her phone??

I'm her boyfriend for crying out loud. At least I'm suppose to know her whereabout.

I don't believe she could cheat on me. I'm loosing my mind.

Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

Bro, take it easy nah. Na you be her first boy friend? Life is chop make I chop. God will surely provide better woman for you.

Move on!!!

Alabihaskillus:
With 3,904,727,342 billion females in this planet you're here contemplating suicide bcuz of one over used pucci? Instead of banging it n passing, you're banging n keeping for yourself and by yourself. Now you're just a few naira notes away from a sniper purchase bcuz of pucci... ....What a clown

Mumu

YinkaOlusesi16:
i ve been noticing u on diz forum, u like defending women when they are wrong, dem nova show u shege, that`s why u like defending them when they are wrong.

Guy na woman be that banny

So sorry � that your cake � was served early enough before courtship/marriage. To me I will advise you move on with your life because that her job is pro to multiple affair because of monthly targets and type of people she met on daily basis...

My 1kobo advice

Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

Just look at the bolded

When will some of you learn

To knack you jazz just dey hungry me

You deserve everything she is doing to you since you no wan use your brain

Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

Apart from your mother and sister, no Nigerian woman is worth crying over. Don't be a simp. Move on. God will provide a better woman, preferably non-Nigerian.

Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

Bruv, you just got the signal that it's time to move on, you are not Russia and she's not Ukraine, no try form Putin on top this matter. The girl doesn't want you, accept and move on.

Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

Your girl is the average GREEDY young woman...

It's good it's happening this way..

You'll learn and grow..

Forget about her and move along with you life..

My dear brother this is how people are be, so continue to thanking ur God, but I noticed that majority bankers men and women are Olosho, Please just calm your self down she will soon regret her actions. And please stop thinking about of her because she is not your future wife, and if she notices that you still worry about of her , she will thinks that u will never do anything without her so i beg you zero zero zero her from your heart ok, because u sounds responsible man. Obirin I beg forget.

chukwuibuipob:
better nor kill Urself on top of Useless free thing.Move on.

Free? Didn't u read the part where op said he has sacrificed a lot for her. See eh I think the reason why some ppl feel so bad seeing their partner cheat is when the person remember all he/she has done or sacrificed in the relationship.

Goodvibes8:
I haven't seen any Uber driver using SUV Lexus LX with an elderly man on starch native before.

Why would she off her phone for 2 days without telling me her boyfriend her whereabout??

There is light in her area to always charge her phone. Infact the nature of her job requires more light to operate. So why did she off her phone??

I'm her boyfriend for crying out loud. At least I'm suppose to know her whereabout.

I don't believe she could cheat on me. I'm loosing my mind.

The car she came in definitely raises serious questions and suspicions.

I asked u is she a marketer in the bank? These gals do crazy things for deposits they are under pressure and some are just desperate.

Obviously ur her bf bt does she care about that as her priority?? Obviously No! She doesn’t care shit. Sacrificing for Sm1 in a relationship only shows u are serious bt doesn’t mean/show the other person u sacrificing for will do same until u test there own level of commitment and honesty. Sacrifices mean nothing if it’s not both ways.

Probably her plans was to say her Fone went bad and she fixed it later or it got missing. I still don’t know why she put her fone off though cos she could have still done what she did while still having her fones on.

If she doesn’t call u for an explanation she doesn’t value u and or anything u did or do. And u crying over her shows ure not in control of this relationship. She is supposed to be crying over u. Uve been stressing urself over the wrong gal and there are always signs. She didn’t start 2day.

Love slowly and with ur senses not blinded by love. Ure learning now I guess. Next time u want to date a gal u know how to handle them based on their type of job description and personal character also.

Are you normal?

Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

If you want to stop her cheating and have dominion over her marry her. Girls 98% are like that. They don't love who love them including guys. Marry her she may stop. Meanwhile it is the Hallmark of banking. Those ladies are LovePeddler. They see everyone's account balance and target the guys The man may not be the only person. So more cries are coming your way

Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

EPA you get problem o. You left Lagos to go and visit a girl you suspected. If your guts tells you she is cheating, biitch is probably doing it.