Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Artiiclebeast: 2:29pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
It is well even in the well... |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by edunaragold(f): 2:32pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
yinkeys: Relationships are dead. Don’t bring in kids to this life if you don’t have at least $1 million to properly finance children’s sports, formal, martial, creative education etc. Nigerian economy has gone to the dogs. It’s bad times for blacks in the global political space. Just pump and dump. Have fun
“What most menuniquely deceive themselves of is that they will ultimately be appreciated by women for their sacrifices. Learn this now, you won’t”
You’re a utility Honour is not a feminine trait If you like be deceived by society If you like waste your life trying to understand them. Lesson & advice to singles without kids and I tut bible says go into the world and multiple, if u no pregnant that woman she will leave you for another man ,stay there dey speak big English |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by yinkeys(m): 2:38pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
edunaragold: and I tut bible says go into the world and multiple, if u no pregnant that woman she will leave you for another man ,stay there dey speak big English If she leaves so. I will leave too. It’s stupid to have only one gf You don’t know women prefer to date monsters. They’re all for rent 1 Like |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Theboy21: 2:40pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
See madness o, after paying her bride price, spending lot of cash she get mind to do anyhow, she carry any child come your house? you better tell her to return with your innocent children back or else she should be ready to take care of all the responsibilities there herself, Op must be too damn soft for his wife to get this kind mind 1 Like |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Lari03r(m): 2:40pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
No one can advise you better on how to manage your wife but try to complete your house now that she isn't around.
Some women act unreasonably out of anger while they have very little to offer in terms of help.
She's the one losing as things stand. Because what she could have achieved with patience، she feels violence and anger can do it faster.
Focus on yourself. When she becomes hungry she will return to you with your kids. As long as you didn't chase her out, you are not necessarily obliged to send her money.
She already has a plan to sustain herself don't let her use your children to blackmail you.
Couples should communicate and be reasonable. |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Xtopherwalkings: 2:45pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
lies lies lies, I never knew I would find someone I know on nairaland. This MaN fall my hand na so all men dey lie for there wife head. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Wazobia2216: 3:01pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
edunaragold: himm its very hard to be a wish man especially in the mist of a woman who concluded before seeing result Do to her what you wish her to do to you. If you think of it, you might also realize that she's not doing what she's doing out of selfishness! Currently, this economy no funny You were paying house rent and feeding them You can still build and feed them |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Xtopherwalkings: 3:01pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Wazobia2216:
not in a bitter way! He is lying and you have read through it, that same wife advice him to build that house forced him to buy that land. |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Nobody: 3:07pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Nwodosis: How do we get to hear her own side of the story? No matter how had you try to paint her of not being a good wife, there no smoke without fire. Your problem with your wife is not finance but TRUST issues! Who no wan answer Landlady? Did you carry her along in the purchase of the land and the building project? Did she contribute in the design or in the choice of the property location? Is the said property bearing only your name or both of your names? I bet you never carried her along and she felt insecured. She wants her own business for financial security because your actions made her feel insecured. I advise, you swallow your ego and bring her back and apologize with style.
You're a SIMPle man |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by tunjilana: 3:09pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
edunaragold: To be brief, happy Sunday everon ,indeed marriage is a blessing but has it's ups and downs, MY wife left to east angrily ,and without thinking the consequence of tomorrow, she left ignorantly as money no dey flow again somehow ,but am not saying she marries me for money sake OK,but she is impatience and ignorances,,but somebody somewhere may be remotting her as she has no dad,,now am all alone,this is a woman I paid all and married before white and traditional igbo marriage before touching her, so money were no longer flowing like before and we had ups and down, while the house rent increase skyrocketly and I decide to build my own house ,since then I have not know peace .pls ladies in the house,is it bad if become a young landlord, would not my wife be a young landlady too.
The problems is my wife thinks given her the money for business would be better than building. She sees me as a wicked man, she has relocated back and non of her families has called to ask what is going on,pls mothers ,and great men,was I wrong in building, or should I have taking that money to established my wife,knowing full well that once the house is half way ready I can get few tenenat to rent and use that money join another cash to support her business. The worst part is that I have stop building just to favour her ,I send few of my business profit to her while my uncomplicated building with things I have paid for still lies in the hands of the sells since 6 months now,only coming to repay my rent again. (1) Pls should I stop sending her money ,so she will learn her lesson to be patience if owu done blow her,she may return with the kids ,and use that money to finish up the building in 5months,just a 2bedroom flat ,and 3 extra self con Or
(2) should I abandoned the building and keep sending her money at the other end,while I wash my plate,Cook by my self , wash my cloth, and still act as a gentleman ,and snurb the temptation of looking outside since she don't cares any more. And when a woman leave a man house without a good reason or violence, mothers and ladies we all know the wife has left an open doors for another woman .meanwhile another more beautiful lady is knocking and conjeee dey hold me each time ,bit I kept saying the devil you know is better than the angel one don't know .
Complete your house Get a lawyer to write her the terms for legal separation, which must include access to your kids while u provide money for education and feeding...watch if anything changes but zero ur mind Move on...but ensure you remain in your kids life through the law |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Wazobia2216: 3:11pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Xtopherwalkings: He is lying and you have read through it, that same wife advice him to build that house forced him to buy that land. To be honest his story no add up. Have a tenant like that, he kept pushing the wife to the wall, he thought the woman has no where to go, the woman after much petting left. She eventually got help, starts a business and has moved to a new apartment she rented He on his own part tried dating other women till date, none has stayed, none has taken care of him like his ex Now he's back looking for her, the woman in question no longer picks his call You see, sometimes people don't appreciate what they have till they lose it! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 3:13pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
edunaragold: To be brief, happy Sunday everon ,indeed marriage is a blessing but has it's ups and downs, MY wife left to east angrily ,and without thinking the consequence of tomorrow, she left ignorantly as money no dey flow again somehow ,but am not saying she marries me for money sake OK,but she is impatience and ignorances,,but somebody somewhere may be remotting her as she has no dad,,now am all alone,this is a woman I paid all and married before white and traditional igbo marriage before touching her, so money were no longer flowing like before and we had ups and down, while the house rent increase skyrocketly and I decide to build my own house ,since then I have not know peace .pls ladies in the house,is it bad if become a young landlord, would not my wife be a young landlady too.
The problems is my wife thinks given her the money for business would be better than building. She sees me as a wicked man, she has relocated back and non of her families has called to ask what is going on,pls mothers ,and great men,was I wrong in building, or should I have taking that money to established my wife,knowing full well that once the house is half way ready I can get few tenenat to rent and use that money join another cash to support her business. The worst part is that I have stop building just to favour her ,I send few of my business profit to her while my uncomplicated building with things I have paid for still lies in the hands of the sells since 6 months now,only coming to repay my rent again. (1) Pls should I stop sending her money ,so she will learn her lesson to be patience if owu done blow her,she may return with the kids ,and use that money to finish up the building in 5months,just a 2bedroom flat ,and 3 extra self con Or
(2) should I abandoned the building and keep sending her money at the other end,[/b]while I wash my plate,Cook by my self , wash my cloth, and still act as a gentleman ,and snurb the temptation of looking outside since she don't cares any more. And when a woman leave a man house without a good reason or violence, mothers and ladies we all know the wife has left an open doors for another woman .meanwhile another more beautiful lady is knocking[b] and conjeee dey hold me each time ,bit I kept saying the devil you know is better than the angel one don't know .
Am I the only one that read that bolded side and went blank , he went from being a victim to subtly threatening his marriage in half a second , like because you wash your hand by yourself you want to cry , she even took the two children and she's taking care of them , how much are you even sending that is making you talk , and you're here about another opportunity for another woman , you don't mean it? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by tunjilana: 3:15pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Nwodosis: How do we get to hear her own side of the story? No matter how had you try to paint her of not being a good wife, there no smoke without fire. Your problem with your wife is not finance but TRUST issues! Who no wan answer Landlady? Did you carry her along in the purchase of the land and the building project? Did she contribute in the design or in the choice of the property location? Is the said property bearing only your name or both of your names? I bet you never carried her along and she felt insecured. She wants her own business for financial security because your actions made her feel insecured. I advise, you swallow your ego and bring her back and apologize with style.
You dont marry a man and the next thing on your mind is how to get your name on properties u didnt finance!!!...She should have exercised patience and win her husband's trust...it is not given but earned. Did she bring financial security from her parents' house?...if it was that easy why didnt she start the business before marrying him? She has to exercise patience and follow the man's plans, especially when she isnt contributing financially...through her loyalty and calmness, the man will gradually do all the things you mentioned...In this days of anyhow divorce, you expect a man to start putting his wife (of how many years sef) name on properties they didnt co-fund within the first few years of marriage?....If she was the one building alone will she put the husband's name....In her situation all she eeded was calmness and support, atleast there is no record of the guy not providing her with her necessary needs....All the other lofty dreams like setting up a business will come with time, atleast she didnt achieve it before marriage and they still have many years ahead! |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by flokii: 3:33pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
No fvcks to give here.. some of you don't just learn or is it lack of sense we'll call it. You left your own tribe to East to pay millions for transactional marriage only to come and be disturbing our peace now that the lady you paid millions for has dumped you and is probably with one 'Emeka container' somewhere flexing life. Let's call a spade a spade, the way Igbo people raise their kids especially the girls is really terrible. all they think of is ego and more ego. |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Xtopherwalkings: 3:34pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Wazobia2216:
You see, sometimes people don't appreciate what they have till they lose it! this one don loose better thing already, make him wait for another life time. |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by frozen70(f): 4:12pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
edunaragold: . I go with you advice sir Thanks dear, am a woman, I don't support a woman over stretching a man |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by frozen70(f): 4:15pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
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Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Skullano(m): 4:42pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Wazobia2216:
So what if she remarries Will you go and live in the new building with OP She can't remarry if her bride price is not returned to her husband by her people besides if she was thinking right she leave her husband's house.. |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Skullano(m): 4:44pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Datboredberri: She's not alone, she's with his kids That will make things more easier self..e be like say children never cry for head well well. |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by edunaragold(f): 4:49pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
Am I the only one that read that bolded side and went blank , he went from being a victim to subtly threatening his marriage in half a second , like because you wash your hand by yourself you want to cry , she even took the two children and she's taking care of them , how much are you even sending that is making you talk , and you're here about another opportunity for another woman , you don't mean it? everybody and his own opinion, thanks |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by edunaragold(f): 5:16pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Skullano:
That will make things more easier self..e be like say children never cry for head well well. . Laugh wan kill me lol |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Reggaemich(m): 6:40pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Xtopherwalkings: He is lying and you have read through it, that same wife advice him to build that house forced him to buy that land. is like u know the couples involved Is the man saying the truth I think building or completing the house is for the betterment of them both |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by diogo23: 9:22pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
edunaragold: To be brief, happy Sunday everon ,indeed marriage is a blessing but has it's ups and downs, MY wife left to east angrily ,and without thinking the consequence of tomorrow, she left ignorantly as money no dey flow again somehow ,but am not saying she marries me for money sake OK,but she is impatience and ignorances,,but somebody somewhere may be remotting her as she has no dad,,now am all alone,this is a woman I paid all and married before white and traditional igbo marriage before touching her, so money were no longer flowing like before and we had ups and down, while the house rent increase skyrocketly and I decide to build my own house ,since then I have not know peace .pls ladies in the house,is it bad if become a young landlord, would not my wife be a young landlady too.
The problems is my wife thinks given her the money for business would be better than building. She sees me as a wicked man, she has relocated back and non of her families has called to ask what is going on,pls mothers ,and great men,was I wrong in building, or should I have taking that money to established my wife,knowing full well that once the house is half way ready I can get few tenenat to rent and use that money join another cash to support her business. The worst part is that I have stop building just to favour her ,I send few of my business profit to her while my uncomplicated building with things I have paid for still lies in the hands of the sells since 6 months now,only coming to repay my rent again. (1) Pls should I stop sending her money ,so she will learn her lesson to be patience if owu done blow her,she may return with the kids ,and use that money to finish up the building in 5months,just a 2bedroom flat ,and 3 extra self con Or
(2) should I abandoned the building and keep sending her money at the other end,while I wash my plate,Cook by my self , wash my cloth, and still act as a gentleman ,and snurb the temptation of looking outside since she don't cares any more. And when a woman leave a man house without a good reason or violence, mothers and ladies we all know the wife has left an open doors for another woman .meanwhile another more beautiful lady is knocking and conjeee dey hold me each time ,bit I kept saying the devil you know is better than the angel one don't know .
Whatever that happened stop given her money since she left without your consent, that's my little advice |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by diogo23: 9:25pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Nwodosis: How do we get to hear her own side of the story? No matter how had you try to paint her of not being a good wife, there no smoke without fire. Your problem with your wife is not finance but TRUST issues! Who no wan answer Landlady? Did you carry her along in the purchase of the land and the building project? Did she contribute in the design or in the choice of the property location? Is the said property bearing only your name or both of your names? I bet you never carried her along and she felt insecured. She wants her own business for financial security because your actions made her feel insecured. I advise, you swallow your ego and bring her back and apologize with style.
Jezz what kind of childish advice is this? Build a house rent it get enough and start up a business for her and stop paying rent, the wife should understand it |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by finishmatter: 9:27pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
One thing I don't get is Why do married men loose peace when their wives leave them?
U mean, are men this weak?.
Any woman that leaves her matrimonial home should Neva be allowed back. It simply means she is not interested in the marriage.
Any woman that leaves my house will Neva come back. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by HarunaWest(m): 9:39pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
edunaragold: To be brief, happy Sunday everon ,indeed marriage is a blessing but has it's ups and downs, MY wife left to east angrily ,and without thinking the consequence of tomorrow, she left ignorantly as money no dey flow again somehow ,but am not saying she marries me for money sake OK,but she is impatience and ignorances,,but somebody somewhere may be remotting her as she has no dad,,now am all alone,this is a woman I paid all and married before white and traditional igbo marriage before touching her, so money were no longer flowing like before and we had ups and down, while the house rent increase skyrocketly and I decide to build my own house ,since then I have not know peace .pls ladies in the house,is it bad if become a young landlord, would not my wife be a young landlady too.
The problems is my wife thinks given her the money for business would be better than building. She sees me as a wicked man, she has relocated back and non of her families has called to ask what is going on,pls mothers ,and great men,was I wrong in building, or should I have taking that money to established my wife,knowing full well that once the house is half way ready I can get few tenenat to rent and use that money join another cash to support her business. The worst part is that I have stop building just to favour her ,I send few of my business profit to her while my uncomplicated building with things I have paid for still lies in the hands of the sells since 6 months now,only coming to repay my rent again. (1) Pls should I stop sending her money ,so she will learn her lesson to be patience if owu done blow her,she may return with the kids ,and use that money to finish up the building in 5months,just a 2bedroom flat ,and 3 extra self con Or
(2) should I abandoned the building and keep sending her money at the other end,while I wash my plate,Cook by my self , wash my cloth, and still act as a gentleman ,and snurb the temptation of looking outside since she don't cares any more. And when a woman leave a man house without a good reason or violence, mothers and ladies we all know the wife has left an open doors for another woman .meanwhile another more beautiful lady is knocking and conjeee dey hold me each time ,bit I kept saying the devil you know is better than the angel one don't know .
Keep sending her money for your childrens upkeep and marry someone else. Afterall you were living your life before you met and decided to marry her. Don't allow a worthless banny frustrate you due to entitlement mentality. They are Nothing. Absolutely Nothing. |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by RichardRandy: 10:06pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
We hvnt heard her own side of story |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Xtopherwalkings: 11:03pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Reggaemich: is like u know the couples involved
Is the man saying the truth
I think building or completing the house is for the betterment of them both i know the couple very well, he is lying and I'm just disappointed in him. Honestly he just lost my respect. |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Truvelisback(m): 11:27pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
edunaragold: To be brief, happy Sunday everon ,indeed marriage is a blessing but has it's ups and downs, MY wife left to east angrily ,and without thinking the consequence of tomorrow, she left ignorantly as money no dey flow again somehow ,but am not saying she marries me for money sake OK,but she is impatience and ignorances,,but somebody somewhere may be remotting her as she has no dad,,now am all alone,this is a woman I paid all and married before white and traditional igbo marriage before touching her, so money were no longer flowing like before and we had ups and down, while the house rent increase skyrocketly and I decide to build my own house ,since then I have not know peace .pls ladies in the house,is it bad if become a young landlord, would not my wife be a young landlady too.
The problems is my wife thinks given her the money for business would be better than building. She sees me as a wicked man, she has relocated back and non of her families has called to ask what is going on,pls mothers ,and great men,was I wrong in building, or should I have taking that money to established my wife,knowing full well that once the house is half way ready I can get few tenenat to rent and use that money join another cash to support her business. The worst part is that I have stop building just to favour her ,I send few of my business profit to her while my uncomplicated building with things I have paid for still lies in the hands of the sells since 6 months now,only coming to repay my rent again. (1) Pls should I stop sending her money ,so she will learn her lesson to be patience if owu done blow her,she may return with the kids ,and use that money to finish up the building in 5months,just a 2bedroom flat ,and 3 extra self con Or
(2) should I abandoned the building and keep sending her money at the other end,while I wash my plate,Cook by my self , wash my cloth, and still act as a gentleman ,and snurb the temptation of looking outside since she don't cares any more. And when a woman leave a man house without a good reason or violence, mothers and ladies we all know the wife has left an open doors for another woman .meanwhile another more beautiful lady is knocking and conjeee dey hold me each time ,bit I kept saying the devil you know is better than the angel one don't know .
Oga, look for another woman. |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Richy4(m): 6:56am On Feb 28, 2022 |
Oga would u kindly clarify some thing for me...While reading an article,I always try to read between the lines to cover up lapses.. but @ some point, I got confused...
<<<You said u refused to give her money to establish a business right? So what money were u giving to her that made u abandon your project?....was it an upkeep money for the family that u were referring to as " the money u gave to her" .....or was it for her to use it to start up a business?
<<<The subtle innuendo at the end of your article speaks volume buddy... Are u sure u were not maintaining an extra home? Maybe She learnt about it and disappeared with the kids..
<<<Just asking all these questions because it sounds odd that u abandon your project, gave her your profit u would have channeled into your project, she accepts it, thanked you then disappeared with the kids....
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Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by Acidosis(m): 7:44am On Feb 28, 2022 |
Nwodosis: How do we get to hear her own side of the story? No matter how had you try to paint her of not being a good wife, there no smoke without fire. Your problem with your wife is not finance but TRUST issues! Who no wan answer Landlady? Did you carry her along in the purchase of the land and the building project? Did she contribute in the design or in the choice of the property location? Is the said property bearing only your name or both of your names? I bet you never carried her along and she felt insecured. She wants her own business for financial security because your actions made her feel insecured. I advise, you swallow your ego and bring her back and apologize with style.
No part of the law says a man must establish his wife. Let's get that straight. This man probably paid millions of Naira as bride price. Why on earth should a man take the responsibility of setting up a business for his wife? We men are the ones placing too many irresponsible responsibilities upon ourselves. No wrong in establishing your partner, if you have the means. But how dare you blame the man if he refuses to do that, to the point of moving out of your home? Has he committed any crime? If the woman needs a job she should go out there and send job applications. Na husband she marry, not a Human Resources personnel or Venture Capitalist. If she wants her own business like you rightly stated, she should approach a bank and get a loan! As for upkeep, it is totally the man's responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Has abandoned me took our 2sons away ,I need ur opinion by NoToPile: 8:51am On Feb 28, 2022 |
Something is not right about this story.
Doesn't sound right.
I don't buy it. 2 Likes |